Hello my dear virtual friends.How are you today? Are you already getting ready for the longest night of the year? It is only 1 days more and we will have New Year.In this time I think the main topic is always love.So,today I will write about this.
We are brought up in the belief that the love worth having is difficult and complicated. Is that true?
In fact, love should not be the main problem in your life and the main reason for your agony. It really should not be a problem at all. You are used to romanticizing fighting for a partner and sacrificing for him. You put yourself in the last place and forget who you really are in order to adjust to the other, as you hope this will save your relationship. You believe that true love is when you show someone that you will stand by their side no matter how hard it is to love them. But the truth is, the person who is right for you will not be hard to love.
Because true love is very simple. True love is when, on a Sunday afternoon, they lie on the couch with their legs intertwined and each read their own book in silence. Love is when they go on a trip and talk to each other for the first hour of driving, and then sail into a pleasant silence. When they agree more often than they argue. When they stand by each other more often, they support and inspire each other rather than diminishing each others value. They are looking forward to a common future, as they are building the one they both really want.
Of course, there will be quarrels in any relationship. You just have to wait for the person with whom these quarrels will be a necessary evil, not something permanent. To a person who wants to resolve conflicts fairly and who strives to make the end result a victory for both, not just one person.
Love should not be a conflict. There should be no agony. It should not be dramatic, complicated and painful, but it should be simple and free.
True love does not revolve around conflict, but is harmonious. It helps you grow personally and overcome life is challenges. Because of her, they awaken only the best in each other and always act as a team. In good and bad.
Loving the person you are in a relationship with should be as natural as breathing most days. Even in the most difficult moments.
LONG LIVE LOVE!
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