Never regret over anything that has once made you happy in life. Never worry yourself over things you can't change in life. Don't be desperate for anything in life. When you are too desperate people know you're weak, its human nature to take advantage of the weak. Never break a promise you make to yourself.
Never allow people's judgement to put your life on hold. Anyone who cannot feel your sadness has no right to define your happiness in life. You become wise when you stopped living your life for people's attention and you become matured when you stopped reading meaning or paying attention to everything people say about you. Those who live for people's validation may die seeking their approval.
Never regret being Who you are, where you are or with the people you are BECAUSE;
It is normal when your family hates you. It is simply because your light outshines theirs.
It is normal when friends betray you. It is in the nature of men to envy or pull down those who are better than them. It is normal when your family gossips about you or even slanders you.
It is normal when your family unanimously feels you're the black sheep amongst them perhaps just because you question the way things are done and revolt against contradictory norms or tradition that conflicts your conscience and culture that maligns you.
It is normal to see the person you're ready to take a bullet for pointing gun right in your face. Sometimes your loved ones are the ones behind the trigger. Betrayal is normal so also his cousin hatred. Do not mourn when people despise, reject, deject, and scorn you. Your spirit is irritating the demons in them. And your name destroys their ego. Your presence casts shadow on their celebrated mediocrity.
It may be family or friends, it doesn't matter. Betrayal is as old as the dawn of time, Joseph, the Biblical patriarch was hated and betrayed by his brothers. Not because he disrespected or offended them but because they already knew he was destined for greatness. When Judas Iscariot betrayed our Lord Jesus, he didn't mourn it.
He accepted it as a prophecy concerning him without which he can't bruise the serpent. Absalom betrayed his father David and matched army to take over his kingdom. Yet that didn't stop God from blessing David with king Solomon the wisest King in human history neither did it stop God from sending Jesus through David's family. There are so many stories in the Bible pointing towards this same direction.
Do not go about saying:"I can't believe my family or friends are against or they betrayed or hated me"Be happy they did. For it means something great is coming your way. Such is the gasoline you'll need to fire your rocket to the highest sky.
See everyone as a friend as well as everyone as a potential enemy only by so doing will betrayal and hatred not come as surprise to you.
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