It's the nature of human not to learn to mind their business. We poke our noses into other people's affair especially when we feel like we should have an opinion depending on the relationship we share even though sometimes it might not even be mutual.

Ever bumped into a friend or maybe post a picture on your social media page only to have an old schoolmate or an old buddy slide into your dm to remind you how your biological clock is ticking so fast and why you should be making some marital plans or live in regrets in the nearest future.


It doesn't matter to them if you are actually happy as an individual with a good career and a fantastic social life, marriage is the ultimate goal and if you haven't scored it then you must be doing something wrong. Even those in long lasting relationships aren't spared from this. 


It can be very annoying when someone assumes that you are incomplete because you are not married. Don't get me wrong, marriage is a beautiful thing but then must we pressure someone into it? Different people with their different priorities in life.


Anyways, now I want to be human also and ask this question. You that is reading this post, why aren't you married?😜😜 I know you will ask me back. 


As for me, I haven't found the right one. Once I do, I am definitely walking down the aisle immediately. Now, you have no excuses, tell me yours. 


If you are married, how did you come about the revelation that he or she was the right one for you?