Little Things Matter Too

The very little things you feel can't possibly matter, you'd be shocked to see that they are indeed objects of concern, one thing to note is that people differs, so does situations and occurrences, so sometimes our approaches to matter should differ dependent on how it is or who it is, but a vivid study of the person or things is a major tool to detecting the best approach. Those words you feel isn't necessary to say to her or him might just be what is needed to make it all alright. Those warmth goodbye hugs might just be what she need to keep you in her memory all through the night, that little rose flower you passed by might be want she's hoping you'd bring along while coming to visit.

Already we know it's a day of love, so permit me to channel more on lovers than on other matters of relationship. relationship is broad, everyone has a relationship with everyone, you have a relationship with me, even while you haven't seen me, if someone was to ask you "have you read any of passionates article, who is passionate? You'd just say i don't know him in person, but he's a co writer in the read cash platform, you see we have a tie, that person you don't know is your fellow country man, if a citizen of a country is kidnap in another country, the home country takes up the matter seriously because yes, you all are all related by your mother land.

So when its said love your neighbours you should know it's not secluded to your environs alone, its the world at large. So that little good, that little act of uplifting words is a plus to the world as you never know who needs it at the point in time, moreover good is never wasted, good is good, the result might not be seen so quick and so big, but its all a seed and they are sure to germinate so keep it going. Same with bad, some bad you do might not yield result or consequences but they are seed, both good or bad, they are all seed.

Just as some plants takes a month to germinate and some others take years to germinate, so also does good and bad acts, they are also seed, so be careful how you sow, its better you kill the seed before you sweat trying to cut down the tree". Hmm I've not seen that word somewhere, just thought of that, I like it, its better you kill the seed before you try so hard to cut down a tree. True words though, treat things at the early stages because it gets harder as it spends more time around and active.

So that little things too matters, those good mornings as you walk across the street, that smile as you talk back, that holding of hands, that visitation, that dinner you're cooking for the family, so many little things we are probably overlooking because we've gotten use to the person or situation, your husband face has gotten so familiar you are forgetting he still wants to be loved upon, your wives face is not intriguing anymore you don't remember to bring her a gift, my birthday you've now forgotten, oh it doesn't matter, you are still my husband, oh today is our anniversary, oh sorry honey I totally forgot, you know how things are. The love fire,the adrenaline, the tension, the blood pumping, the rush all gone cold.

Let's treat the issues seriously, if we don't want the excitement of love anymore, still don't deprive your partner from enjoying it, moreover you both promised it is going to be a nice time together, life isn't greater than love, love is the greatest force of all. If you feel life is deteriorating your love, then you need to fight it back, not for yourself, but for your other self, since you both are joined as one, you both aren't two different persons per say, you are both one body, so do it for your other self and don't be selfish. Don't let her starve of love, because you are not feeling like it, don't starve him of care because your mind is dealing with a lot, its rather self centeredness, you both have a duty to each other, keep the love hot just as you were in the beginning.

Truthfully, when kids are involved, the changes are noticeably drastic, the naughtiness is cautioned, now you are both pretending to be well behaved trying to train up your kids in the best possible way, that's right, that's true, but something can be done once in a while, you could still fix a date, go on a romantic vacation, what are you working for if you aren't gonna spoil the love of your life with goodies and excitement, moreover the fact that it's done once in a while makes it interesting as he and she has something to look out for and plan towards. The little things do matter in life, don't just overlook it, try to put a smile on peoples faces, this is a philanthropical action as you are adding more divinely recorded good to the good list in the world. Also love up on your husband or wife, make your life interesting also, love yourself. @Therandomrewarder. @TheRandomRewarder

Thanks guys, the next time you're walking or communicating, start with a smile, Share the love, keep it rolling. Please do like, subscribe and comment. Valentine might be over but true love is forever. Cheers!!