First of all, I am proud to be a woman, so do you!. A woman is an adult female human. Right from childhood a female is termed "girl" and gradually she grows up to be a lady (in her teens or adulthood) and then she becomes a woman. What differentiates a girl from a woman is "MATURITY" and the ability to accept RESPONSIBILITIES surrounding her. Many times, I wonder why women cry a lot. Any small thing, you see tears and the funny part is no one can understand women. Most times, we tend to have mood swings and you had wondered why does she put up that reaction. We are just made that way.
The truth is that women are created specially and removed out of a man right from creation and nothing can ever seperate women from men. We are made for you guys. Without women, the lives of men would be so boring and not full of fun. We make the world. We are the mothers. But why do women cry? I have tried to think about this and I came up with some reasons why women cry and it seems their tears is endless.
WHY DO WOMEN CRY?
1. Not listening to their story: Women are fond of telling stories. They want to analyze everything around them and it takes a patient man to sit and listen to a woman because their words aren't short. In fact, if there is time all day for women, they will never stop talking. They want men who would listen to them explaining in details. They cry when no one is there to listen to them. They feel lonely and have much to say but they seem not to be heard. And this makes them cry especially inside of them.
2. When they are blamed after a failed marriage: I still imagined that how could the society, relatives blame all women when a marriage fails?. Is it their fault? Some people will lament and start blaming with different things like "Why didn't you wait?" "Why didn't you follow your instinct?" "You were blinded in love" "You didn't endure enough" etc. It is unfair to put all blames on a woman instead of bringing the two together. This definitely makes women cry a lot because no one is wanting to listen to them or encourage them, instead they receive blames and criticisms.
3. They are blamed for not bringing the children in the right way: This is so common in the society that I start to think "Is the woman only involve?" "Aren't they two to care for the children?". When a child is doing good and behaving very well, they conclude by saying "This is the son or daughter of Mr...." but they fail to applaud the woman's effort too but when the child goes astray, they insult and blame the woman. Where was the man? Shouldn't both be blamed for not bringing up the children in the right way?. Should we say the good child is for the father while the bad one is for the mother? No way. Inasmuch as the two owns the children, then both should get the result. This makes the woman cry a lot.
4. Commiting Adultery: This is another common thing in our culture. We believe the woman should be punished for adultery but the man goes Scot free. Irrespective of such, both of them should be given equal treatment but it isn't like that. Men are easily justified in any action they take. A man who marries more than one wife is always right but when a woman marries more than one husband, they accuse her and call her names. They are the same and one shouldn't be overlooked than the other. At this, women are not given justice and you find them bitter in their hearts because they feel men should be given same judgement as theirs.
5. She suffers for the pregnancy: We all know how the issue of rape has been a common one in the society or perhaps a situation where both lovers had promised themselves and after having sex, the lady gets pregnant, tells the man about it but he rejects and runs away. The woman is left to carry the burden all alone by herself. With this, the man is seen out there enjoying himself with other women, whereas she is there suffering. She then cries and wished the day never came.
6. Instead of Appreciation, they are embarrassed: Trying to understand the pain all women goes through. Right from when they carry the pregnancy, they take care of the home, do all house chores, cooks the food even in her condition. She gives birth again, trying to make the child sleep. The baby determines when she sleeps or do other things. When the baby finally sleeps, the woman might be sleeping or using the opportunity to clean the house, do the laundry, cook the food before the man comes in and when he enters, instead of showing care and concern, the woman receives some embarrassing and discouraging words from him. Do you think she will be happy? She is seen crying because the man never thinks of her or what she has been going through.
Women cry a lot and when there isn't enough attention, love and care from the husband, to the society, the world looks shallow to them. Women needs someone to cherish them.
These are reasons I have come up with on why women cry a lot. Reading this, I believe different thoughts would start coming to you and if you are someone who is hostile to your wife or girlfriend, I think giving it a change would help her to be happy within her even though her cry never stops.
-Im proud to be a woman, because my tears are spend in most valuable things..and the reasons that you have mentioned really a fact and it only shows how loving and naturally kind hearted woman are..