Dictator not Director

Good evening everyone, I hope you all had a great day. Our ASUU strike continues today and NASU too has joined them to make things even worse, the state of the hostel is unbearable because there's no water neither is there power supply to make life easy for us. This is their plan to make all students leave the school premises. It has been miserable staying in the hostel for the past two days or so because all the surroundings are dirty and it's making everything seem messed up and hard to live in. I'll probably start packing my load back to my house before the end of this week. This isn't bearable anymore.

Thanks to my sponsor... I really 
appreciate your support.

Your love doctor is back again...

Continuing with my addiction on Steve Harvey's "Ask Steve" show...

In one of the episode I watched today, a lady was asking a question about her relationship. She has a boyfriend that really loves and cares about her and he is infact the one in charge of her fast approaching birthday party. This lady has an animal she's really mad about, she likes sloths. A sloth is an animal considered cute because of its slow movement, it is found mostly in the tropical rainforest of south America and central america hanging upside down the trees. They're really are cute animals but her boyfriend doesn't like it, this sloth freaks him out but she wants it present at her birthday party and she feels that because he loves her, he should also love the sloth with her. Incredible!!!😂😂😂

Steve was startled by this question and asked "where do y'all get these rules from". A man would never use his money to get what he's scared of. No body even would do that and that's not his fault, he claims to love her not her sloth. I'm not saying you cannot love what your babe wants but there's a limit to what you can dictate. Steve gave an example of a girlfriend he once had, she has a pet dog, a chiwawa to be precise. He didn't like the dog but he loved her and this didn't stop his love for her but he was scared of the dog still and anytime he goes to her house, it's not always a very free time for him because of the dog's clinginess. He kept managing that until this day when he went there and he met the family in a sad mood, the dog had died, he was not as concerned as they were and that was the end of their relationship because he didn't feel how they felt.

It's not any guy's joy not to please his babe, infact we want to do what you like the most but we can never do what we feel won't be of value to us or maybe even be a cause of fear to us. No guy would do that. I feel it's possible things like this comes up in relationships. For example, your babe that doesn't like chocolate but you like it, you can't force her to like it. It's your own as a guy to reduce your chocolate intake and get what y'all like in common more of the time. Only this can make you seek balance in relationships, it's not possible you like the everything together but it's possible to make things work and also forsake what you like sometimes for love and this applies to both parties. Love overpowers your likes or hubbies, both of you need to shed them to find a balance.

In a relationship, the ladies make most of the rules but the guy approves most too. There's this saying I always hear that in marriage, the husband is the head of the home but the wife is the neck. This means that even though the man heads the family, the woman who is the neck turns the head in whatever direction she wants. It exactly is the same in relationships too, the ladies are the dictators but the guys are the directors.

I hope y'all are enjoying the love doctor, I really wish I could change my username but that's too late but remember to SUBSCRIBE if you liked it.