Living a happy Life.

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You would agree with me that we are living in a life full of so many things happening around us. Disappointments, dejection, delay, frustration, depressed mind, anxiety etc but amidst all, we can choose to be happy.

We have the choice to control things in our lives. When we are able to control things happening to us, we tend to control negativity too. The truth is that we allow things to get to us and weigh us down. Even the Bible says "as a man thinks, so he is". It is what we harbour in our mind that would reflect our personality. Regardless of what we are passing or going through, we can choose to remain happy always. When you also discuss to a decent person, it will assist with soothing pressure and help you handle your feelings. You can choose to take part in exercises with your companions like playing games, having to jog around, do some pushups etc, this will build your energy. We feel happy and joyful when we help other people, this will bring happiness to them, so will it bring same feeling to you also.

Contemplate every one of the occasions where somebody has given you a hand, and how that filled your heart with joy better. The effect you make when you help other people is satisfying and a major wellspring of joy that you can take advantage of. Another choice is to be generous with your time, money and energy. Provide for people who do not have but you have it. You may not need something which is in your possession, but willingly giving it out to those who do not have it brings such great feeling of Joy to you.


Do you know this platform is a society on its own, full of different individuals sharing similar ideas and opinions? The society has given to you and giving back to people who make up the society will definitely bring happiness to you. Decide to be happy.

When you also let go of people who do not contribute to your growth, instead of staying with toxic friends, that do not make any meaningful impact on you. So, let go of them and you will see how happy and Joyful you would be.

Once in a while, there are individuals who you thought are intended for the long time, however they simply will not remain. Try not to take it against yourself. Acknowledge that they must be with you for some time. You can only flashback to the memories you had together and be ardent to what you have gained from them. Abandon the feelings of hatred and grudges. There are some individuals who have harmed and hurt you and more awful, there are also some who do not know how to apologise for what they have done. Instead of relinquishing those scenarios, you choose to aggravate your hurt and keep malice with them. Let go as this will bring peace within you. Try not to let them take away that valuable moment from you. Give up and move on.

The main thing you can do is to give up and push ahead. Keep every one of the illustrations, yet let go. When you give up, it frees your mind and make it light.

One hindrance behind why you can't live an essential life is because you choose to compare yourself to others. You tend to live their own lives instead of being contented with the way you are. It is until you realize that we are born indifferent and have different goals and time, would you remain a sad person all your life.

Don't try to live beyond what you have. Cut your coat according to your size and you will feel happy when you only focus and concentrate on becoming the best version of you. Why can't you focus on how to become fulfilling instead of wasting your time wanting to spend your money in an expensive cafe or restaurant because your friends are going there? Be innocuous and plain with yourself.

Make a stride back from the bustling scene and understand that living basically can likewise give you satisfaction. The activities of one cheerful individual can make a gradually expanding influence that can in a real sense change the world. So be the change you wish to make. Go for satisfaction.


Thanks for reading from my blog today.

|October 05, 2021|

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Yes princess. Live life to the fullest. Always be happy. Don't waste our time for sadness but use it into a happiness life. It help us a lot to have a peaceful life.

Happy life is a greatest joy we have. Move on and start a new beginning. Don't lock yourself to the things make you lonely. Don't let yourself enter in the world of toxicities. Choose the happy one. Make your life easier.

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2 years ago

God bless you for this feedback from you.

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2 years ago

Thank you so much princess.πŸ₯°β€οΈ

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2 years ago

One's decision to be happy is all that is required to stay strong and become a better person. Irrespective of the situation, the desire to remain wjom we are still rests solely on our shoulders

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2 years ago

Another brilliant one from our Princess. If anyone wants to travel fast then that person needs to travel light. We need to rid ourselves of toxic people so we can truly stay happy. Happiness is a state of the heart and not based on what we have. Thankfulness depends on what is in our hearts rather than what is in our hands. Our choices contribute to how happy we can be.

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2 years ago

I appreciate your feedback. Toxic People or relationship should be discarded if we want to live happily.

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2 years ago

Gbam! Yes ke.

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This life is meant to occupy only one type of you, you are uniquely made, definitely your path will be different, like you said cut your coat according to size because the damage , the loss only you would bear it and people will blame you for not being real enough πŸ˜‘

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2 years ago

You are very right. We need to be ourselves and not trying to live beyond our own standard. Thank you for your comment.

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2 years ago

You compare yourself with others because you think you're in the same race. We're all unique with our various specialties. Peace comes when we stop comparing ourselves with others

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2 years ago

That is it. Thank you for stopping by.

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2 years ago

The fact is that nothing is good or bad, it is what we think it.We can live a happy life only with positive mindset because if something seems us bad,there must be something good in it.

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2 years ago

Yea, you are right. We have the choice to have a positive or negative thought. Whichever suits us, fine.

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2 years ago

Comparing ourselves to other people can make us unhappy especially when the person is doing far better than us. We tend to lose our happiness jn what we know how to do best because we see others making it big and ours is yet to come .

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2 years ago

I sometimes compare my life to others to be honest and the effect to me is not that good. Contentment ang loving more yourself. That's the secret of a happy life.

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2 years ago

You are right. We need to be contented with ourselves and we would see how happy we would be.

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2 years ago

I agree. I honestly lose some of my friends this year because they're not good for my mental health. It's good to be away from them and be happy and at peace.

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2 years ago

Exactly. You have taken the right step because your mental health matters a lot to you.

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In fact it's no longer "cut your cloth according to your size" it's "cut your cloth according to the material you have"πŸ˜‚. Do what you have within your means , don't do more than you can afford.

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πŸ˜…πŸ˜…πŸ˜… You are very right. I love how you rephrased it and that is the truthπŸ˜„

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Stay for whom deserves us, having few but true is better

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2 years ago

We must try to surround ourselves with positive people. And go for satisfaction :)

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2 years ago

Whenever I feel sad, and swe how just everything seemwd not going according to my expectations, I just look back and try to count all of God's blessings, that definitely outnumber all my battles. Glory be to God.

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2 years ago

Thank you for this. This is the best we should do. Instead of worrying over things that could ruin our mental and emotional well-being, we should redirect and count our blessings.

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2 years ago

I think everything here in my own understanding is about being happy which is more a personal thing or induced force rather than a public induced force.

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2 years ago

Sometimes having 100 people in our life won't make an impact while a single person would eventually do what 100 cant do.

There are times we want the crowd instead of been more concerned about their impact. This is a superb article, well done Princess.

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2 years ago

You are very right. Most times, we do not need enough people to keep going, even if it is just one friend you have and there is a positive impact, then it's good.

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2 years ago

I agree with you my beautiful princess, some tend to live their lives to impress others, by so doing they will never be contented with what they have and run into dept. This becomes a problem in their life and wouldn't be happy with themselves.

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Thank you for the reminder, Princess. It is indeed vital to guard our thoughts as it affects our mood and well-being. What we feed our mind becomes our attitude so we should make sure to choose to radiate the positive.

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Go for satisfaction.. 😁 Greediness is the cause of downfall.

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