To whom much is given much is expected, today's world is surrounded by people who wishes to attain a certain height without wanting to bear the hardship it brings, you want to make that money but not sweating for it, we just hope it would come easy. Believe me when I say if the process is taken away the price won't be valued, people won't respect and adore gold or diamonds if it were easy to discover, good and valuable commodities are not easily owned, same applies to the crown, to wear it isn't for everyone but only those proven worthy.
There's a difference between how the man working and toiling for the money decides to spend it compared to his son or daughter who are entitled to it spends it, back then when I was younger, I cared less than I care now, i couldn't read my dads countenance when I demanded for money, I'll just ask and grumble when its not coming as quickly as I want, but now that I also have to drop money for the family, I get upset when unnecessary bills are brought up, not long ago I called my dad to say "sir you tried a lot, how did you bear all of it".
I laugh whenever people aspire for a big position and say "yes now I can relax", i like do you know what you are saying?, maybe you think the cool Air-conditioning in your new office and the big chair in the office is because your time has come to enjoy your life, or the big salary now coming is because your life has just gotten easier, well my dear the Air-conditioning and the rolling chair alongside the huge buck of salary is because you'll need it to survive in the incoming task.
Simply because when you'll be needed to make a tough decision that can gravely affect the industry either positively or negatively and what ever the outcome would be, you're the one to be held responsible, then you'll see why you need that chair to relax your nerves, the Air-conditioning to cool your tension and the huge salary so you can settle most bills so you don't have much bothering your mind, that way the company stands a better chance of you making the right choices. The higher you climb, it doesn't get easier but instead it gets scarier and harder to get on ground to relax.
Leading your fellow humans has proven to be one hardest job to do, as nobody was program to fellow your directives, you can only do your part but the sincere devotion of the people is not in your power to make, some or even all might like you and obey, yet some might not, also all might not and just make it unbearable for their leader, its a crazy place to be, leaders enjoy the honour and fame, but its all a pay for the trouble the task is laying on them. Also let me chip in that leading humans is also one of the greatest achievement anyone can have in his or her lifetime and be proud of, the thing in it is the fact that it isn't an easy one to do.
So yesterday was international women's day and we could see how the women took over and share their part of the story, we see how women also have taken up positions and are doing perfectly fine also wearing the crown. Over the years we men have boasted in our strength and the women have watched from behind, but it clearly shown yesterday that women are now with us at the fore front and working just as required.
I saw a female painter who has painted many houses, offices, bars and the likes and she did a great job at that, also an engineer also getting her hands dirty and she got so appreciated, same way we tag the receptionist work to the females alone, now we see that the males too can make a good receptionist, the essence of this is to tell that the ability to work and wear the crown isn't always in strength but in bravery, a king is known for bravery, so if you wanna put the crown on your head, be you a he or a she it doesn't matter, all that counts is your bravery.
Its never easy to take up that position by wearing the crown, but its a great achievement and it should be taken with joy because not everyone can do it nor would everyone be able to do it throughout their life time, some people might never get to experience such, so when it comes to you, rather than shying away, learn to accept it and work to the best of your ability. Be brave and tell your self constantly that you can do it, moreover a human must take up the task, that capable human might as well be you.
Leadership roles is always an opportunity to create a needed change, it would be easier to effect a change from on top rather than amidst the normal crowd of followers. The reason why the world would still be lacking in some areas is because good people are too scared to take up high positions, for it would be clearly evident that good has reign should they stand up and be brave. Kings aren't weaklings, if so they would be killed and their kingdoms taken over, they have got to be brave, act brave and stay brave. The crown of responsibility are always heavy, but you can't wear it via your strength alone,you've got to be brave at heart.
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