Are you in the right association or not, what have you benefited? Already we are conversant with the above mentioned title, Cliques formation is something we find ourselves doing unknowingly, it's more like life brought you guys together rather than it being a planned coming together, but sometimes it could also be a planned association to isolate from others, so much benefits lies in the right clique, so much you'd gain in the right association, in finding the right people to hang around and spend your time with there's so much to gain, in the other way there's so much you'd lose in being in the wrong clique, you've only being whiling away useful time, probably lost in the fun of the moment you haven't really noticed you've been at lost. One could either be in the right clique or the wrong clique, its an assessment worth paying attention to.
A clique is the coming together of individuals who shares common interest in any area, be it sports, books, music, arts, engineering and the likes, it could also be segregation based on financial or social status, appearance, gifts or talents, just forming a group that separates them from other unlike pairs, often time we find protection and security in our clique, as there are people to stand up for you should the need arise. Theses cliques have slowly become an integral part of our society, you get to see clique everywhere, in the neighborhood, in school, at work, in church, and so on, just name it, there are probably people who are isolating themselves from another set, and it slowly becomes a competition and beef (hate) which is a far reason from why cliques are created.
A clique is suppose to see you grow and become better, as you are surrounded by like minds, they are the best people to chip in a thing or two to see you grow in that your specialized field of endeavor, but in a case where the mandate is being misinterpreted into fight and jealousy, what then can be achieved, you now pay more attention to outshining the counterpart, rather than paying more attention to the growth of each team member. This is a sign that something is wrong and should be corrected with utmost seriousness.
Never underestimate the power of a clique, imagine you have more than one person supervising you and cheering you to your success, and they truly can assist you with what you truly need and not just motivational speeches, they know what you are doing and can even understand what you did wrong because y'all are in same field, plus they got the tools you need to carry out your personal project, they got the right direction you should take, and if lucky they got the finances also you sponsor your dreams. The achievements you can accomplish within a short period of time is mind blowing if you are lucky to be in the right clique.
Now you get to see jealousy and back stabbing very rampant in-house in that same clique you were happy to be part of, it has now become an action you regret taking. This is mainly because we are humans and we wish to be the best among our pairs and we really can't stop people from being better than us, we can only run our own race trying to put in more efforts to being better. Yet not everyone can handle to be outshined or preferred less to another so while you all are in the clique, there is an internal fight that is trying to pull down the team efforts, instead of the usual encouragement and chastising in love, you get to see discouragement and hateful rebuke, its only a matter of time before division sets in.
Be wise to put your agenda first as this would make you notice the changes happening and when its noticeable that your clique is not helping you advance or build up better for your plans, I guess its time to have a rethink, as your life and goals are more important to any group of people. Cliques are good in fact great as it has proven to be an advantage to one who chooses wisely, but it can be very dangerous to one who chooses wrongly.
So choose your clique wisely, its always best you'd be the one to choose who and whom you'll follow rather than you being chosen by them, that way you can carry out a detail assessment evaluating your options and going for the best. The ball is always in your court, you alone calls the shot that pertains to your life. Don't let no group or cliques drift you from your main purpose, if they aren't assisting the dream then its not worth you joining. Be smart with your life's affair.
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