Be you, do you, for you.

Hello everyone, I want to appreciate you this moment, also encourage you to continue being yourself and doing your best in making sure that we preach the gospel of good knowledge, goodwill and positive ideas to the world through this great platform called read.cash. I can't stop loving read.cash for the effort and love so far.

I have come to understand that the only friend you have in this life is yourself, you may not understand this I am saying now until you find yourself in a situation that will warrant every thing turn their back on you. The feeling is so overwhelming, very unimaginably sad and very painful. During this period, you are left alone to fight your battles and worries all by yourself, it will be as if the whole world have come to fight against you. Your emotions and feelings will be tensed up with so much confusion, fear and unstableness.

In worst case, you may begin to lose your faith, start having serious doubt about everything that you have lived your whole life to believe in. Nothing ever will seem right any longer to you because you have gone far with so much depression and mental stress due to over thinking.

And if it continues to linger more, you begin to avoid seeing people, isolate yourself from people and lock yourself up emotionally, physically and psychologically away from people and things all becuase you felt disappointed with the way they all turned their back on you. And when this goes out of hand, you may end up losing your sanity or even lose your life in the end.

Let me ask you this one important question;

Is that truly how you want your life to end up when you are faced with such fate?

Listen my friend, no matter the level of challenges and problems your life is in right now, that should not make you fall apart and lose everything you have worked hard to build by yourself. Even when that one person you really love so much decides to break your heart and start loving another, even when your heart is so much in pain because of the disappointments you received from that one person you were so much In-love with, even when that business deal you have hoped to get suddenly failed to click, even when your family you showed so much love and care all your life with them wakes up one day and all of a sudden turns their back on you just because of one little misunderstanding, even when everybody decides to turn their back on you for no just reason, that should not give you a reason to hate yourself, torture yourself and turn against yourself.

The best option you surely need at that moment of your challenges and problems is to be you, do you and for you.

Being yourself I mean is to take control of the entire situation you find yourself, finding the best way to stay focused and positive at all times. Even when the people and things you trusted with your heart disappoints you, you should fight your fears and try to take control of the situation and never give in to defeat.

Try all you can to make yourself happy, put yourself at the place where your heart, soul and mind will find peace of mind during the period of your troubles. Locking yourself up and torturing yourself is not the way to find the best answer to your problems, do things that will encourage you to move ahead.

And finally, live for yourself, stay alive and be for yourself. Do not allow all your pain and sadness to turn your lights out, always go for the things that will enlighten your moment so that you can live longer and stay happy always. When your heart is broken and rejected by the people you love and trusted, do not kill yourself over them, just stay focused and believe that one day, even when they have left you, they will remember your goodness and miss your absence in their lives someday. So I tell you, don't hurt yourself rather be yourself, do yourself good and stay strong for yourself.

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