Balance in life

One strategy that I often use in my life is of middle path. When Buddha propounded this theorem he was being realist and meeting the requirements of this mortal world. While all theories of life describe life in somewhat idealist point of view, i think middle path is strikes the chord with normal beings who are looking for simple tools to uplift their lives and alleviate their sufferings.

We come across all sorts of situations in life. I think we all are destined to learn everything life has to offer. Some learn in graceful manner while some others are thrashed by life to send a message. Both ways have their own beauty. I have been on both the sides and with certainty can say latter one is painful yet also brings more changes.

One thing that is sure about life is uncertainty. Everytime you expect something, infinite ways are there that is may not fructify yet same number of ways could make it true also. But in this game of probability the best bet is not betting yet hedging for uncertain events that may occur. What i mean by the statement is that predicting something in life is predicting failure better way to live life is to make oneself more resilient to shocks that may arise any time. Covid is a great example.

We make decisions everyday. If whenever I have to choose between two extremes I go with middle path. For example if you have your schedule for exam fixed but at the same time you also want to make some time for your loved ones, what you should do is to take middle path that is you should curate your study time table that you set aside one or two hours for your loved ones. This not only helps in studying but also keeps you sane so that you can sustain longer period of time.

Middle path is taken by individuals, society, law, countries,etc. It is one of the most practical widely accepted theory which basically portrays human mind most accurately, that is middle path is natural order of thought that is it is natural for humans to think that way.

In this fractured world with divisive forces emerging every here and there we need some practical solutions which is acceptable as most natural solution. And I believe answer lies in the history we would have to look around 2500 years back and we will reach to one of the most plausible and practical idea given by Buddha to humanity. We must act on guidance of our ancestors and solve contemporary problems.