The word polite means polite, polite, elegant, polite and the word etiquette means behavior, usage, character. Etiquette is one of the best qualities of human character. If children are taught etiquette with importance from an early age, he will become an ideal person. Let's see what we can teach our children.
What to teach the child
1. Listening attentively to the words of father, mother or any elder of the house.
2. When adults talk, do not talk in the middle. If you want to talk, say "I can say something" - talk about permission.
3. To have a good etiquette with the people working at home. Not to abuse or neglect them. Similarly, the driver of the car, the doorman of the house to be polite, polite.
4. Sneezing, coughing is actually putting hands in the mouth. Also teach children that it is inappropriate to clean ear or nose dirt in front of someone.
5. The guests at home (guest etiquette) to talk to them with a smile and help mom to entertain.
6. The phone is actually (answering phone calls etiquette) to speak "nicely". When another person speaks from the other side of the phone, listen to it silently and understand and answer. If you get a call from the wrong number or the phone from the wrong number is actually sorry, keep the telephone and do not cut the call in the middle of the conversation.
7. Seeing or shaking hands with a father, mother or sibling asking for anything. He should not take or use anything in secret. He should also learn to return the borrowed things at the right time.
8. Under no circumstances should you argue or be rude with your parents or any other elders in the house. When you say something, explain it nicely and try to convince them. And if you are rude or wrong, you must apologize.
9. Among the primary etiquettes, the importance of saying ‘please’ or ‘please’ is immense. Asking for something from someone or in different social etiquettes, the child should use the two words "please" and "thank you" (when receiving something). Explain where and how to use it.
The habit of using these words makes one respected and admired in society. Your child will then be regarded by all as a humble and warm-hearted person.
10. Get the child into the habit of saving. For example, you can give a piggy bank so that he can deposit money.
11. In addition to saving money, donate it to him at least once a month, maybe to a beggar, etc.
12. Using and flushing tissues in the bathroom toilet.
13. Brush your teeth twice a day. Brush your teeth and clean your tongue after every meal. These habits should be developed in infancy and it should be taken care of regularly. Reward the child if he can maintain continuity. This will encourage him.
14. Bathing the baby after returning home or coming home from school. It will make him feel fresh, he will enjoy work. And sleep well at night. It's like brushing your teeth every day.
15. Wash hands well with soap before and after eating. He should be told that there can be various infections from germs that do not wash hands. Moreover, even if you play from outside, you have to do the same thing.
16. You need more than luck to succeed in affiliate business. Make it a rule not to talk too much during meals, not to laugh, not to quarrel, not to ask for anything.
17. Teach your child to develop a tendency to benefit others. The lesson of being kind to others should be given in childhood. Teach him that he can benefit others, whether with money, words, or a little labor.
18. When you make fun of others, it hurts them emotionally - teach it to your child. That one should not despise or ridicule the weakness of others.
19. If someone is sick at home, take care of him or stay by his side.
20 Respecting older people at home or outside, talking to them with a smile. Not to be despised. For example, on a bus, train or trip, if you see an elderly or weak person, give him a chance to sit, or let him get off earlier or help him carry his belongings, etc.
21. Teach your child to take any defeat in an easy way. If you lose a competition, the child may feel hurt and that is normal. As a parent, it is your responsibility to support and inspire him. Explain to your child that there is nothing wrong with that. Life must be won. That's the decent thing to do, and it should end there.
22. Before entering someone's house, he should knock on the door and ask permission to enter. Let him enter as soon as he gets permission.
23. Teach children to comb their own hair. Moreover, once you learn to use shampoo, oil your hair, apply creams, lotions, etc. during bathing, you don't have to worry anymore. It may take time to learn, but one time you will learn!
24. It is very important to inculcate this habit in children by playing or eating together with their brothers and sisters. Parents should notice that everyone learns to share when they play or do something. This will increase the affection for each other and the relationship will be pure and beautiful for life.
25. Tidying up one's toys and clothes, shoes / sandals in the right place - the child needs to have this etiquette. Once or twice he can do it himself.
26. Honesty is a trait that accelerates your child's moral development. Teach your child from an early age not to lie, not to cheat, not to bow to untruths. And give encouragement and courage in his every action.
27. Do not point fingers or point at anyone.
28. Not to be jealous or stubborn for anything. If this teaching is given from the beginning, the child will not step on the path again.
School-college etiquette (good manners for students in school):
1. Try to sit in the front seat of the school, so that the writing on the board can be read easily and the teacher can be heard clearly.
2. Maintain good relationships with classmates, whether junior or senior. Stay away from anyone you dislike.
3. Someone will lend you pencils, erasers, but others will try not to take things.
4. Not to quarrel or fight with anyone. Inform sir or madam if anyone has a problem.
5. Do not go anywhere else from class or play alone during school holidays. Waiting for Dad, Mom at the gate.
Last word
Parents role models for children. Your child notices every word and deed of yours. He tries to learn by watching. Your actions can be positive for the child, but also negative. So the child should not do anything in front of him that will adversely affect his mind. Instead, create etiquette examples in front of him.
