Never Let Success Make You Ashamed Of These

You truly cannot fully ascertain anyone's true nature until they become successful, even the good ones who act kind to people would often say "I have to be kind and humble cause I don't know who might be my helper" as true as this statement is, what about when they already have their needs met and are now wealthy would they still bother to be good and humble, often time our true nature comes when we have gotten what we want. Yet we have clearly seen that some people are not faking it from the beginning, they remained good and pure in heart even after being wealthy or famous, which brings a conclusion that its not the money that brings the evil but the hidden desires that has been secretly nurtured during the struggle.

No matter how deep you dive in the arms of wealth and fame, there are few things you must never forget nor be ashamed of, for they hold a strong role on the person you are today, their importance may be silent but their effect wasn't, their speech might not be demanding but their words were helpful blocks in your build up. As much as you wish it was the other way around, yet you've got to still acknowledge the fact that you weren't abandoned when you were dependent and its a law of life that you in turn be independent so as to repay the kindness even as they get dependent. So there are few things you can't let success make you ashamed of, these are in no particular order:

• Parents

Its crazy when I hear teenagers get angry and scream at their parents nowadays and say "I can do just fine without you", these words hurt me so bad, just when you have been groomed and catered for all the way from birth till date, actively helped to being the person you are today, and because you've made few friends and having few option on a place to crash and the ability to make cash you suddenly remember how bad your parents are and you can do without them, well this is evil, its like waiting for your turn then calling it quit, its bad. I know this example doesn't apply to a successful person yet, but just wanted to get that off my chest, not cause of the dad mostly, the father's can easily wait for your return but the mother's would keep crying day and night, waiting on their child who has let hormones take lead over rational living.

Also to mention those who have finally became successful or famous and because your parents or family at large isn't adding up to the standard you want them to be, you decide to hide them or worst disregard them, what happen to spending on them so they could get to your taste, are they illiterates and can not learn to speak well, yet be proud of them, let them be happy with you however they are, moreover it was in that condition you were trained, so be proud and use that as a reference point to portray that good things can come from anywhere, be proud of your family.

• Good Old Friends

Have anyone told you to change your association because you want to be a better person, well they didn't mean for you to cut off from good old friends who has had only love for you, though they could not help you grow but that was because they too weren't capable of it, mostly you'll notice that people of the same hood, roaming and doing things together could be rank similar both financially and intellectually, so if anyone desires an upgrade of status its usual there's always a relocation and making of new friends, but when the success comes it's good you help them rise also, remember the good memories, let the love remain, they are happy and proud to know you and probably already expecting that you have forgotten about them, show them that everyone isn't the same, some are good and would remain good no matter what.

• Your past deeds/ hustle

And by past deeds I'm not talking about those nasty things you did, we've all done some crazy actions we aren't proud of and its best to just forget and move on, so you can forget about when you Stole, when you fought or injured somebody, your sexual exploits, your troubles caused, forget about all that, learn the lessons it has thought you and move on, but don't forget your past hustle, where you worked and dirt your hands for cash, rather tell the story and be an inspiration of hope to other people, this way they know all hope isn't lost and also push for the better.

Don't forget your old houses where you had your memories with your siblings and friends, where your early days breakfasts was served, Don't forget your past meals, those food and fruits that helped you fill up when you were famish, those tress you climbed to fetch fruits for yourself. Its not enough to be happy with where you are presently, you should look back and be happy with where you are coming from. You have won the process and have ran through the journey, now people look up to you, do let them know that if you can do it they too can, but how would they believe if you are ashamed to show them who and what brought you forth.

Its all a process, it might have been a tough journey no doubt, but you didn't do it alone, some individuals, some occurrences, some items assisted you in the push. There are many people facing a lot and are probably in a place where they are losing hope of a positive outcome, maybe truly nobody has done the extraordinary where they and so they have lost hope in the Push, yet you have seen and been through worse and have scaled through, but because of shame you're hiding such an incredible tale, come on stop being ashamed, embrace them all and let the world know that these are all part of my success story. Cheers.

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