Challenges Will Not Drown You

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A man is great, not because he has not failed but because his failures have not stopped him. No storm lasts forever. In our diverse attempts at having a good life, we work through the pages of life, trying to fix a better day or tomorrow for ourselves, and yet we never for once stopped shooting until we make the biggest catch. 

After having a breakthrough, we are not under any kind of pressure to give up anytime soon. This is so because in life, the further you go, the greater the challenge. 

Away from this matter of how we treat life, let's look at what men would have to face every passing day of life, in the bid to get their daily bread. 

Challenges Of Life Men Deal With Everyday

These challenges that will be considered in the underlying paragraphs are not restricted to men alone, women too have to go through some. You know what they say, 

"What is a sauce to the goose is also sauce to the gander."

Maturity

Where men would have to face a test to prove their maturity, irrespective of their ages, women only needed to have come to puberty to show that they are mature. The objective of this drive to life is that men are built to be providers and protectors. This shapes the man to become a life support partner to the family and society at large. 

Here, some women who have to build their pattern of growth like the masculine are somewhat prepared to belong to the men's world. 

A typical example is that of women who become single parents by either avoidable or unavoidable circumstances. You will see them doing the mob that is due to both a man and a woman at the same time, in providing the basic needs of the family and securing their lives, except proved otherwise by statutory laws. 

Living In A Dream

It is common for men to have big dreams. These dreams propel him to envision a future life from his living room. Many times the man feels accomplished ahem this dream does not play out as he planned. 

This is one reason you have more depressed men than women around the globe.

Men need more encouragement because they could get fatigued for not meeting up their dreams. 

However, we ought to know that not fulfilling a dream is not the end of life, it is rather the beginning of another end. 

Hence, we should keep trying, probably with other methods so that we can reach our goals in life. 

Rejection

To be rejected is not the end of life. Men of different categories are rejected, and women too. You would hear men say that they are rejected and as such feel humiliated not to use what they had the intention to reach. 

Men should rather build on the rejection and seek reasons why they have been rejected in the first place. 

After due consideration, they would become better persons and add value to their lives and others. 

Static Life

Some men due to low self-esteem have lived an autopilot life. They now assume that nothing works and as a result, they stay on just one side of life. The side of sleeping, eating, and nothing more. 

The life of a man is guided by the wheel power to keep pushing until the highest prize is paid. 

Generally speaking, when life tosses a lime to you, either as a man or as a woman, we should pick it up and turn it into lemonade. Life is not a bed of roses. It will never be the same thing for everyone.

It is our responsibility to be what we want to be. And know that as we thrive to get to the top of our desires, we are going to meet with a lot of stumbling blocks. 

Our life is in no small measure cheap. It is crafted to be lived and enjoyed. That is what we ought to do, live. 

A better chart erratic of life is to add value. What value are you adding to life beginning from your current location? 

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You are definitely right when you say the further you go, the more challenging things get. It's like life can't wait for one to grow and start throwing hurdles at them

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You are right. Men truly have dreams and this is why they struggled to make their lives better and to make better homes.

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