Traditional man vs Modern woman

Good evening y'all, how's it going there. it's weekend and I hope everyone one of you is planning something huge for yourself this weekend, either a self treat or maybe a party because as for me, there's a naming ceremony I'm to attend tomorrow and it should make my weekend to some point before the premier league and the entire weekend football comes up too. It's going to be a very interesting weekend like I can see from here and I hope y'all enjoy yourself too. I'm sorry for not being able to write yesterday, I was really busy but your #love doctor is back here.😁

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I think I need to stop telling you that my new hero in relationships is Steve Harvey and I learn a lot from him almost everyday and I'm here with another important topic that we'll all find interesting and educating.

There's these guys that have been dating for more than a year now and it's obviously going so well for them but there's an issue here. The man wants his woman as a full house wife, he didn't want to say it that way but he wants someone he can always meet at home everytime he comes back from work, he wants someone that can always have the time to keep the house perfectly clean at every point in time, he wants a woman that is always with the kids and attending to their simplest needs while he keeps being the bread winner of the family and I don't blame him for that because that was the setting in which he grew up but he's forgetting to consider the fact that he's not getting married to himself, and his wife also have a choice to make on the kind of life she'd like to live, the plans she has for her life and the likes. No woman wants to get married to a man that's not ready to be supportive of her dreams not to talk of killing them. It's really important to settle these things before going into marriage because if it shows up after y'all are married, it could be the end of such a home. On this case, I'm with the lady because it's really old school to me being an housewife even though we still have people that like it and I respect their opinion but it's really important to me to have another source of income into the home apart from the husband's money.

There's another case in this same relationship, she wants her name hyphened to his surname after marriage. This is a really tough one because as long as I would like to hear the ladies on this, I still feel it's the pride of the man for his wife to bear his full last name. It has being like that for ages and I know you might be thinking it's old school there but to me, as far as it's still the man that pays the dowry and marries the wife, she has to bear his surname except they both agree and like to change that even though it might be an issue from the husband's family but I feel if y'all can agree to that, it's not a bad idea. In Africa, I feel it's the pride of the man for his wife to bear his surname and some people would even say that any lady who doesn't want that should marry her father but I feel it's still the most sane thing to do in a family.

• Take home

Emotional integrity is also very important in relationships especially when it already seems like y'all are getting married and that's what I loved about the illustrated couples, you have to be loyal with your partner on every single topic that comes up in your discussions, don't say things that you know he wants to hear and vice versa. You must both be opened to each other in your relationships. For married couples, it's important that every morning you wake up, you think of something to make your marriage special and keep doing everything possible to keep your marriage going 😉. Also remember to always make your spouse happy 😊

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