Do we really love unconditionally nowadays, can you boast of having experienced true love? What we see around are mere infatuations, we see two people trying to hang on because of the benefits they are enjoying in it. Firstly the media pressure is actively pushing people into joining the trend, its more like you're missing out, you just need someone to call your own so you too can show off to the world that you're also important, well sooner than later, such feelings would die off as reality would set in.
Gone are the days when we search for for our missing piece, someone to complete us, no not necessarily the beautiful faces or the well endowed body, it goes deeper into seeking for one who your heart connects with and you just can't spend a day without, true love has always been a decision for the heart and not a decision for the eyes to make.
Girls are no more moved by his dreams in life, they admire the talents and God given gifts, but would prefer the other guy with money at hand with no laid out plans, just as long as we have the cash at hand then we can cope, but forgetting that money has always come and stayed with brains, wisdom is also a requirement to keep the money coming, many has hit the Jack pot, but only end up smoking pots with it or doing things not productive, its only a matter of time before there's an eye opener.
The boys are not left out, they also do care less about the inward beauty and simply mesmerized with the attractiveness, already envisioning how She'll be in bed, then after that to find out she is more of a concern than she is a satisfaction. Already we see today that ladies are beginning to care less about the kitchen, our mothers prepared the food always for the family, but now there's a maid for that, do you know that the man who said that and I quote "the way to a man's heart is through his stomach" well this word is true, though not the only way as good attitude and virtuous nature is also a delight to the man. If an hungry man is an angry man, then how about the wife who knows how to feed her man, she's definitely making him a happy man.
What are your look outs when it comes to love, what do you look out for, could it be financial freedom so you don't really care about anything else, could it be looks, could it be character and attitude, could it be fame, could it be body build up, we humans have the craziest of expectations and we most times don't see a perfect fit, yet there are a few things we know must be in line, especially when we are looking into a lifetime marriage, not just some causal dating.
Its important to be with someone who's sexually appealing to you, as this prevents you from extramarital affairs, thereby saves you from the troubles and scandals. Of course its not certain that a person who's with a partner that's sexually appealing to him or her won't go out to cheat, but its a start point, at least its has its way of reducing it's probability of occurring plus then we can't see a somewhat explanation for your action.
Someone who's capable of training your kids right, inputting the right traits in them to ensure they grow to be up to or better than what you pray them to be. Already its no lies that as parents, you'd want your children to be better than you in all capacities, as well as hope they would have the best of characters worthy of commendation. To do this, your partner needs to be productive and profitable too. So your kids do carry your both legacies which of course is good, as you both have portrayed good parenting.
You can't lie to yourself neither, we all know that one person we crave to be with if we could have our way, yet we move, but notwithstanding we need no distractions when were in a relationship. Don't bring your trauma from the past to affect the present, give each person a fighting chance and give them the best experience of you and just love. The matter of love is a matter of the heart and at such we need to make it heartfelt and not eyes search alone nor endowments. Pick rightly And love rightly, stop making wrong choices and saying there are no good ones around, well there are and you just need to raise your standards and begin the journey.
Love Is Sweet, sadly many has gotten a bitter experience, well its time to chose and love right. We can love someone and someone else too can love up on us. Cheers guys!!
