Can you hear yourself?, Your attitude speaks ill of you!

You have been treating me like trash, you have failed to give me that respect I truly deserve from you, there is nothing that I do that makes you happy, every time we have discussion it must surely end with quarrel, I have done everything I know I can to make you have little respect for me and control the way you talk to me, yet you don't seem to find a way to deal with  this your constant abuse you always give to me each time we have little misunderstanding and argument.

Can't we talk and act like two mature adults we are?

Must you always see me as your rival each time we are having a discussion or deliberating on issues that concerns us?

I must confess that I am so fade up with this constant irritating and disgusting attitude of yours you always throw at me, I am so tired of it please. I must advise you my dear, if we continue with this lifestyle in this our relationship, I bet you we will end up not making any good head way at all.

This little drama you read now was what happened today between my neighbor and his wife as I woke up to leave for work, and this has been happening in so many people's lives and relationships around the world. You may say it's has not happened to me before and I will not allow myself go through this kind of torture, embarrassment, or receive this kind of insult from any person in my life be it my husband, my wife, my boyfriend or even from my girlfriend. You may have control over it now that you are still single but when you are married tomorrow and you are faced with this kind of challenge, I tell you, you will be confused and may not know how to handle the situation.

Whenever one is faced with this kind of challenge, it is so difficult to make a positive head way in your relationship, everything in such a relationship gets stuck at a place, no progress, no happiness and peace of mind in the relationship. All the plans you may want to carry out for the betterment of your relationship ends up not being achieved. If you are the victim, even when you go out to your work place, you will not have rest of mind to make a positive input in your work, you may lack focus all through the time you were faced with this challenge from your partner in your relationship.

People may not trust you enough to hand over certain projects and business deals to you because they feel you can't concentrate due to your physical, mental and emotional state of mind at that moment of your life challenges.

For the person found with such character, people may not want to associate themselves with you because your attitudinal approach towards things does not paint good picture about you in the minds of people around you, your attitude surely will scare good opportunities that may want to come your way, no rest of mind or peace of heart when you live with such kind of attitude. No matter how you try to cover your bad attitude away from people, once you have not dealt with your attitude and find a way to make things right with you, you will surely not hide it away from yourself and from people for a long time, because this is what and who you are, one day it will surely show and people will see your true self.

No matter how you may try to understand it in life, always remember that a bad attitude is like a flat tire. You can’t go anywhere until you change it. Nothing good comes with bad attitude except you have a rethink and do all you can to change it to better. You may not understand the importance of having a good attitude in life, but I know that there are lots of positive effects and advantages attached to good attitude. If you want to feel and experience the positive effects and advantages attached to good attitude, you have to do all you can to live better, right and show good attitude to yourself and to that next person sitting next to you so you can feel and experience the consolations that comes with good attitude.

To live with good attitude does not actually cost a fortune in life, it's a matter of choice and personal decision to accept being good and doing good at all time and live it out in your daily life. No matter what you do in life, bad attitude can not give you that peace of mind you are hoping to get from yourself and from people around you. Why not start now and be of good attitude and behaviour to yourself, to your partner and to that person you may meet on your way out.

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