People say love pure, painful sweet and dreadful all at once. Love can be seen as a basic necessity in everyones life. Everyone has their own definition of love from a variety of feelings, emotions and attitude. Love is more than physical interest it has to do with emotional attachment. Love is an intense feeling of deep affection, a great interest or pleasure in something.
Love in Filipino is pagmamahal
Love in French is amour
Love in German is liebe
Love in Howaiian is aloha
Love in Igbo is ihunaanya
Lobe in Hausa is Kauna
What is love ?
LOVE IS NEVER RUSHING INTO A RELATIONSHIP; Give time to yourself and your partner. Take things slowly everyone has a dark side which should be looked at before settling down with him or her.
LOVE IS NOT BEING JEALOUS; When you really care there is no room for jealously and possessiveness. Being possessive should be done healthy a n with understanding.
LOVE IS GIVING YOUR SELF A CHANCE; Conflicts dissent mean things won't work out, give yourself a chance because perception differs.
LOBE IS TO STOP EXPECTING; The expectations you had in mind might differ from that of your partner so do not expect much.
LOVE IS MAINTAINING PRIVACY; Your relationship should not be taken outside issues between you two should be between you two alone.
LOBE IS AVOIDING MISUNDERSTANDING; You should avoid conflicts at all times. Always hear out reasons for actions before jumping to conclusion and creating a drama.
Types of love.
Eros
Pragma
Ludus
Agape
Philla
Philautia
Storge
Mania
Eros;
Eros is all about romance, passion, and attraction. It describes the intoxicating and thrilling emotions that the initial stages of a relationship can induce.
Pragma;
This can be seen as practical love referring to the kind of love grounded in duty, commitment, and practicality.
Ludus;
Ludus is a very flirtatious and fun without the strings that come with eros and ptagma. It can also be seen in the early stages of a relationship.
Agape;
This is universal love agape is a selfless love, like the kind you might associate with saintly figures like Jesus e.t.c.
Philia;
This develops over a long lasting friendship. Its platonic but nevertheless you feel very close to those you have philia towards and you confide in them, trust and respect them on a very personal level.
Philautia;
This is love about ones self love and compassion. The relationship we have with ourselves are very important.
Storge;
This is love shared between family members friends from childhood e.t.c.
Mania;
An in balanced relationship where one person carries it. It is sometimes considered toxic.
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