We are surrounded by people in general, then amidst the full crowd, some persons draw closer and become your friends, they came from a different background, they've got their own stories to tell, when you guys come together it's always a fun time, the play, the quarrels, the troubles, the advice, the help and the list goes on and on, yet a moment later you have either been back stabbed by that friend or you have been greatly helped by that friend. What can we do to shuffle the real friends from the fake?, is there some kind of existing Manual that help described a real friend and how we can shuffle them away from the fake friends?, well if there is, do well to prescribe to me also, I'll be needing it too.
I for one have noticed that life is a stage, and we must learn from each passing scene, so we can get a good final scene, if you aren't learning from your past mistakes, then you aren't yet taking your life serious, your life is the only one thing placed in your possession, you never came to the world clothed, never came to the world with cash in your hand, in fact you never came to the world with anything, just your life stalk naked. So if yet you have been letting yourself be tampered with, toss left and right by everyone who calls you my friend and ends up hurting you, then I guess its time to change some things, enough of the nice girl or guy, now your happiness is the goal. You should be taken seriously, let your friends know that you aren't gonna smile when they do something wrong, you are sure going to vent your anger should they appear fake.
Have you been hurt so bad, does that mean you should keep to yourself and not share valuable time with someone else, no definitely not, humans are social beings and its in our nature to communicate, its also crazy to stay isolated from people over a long period of time, I guess the corona virus taught us a few on the importance of mingling, for the period of time we were all serious about self isolation and indoor staying, it felt like we were tearing apart, but at least we could call, text also video chat, so there was something at least to fill the void, but in a case where you have no friends, no one to talk to, I doubt if you'll be comfortable for long, at least you need your family to fill that void, it just can't be left empty. So friends are essential for a healthy and happy lifestyle. So what can we do at least?
Well we know that friends have been responsible for turning around the life of their pal positively as well as negatively, the saying goes "Show me your friends and I can tell you who you are", also the Bible says " Iron sharpens iron, so does a man sharpens the countenance of his friend. But this is what has the answers to this question and I quote "wisdom is the principal thing" use your head at all times and see things for what they truly are.
Understudy the human character, know how they respond to news of your success and how they react afterwards. Also how they respond to news of your failure and their reaction thereafter too. In a competition no matter how small, when they lose to you, are they taking it too personal, are they really trying to help you succeed. Most importantly are they good people, everyone has the feel of envy and jealousy but are they trying to be good deep down, or they see no wrong in being wrong. If you were sensitive you should be able to sense a betrayal in close before the actual strike, then you aren't surprise you're just angry you were right.
True friends are a blessing from God, they can transform one's life from a place of small to great, but can we get those of pure intention in this age of though competition going around, the height of envy and jealousy is crazy, tight brothers unimaginably turning against each other, talk less of a friend. We must learn to know who we have allowed into our deep circle, Like really know them for what they truly are, cause whatever strike they make, since you're all in a circle so there's a greater chance of their strike hitting you, but should you know already cause you'd understudy them, then you can prepare before hand or better yet a counter attack back st them for messing with you.
In the quest of true friendship, it really isn't easy but its an essential for a happy lifestyle, so we can pray and hope we attract the right friends with a right state of mind and agenda.
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