Wives aren't able to decorate for their husbands. As soon because the husband enters the house, the identical dusty face, thick body, rotten clothes, dry hair, making a masculine voice, makes a face and says in anger, "Are you here?"
Here the husband gradually begins to maneuver off from his wife, then he becomes more curious about mobile, television, and friends than his wife. If the fear of God is a smaller amount then he encompasses a relationship with women outside ... !!!
Everyone wants his wife to seem young, fresh, and exquisite, everyone wants his wife to speak in a very romantic way, but the solution from women is that it doesn't happen after children, who will be sure of the kids Who will do the housework, altogether these cases the condition of someone gets worse ... !!!
And then the result's that husbands are busy on their mobiles, friends are busy, they do not get distracted from work, they are available home late ... !!!
It is clear that when the sentiments of Abdul Ghafoor come from inside the wife, then the husband has got to give priority to mobile and television only, he needs to give priority to friends only. ... ???
If a girl greets her husband with smiles, keeps the atmosphere of the space romantic, prepares herself for the husband, makes the sunshine, adopts softness in her voice while lecturing the husband, then the husband should escape from his friends. I will be able to bring leave from the office soon ... !!!
This is the command of Allah. keep the beauty for your husband in order that the husband is also smitten together with his wife, so he might not commit major sins, and therefore the veil is commanded from non-mahrams, but here it's the entire opposite. Ganga is flowing within the house before of the husband ahead of the wife's hands smelling of onions and garlic and when the identical woman goes to a marriage ceremony, remove the boxes of make-up, blow half the perfume and spray within the air, high Are wearing high heels except for her husband, it's zero by zero ... !!!
If we take an example of Intense flashlight:-
If we think an example of a beautiful and cheerful woman as an intense flashlight, If this flashlight is to put on many men or persons then this light will glow all of them equally. But If we bring this flashlight very close to only one person then it will look unique and prominent. And over this flashlight, he will see everything dim or translucent. Same as If any woman remains very close to her husband except all other relations then her husband will never take interest here and there at other women.
In some places, men even have these defects. If you attend your wife, make sure of cleanliness, keep yourself active, keep your eyes shining, keep a smile on your face, comb your hair, and use a lightweight fragrance. do not get sweaty from outside and spoil the environment with stench, don't let dryness are available in the hair of the top, what to try to if you have got a beard, keep it tidy, keep your face clean from dust and sweat, meaning Wife also likes her husband young, beautiful, fresh and active ... !!!
The purpose of all this can be that within the lifetime of a husband and wife, it's important for both of them to embellish for every other, to be ready for every other, love grows, boredom goes away, the house environment is gorgeous. Stays ... !!!
The wife's affairs are discussed more because most of the wives are so busy with children and household chores that they can't find time for the husband to brighten and groom, which causes the husband to gradually move far from the wife as above. I've got written ... !!!
In short, nowadays nobody is free, where women have lots of labor, men also burn their lives to earn a living, time doesn't pop out, the time needs to be taken out and grooming for every other. So it's vital for this relationship, if neither of them gets an opportunity for it, then I apologize that you simply are chargeable for the issues in your married life ... !!!
May the Almighty grant you success in your deeds.
So many men don't know how to respect women. Those who don't know, they always looking for sex with women. That's a reason that they are finding young and fresh women's. That's so ugly for men.