3 Main Characteristics of a Reliable Man

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For an individual to be reliable, one has to possess some characters which a woman can place trust in

Ah, Faith!

When it comes to relationships Any relationship! We hear the word a lot. However, trust plays a significantly greater part in romantic undertakings (odds are you aren't afraid about your coworkers breaking your heart, even if he drinks the last of the coffee and doesn't make anymore!)

This issue of trust is particularly important for those who have been mistreated in the past - you don't want to feel that way again! You may find yourself with a guy, trying to reconcile how to trust him or making up reasons why you should or shouldn't.

Part of you, like a tiny angel perched on your right shoulder, may urge, " Go for it!" The devil seated atop ol'lefty, on the other hand, advised you to be wary.

You find yourself torn, asking yourself over and again, "should I trust him?" Should you do it?

"Yes" is not necessary the answer, some individuals, no matter how open-minded and tolerant you are, are unworthy of your trust. However, many are deserving of the opportunity to win your trust.

Fortunately, there is a technique to determine if you can trust him and separate the good from bad. This include the three "Is."

Three important Characteristics of a Reliable Man

  1. Investing

If a guy invests in you, he sees a future in your relationship. You don't have to worry about convincing him. He's ready to do it all on his own! But what precisely does this mean

When a guy invests in a woman, he is giving her not just his presence and attention, but also his time and energy. He's making plans with her, asking her about herself, and when she responds, he put down his iPhone to listen.

He's not making plans for the future that exclude her, and he's not giving her the absolute minimum (a text or two everyday- just enough to keep her interested).

  1. Sincerity

Is the guy you are seeing honest in other aspects of life? Is he kind to you yet impolite to the waiter? Does he seem to be in good health yet spend he's days Talking about how he doesn't get along with a single coworkers (seriously, not one!)?

Does he drag about how he dined and dashed at Red Lobster or built computer code that stole money from his clients' accounts?

The topic of integrity is a simple one to solve: if a guy is honest with others, he will be honest with you. If he doesn't, you've got your answer

  1. Influence

Influence is ranked third. What exactly do we mean by this? To be honest, how receptive is your boyfriend to be stayed by you? Is he interested in what you have to say and think?

This is not to say a guy should be a puppet and not think for himself ( which is also untrustworthy); it also doesn't mean that he should alter his principles or ideas. However, he needs to make room for you and Respect your emotions.

So,ask yourself if he emotionally affirm you or dismisses and diminishes all you say, think, and feel. You can trust a guy who validates you. A guy who doesn't isn't worth your time and effort.

In conclusion

The three "Is" listed above indicate whether or not you can trust the guy you are dating. Of course, they can only lead you so far; your particular sense is also essential. If every fibre of your being tells you you are dating is full of it, he probably is.

Using the above guide, however, may help you bypass the frogs and go straight to the princes.

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You listed them well and there are even more to add to it.

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1 year ago

Definitely! But I thought there are the essential ones

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1 year ago

While the three are plausible but nowadays besides these characteristics the people's status counts and makes them reliable.

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1 year ago

Well said friend

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