@Probinsyana
Not too fast A holiday Tuesday for my read.cash family. I woke up early today as I needed to prepare our breakfast since my boyfriend will be here anytime soon from work. Though my body doesn't want to get up from bed I have to as I have to do the cooking (material wife ang peg). So I guess I will be preparing some scrambled eggs and of course a fried dried fish, who wouldn't want that? I mean I love this combination. I also never forget to prepare some milk for me and for him as we need calcium so bad. Moreover, let's talk about my topic for today, I hope you won't get bored reading it hehehe. We have been living together for almost 1 year with his parents and I don't like the feeling anymore. I'm not overreacting here, it's just unusual. I mean I want to have our own, where I could do everything I want. I guess that's what everyone else wishes, right? To have our so-called "own home" it will take so much time and effort. The feeling of living with others is not good, especially when I feel that something is strange or I don't like the way they treat. Yes, I am like a visitor and don't have the right to decide, however, we are also paying for what we are using. We are the one who provides our food, and split the bills. We are quite independent but it's better if we are far from them, so we could discover things on our own. I don't like when we have fights and they keep asking what the reason is. It's our privacy, why not bother to share it? I don't like it if they keep on telling us what to do, whereas they also did the same. I don't like it if they keep on asking us the things that they shouldn't.
That's why I am really pursuing to have our own, actually his parents already gave us a house. However, we have changed the roof since it leaks when it rains so we really need some cash for it of course the wood also needs to change which I guess that could be around $200 or more excluding the needed renovation for it. But I'll save for it whatever it takes since I'm really excited to live on our own where I can move peacefully. Where I can eat whatever I want, where no one will interrupt, where I can or can't clean but still okay. Where I'm free. Believe it or not, it's not good to live with your partner's parents. I don't know but I guess I alre putting pressure on my boyfriend as I keep on telling him about it. I am open to him when it comes to what I don't like and want. It just sucks to be here, maybe he doesn't understand what I feel since they are his family but he will if he lives with my family. This might take more months from now. I'm willing to wait. I'm pursuing it co'z this is my dream to have our own home, to live peacefully and freely.Not too fast, since the money said so hahaha. Not too fast because this is not the right time yet but when the perfect timing comes I'm pretty sure that would be so worth the wait. But again that would be as soon as possible co'z I don't want to disrespect anybody especially with his family ( I'm not like that). Hopefully, God will grant my wish and I'm looking forward to any sign of it. `That would be for now my lovelies! I need to sleep again since I'm almost sleepless last night. Keep rocking on top!` Images are taken from Facebook.com Thank you my generous sponsors ❤️
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Living together with your partner's parents house is sometimes disadvantageous for you. There are times you guys are not in good terms when it comes to paying bills and whatsoever.
Mas maganda talaga kapag nasa sariling bahay kana. Makakagalaw ng ayun sa gusto mo. Good thing nayang $200 mo basta magaling lang ang carpentero.
Pwede din naman yung partner ko yung gagawa para mas tipid
I believe you'll be able to live independently my friend. Take it gradually. Soon, you'll be able to achieve what you're aiming in the first place.
Thank you, be positive lang
Sobrang totoo sis. It's better talaga pag may own home kasi comfortable kayo lagi. Iba talaga pag nakatira sa inlaws sis hindi ka kumportable. Soon sis alam ko makabuild din kayo ng partner mo ng sarili niyong house. Unti untiin lang sis. Oo sis perfect breakfast ko na yan yung scrambled eggs then dried fish. 🤤
Yun nga sis soon😊
Mas ok jud para walay mangialam.
Gani ye ayy, dili ko gusto ma stress 🤣
Kakapoy ra mastress oy ahaha
Iba kasi talaga ang feelinv kapag may sarili kayunh bahay na matatawag nyong inyo sis. Dba? Push mo yan sis, para naman makahinga ka na namg maluwag.
True sis, soonest.
iba talaga pag nakatira ka sa in laws .need kang mg ingat sa mga galaw mo at kung mg aaway kayo ng hubby or partner mo di ka pwede mgwala or umiyak ng malakas kasi nakakahiya naman hehehe.tas ang hirap din pg yung mga sis in laws mo mga tamad hehehe
True sis, kahit lumabas lang tatanungin kapa san ka pupunta, anong bibilhin ko, ganon.
kami nga kahit nakabukod eh ngtatanong pa rin haysst
Totoo yan kaya thank God kami Kasi may sarili kaming Bahay dito sa maynila pero Ayaw naman mag pa Tira Ng mga relatives dito Kasi may bad history Sila sa mama ko.
I can understand your feeling, I believe God will provide for you and your partner so that you can live comfortably. There is no privacy where you are and I can feel that all will be well dear.
I just don't like the feeling when they invade our privacy
I can't really relate peor may ganitong case na nababasa ako dito and it's really bot that good daw talaga. If it's me kahit pa makakatipid if pipisan sa kanila, pipiliin ko pa rin magsarili. Para ako lang ang reyna sa bahay at di ang iba. So sana maka save kayo ng maipagawa na ung bahay 🤗
Kaya nag iipon ako para magkasarili din kami😊
Much better talaga na own mo yung house. Trust God and work hard lang kaya yan
Yahh I will in God's Will
I know exactly the feeling you are talking about here. When you are in a relationship you need your own space what you share only with your partner. That way you have the freedom from other people and their problems. I mean you don't have to know everything that's happening to them, but when you live with more than one person it can be hard. I wish you the best.
That's why I'm pursuing in renovating the house 😊 Hoping soon
In my part, there's nothing wrong living with my in-laws, as they don't care Whenever we have fight's, i can whatever I want, no pressure it's just we need to move as the rent of that apartment is quite expensive now.
Lucky in your part sis😊