Definitely, every single one of us has got a pattern of how things just happens in our life, unique to us, not meaning it happens to us alone, but its really a different trait not common to everyone. Patterns are unique traits, characters, concurrent events, happenings, that is being observe over a period of time to keep occurring, maybe to an individual, group, state, country and so on, but for the purpose of this article and cause I want to be specific, I'll segment this article to our individualistic patterns, I had a nice time thinking about this, I hope I'll able to give you a feel of it too.
So just chatting with my friends yesterday, the discussion was about our past affairs and how it played out, i noticed that while one of us is always lucky with models and beauty queens another among us is always being chased by older women like way older women, oh I laughed, but it has been occurring for quite a long time in several different occasions, and he said "I don't know why it keeps happening to me", but yes its a pattern aligned to him, maybe if he changes some things it won't happen and yet maybe there's nothing he can do about it, it's just a pattern.
This I found to be existent in most mothers, its in the area of dreams, while we as men dream and can't remember, we rely on the woman to dream the future and tell us, I have seen a pattern of my mom dreaming about things and not too long from thence, boom it's happening right before me, I understood at an early age that I have to listen at least and prove stubborn later, but I must listen so I'd know how to act smartly. We often here them say "You know my dreams always come true" well maybe not every time but definitely many times.
Alright, I woke up by 6:30 and I've got to be at work by 8am, there's enough time right?, I wonder how I still get to be in the office late, what was I doing, I woke up early, this has been occurring, schools, college, now work. There was a time I thought to myself, oh I'm now an early bed, it was the start of a new session, I'd made up my mind to be consistently early, and I did it, always going early but it only lasted 2weeks, oh I tried, maybe because my house was far from my headed location, but its definitely a pattern I can change though.
Some of which I have also heard of, I'll call it a family pattern, it just so happen in the family, its been happening for generations and coming, I'm not talking of the genetic traits, nor do I mean a planned event, I'm talking about occurrences they also can't control, it just so happens, maybe not to everyone, maybe to everyone, not every family has a recorded pattern, its only been found in a few, some examples of this occurrence, is something happening to a selected member of the family at a particular age, could be a good occurrence like getting rich, being gifted with an enormous item could also be bad, like an accident, death, at that age it has been happening.
Also a pattern of giving birth at a particular month, your father was born in the month of August, you also, maybe your wife too, now your kids, oh your grandfather too, how it keeps happening you can't put your hand around it, you just see it happenings.
Has someone ever walked pass and you already feel a strong connection between you both, not necessary you both talked but you knew nature wants something to do with both of you, and truly not too long from thence, you both are becoming very close to each other and you say to the person "from the first time I saw you I knew there was something about you", you had once felt that way toward another and fate brought you both together, so you understood the pattern and just wait for fate to work rather than rushing things.
Well, if we can't control it, we better study it, we should understand how it happens and how best we should respond to it. Some of our patterns are very subject to change if we take the change seriously, some others we've just got to deal with, in every case it makes life interesting for us and gives us a story to tell. Know how things are playing out uniquely in your life, study it and see how it can work to your favour.
Thanks for reading yet another piece of my thought, I love y'all. Please don't forget to like, subscribe and comment. Stay true to yourself always.
