While you're Yet Alone

Our minds needs no permission to think what it wants to think before it thinks it, that's why some times after you realize you have been lost in thought for some moments you sharply call yourself to other. The mind is a ground for fantasies, it goes round seeking out thoughts and desires to excite the soul and when accepted by a person it slowly builds up into becoming their personality. What goes in to a person really doesn't depict who a person is, often time we hear but we aren't listening, we see but we aren't beholding, some things we touch but we aren't feeling, so its not really what we receive in that determines us, its rather more of what we give out, remember you can't give out what you don't have, our actions can mainly be traced to our thoughts, our desires and fantasies can often be traced to our thoughts while we are alone.

Oh yes, when you are alone, not necessarily lonely, just alone, when there's no one else but just you and you can literarily listen to your spirit, soul and body, that moment where you can ponder on what you really want to ponder on, when you can imagine your true feelings without having to act up with reality, then comes our true self. Often we call ourselves to order in the day (in the presence of people) and we go crazy at night (out of sight) and that's why the night time is filled with so much energy. Everyone is being their selves, no judgement whatsoever, just letting the soul take the lead. And need I remind you that this is the most dangerous time of a persons life as well.

Its dangerous because our thoughts are uncensored, we are we cautioning it for? Ourselves, no way, who would know, if one craves to smoke or drink alcohol who is a guru to tell through reading the mind. In reality we are mostly actors during the day, acting up and putting up a nice personality, if only you can go seeing what even the great has to battle with, then you'd know we all are just human capable of the craziest of things. Most times I laugh within me when my friends parents would refer their kids to be like me, cool, respectful and well educated, I'll just say within me "if only she knew what I've done, then she will embrace her son and chase me with a baseball bat" just kidding though, but we all have flaws, yet we can't just accept it like it's okay to live with the flaws, no, life expects us to deal with it and even overcome it, then we've graduated.

So while you're alone, mind your thought, you can't stop it from coming in but you can cut it off, its the best time to speak to yourself, why you are choosing not to go along with the thought, if you can convince yourself the thought isn't productive, then you're one step away from stopping it from reoccurring. For example: if it's constant thought of alcoholism, then as soon as you fantasize with a bottle of beer and you become aware, then start thinking on why its not advisable for you to embark on such journey, remember how it had affected you negatively, the shame it brought, remember how it takes control away from you and dumps you in a crazy location when its done messing with your mind.

Should you have no personal experience think on and learn from others, that's the reason why you saw it happen or heard about it in the first instance, so you can learn right from it, life would always keep giving lessons as long as people remain on earth, because we are all bound to make a decision, which can either be good or bad and just like every seed time has it harvest, our choices and action would have a day of harvest also and it would all be an experience a lesson for yourself and others to learn from. Indeed life is a great teacher. Take no lesson for granted, you never know when you might need to reminisce on it.

So while we are alone, know we are in a powerful place and so we must be cautious, as soon as your mind gives way for your consciousness again and you realize what you have been thinking of, do yourself good to either grow on it or cut it off by bringing yourself under strict subjection depending on what the thought is, talk strictly to yourself and recall to yourself why you won't be taking such action. We can stand our ground. This again is a deliberate act. Not just mere saying but acting accordingly too. Guard the thought of your mind with all diligence and priorities. The great book says "An idle mind is the devils workshop". Great and worst things can spring forth from the mind, select what to dwell your thoughts in. Think straight guys.

Thanks great people for reading through. The mind is a powerful tool, when we are alone it brings so much energy, so do safeguard your thoughts well. Please do like, subscribe and comment below. One love y'all!