I know it's Valentine's Day, sorry if my topic is not related to this day occasion.

Happy Valentines Day.

So this is the continuation of my story about my friend's cheating husband. You can read the first part here. If I were a man

So, the day after the incident, my friend posted a TikTok video of his partner and the mistress convo. While reading it, I can't help but got angry because it seems that these two were very comfortable being sweet to each other knowing that the guy has a kid and a wife.

It was written in Bisaya language, so I'll explain to you what happened to the conversation. So the guy was about to go shower, this girl was telling him to stop chatting with her because he might get late for work. The guy jokingly said to the girl that he will take a shower unless the girl will be the one to assist him inside. Like, with is wrong with them.

If you don't like the guy, you'll probably get awkward, but this girl is something else. She just laughed like she really wanted to do it. 🤮 She even dared to call the guy "dad". How could they sleep peacefully at night knowing they have someone crying silently at night?

If I were a man, I won't do anything stupid, because once the trust is gone, it will be hard to gain back. You should always treat your woman right, imagine they've been through a lot and you will just cheat on her. That's a trauma dude.

There's more, the girl has a boyfriend. 🤧

The girl knew that the guy has already a family but still accepted its fate to be someone's mistress. As what she replied to the guy, " you're not available already", she knew exactly what she entered but still chose to go on and chose the wrong path.

The saddest part here is that, for 7 years, the guy involved in too many cheating incidents already. A lot of people told my friend to find another guy before they had a child, but my friend's love is undeniably blind.

I just feel sorry for all the single moms out there. Imagine, having to question your worth because the guy cheated on you. Imagine what trauma this guy had brought to his wife. And even a thousand "sorry" could not hide the fact that he cheated, not just once, but multiple times already.

I always see my friend's my day on Facebook. I salute her because she chose to be strong for his son. She chose to not post the conversation of his husband and mistress because she still thinks about the girl. She thinks about her reputation if ever she had done that. How sad that she has to go through this.

Bottom Line:

Cheating can affect a lot of lives. Cheating is a selfish act. You want it because only of your personal interests, but how about the aftermath? How about those people who don't know that you are dating their partner?

The most affected ones will be the children. Growing up in an incomplete family will be a traumatic experience for them.

To the man out there, please if someone flirts on you, stay away with them, especially if you already have a family.

To the single moms, thank you for being so strong. Please know that you are loved and worth it. It will never be your fault why they cheated.

Disclaimer: This is just an awareness of what happened when someone cheated on their partner.