Are you letting go or holding on?

Good morning even though it's midnight here, I hope y'all are doing well like I am. It's a great energy from here today and I'm glad about that and I hope that you all also find that same energy for the rest of the week. It has been a week of headlines, either about war, insecurity, strike and so on but it's mid-week and this signifies that time passes fast, the bad times would pass too and I hope we get to see light at the end of the tunnel.

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It's your love doctor here again and I'm as prepared like always for you. I'm really sorry for dropping a little late today and my low engagement also, I've been busy doing a lot of stuffs together and don't forget that your love doctor also needs time to attend to his love life too. This is really also growing as fast as I could never imagine and I'm glad about that also, thanks to y'all...

My addiction on the "Ask Steve" show continues, the funny thing is that I didn't watch any episode today but I can definitely get a recap from my brain. Today's question goes thus;

This lady is asking for an advice concerning her ex, she claimed to have broken up with this guy but she wants him to continue being her trainer and her friends think that's awkward. She claims to be done with him being her boyfriend but she doesn't want to lose him as a trainer because he's a good trainer and he "knows her body" so well. This is really creepy if you ask me and the look on Steve's face could tell that. He had to ask her to come again to be sure of what he was hearing because how could you still be attached to someone who you claim is your "ex".

Ladies on a general note do not want to have anything to do with their exes once they break up, it's even like a community thing already to me even though I don't see the reason for the total hate but a lot of ladies and I mean absolutely normal ladies would never want to have anything to do with such a guy anymore but this lady's case was different even though she was hiding under the excuse that he's a great trainer and she doesn't want to go through the stress of getting a new trainer that will just be adapting to her body since he knew all about her including her strength and weaknesses. This excuse is infact very brilliant but that's not when he's your ex and Steve could see that through her eyes that the relationship was fixable.

He got interested in her case and asked her to step forward and explain why she broke up with him in the first place. It happens that she got to know this guy from her cousin who was also this cousin's trainer and he decided to start training them both and that was how they got to know each other before they started dating. They've being dating for a while now and he has been faithful and loving to her but the issue is that she found an inappropriate picture of her cousin on his phone, the cousin actually sent it to him and she was upset that he didn't tell her that her cousin was making advances.

To me, if I am caught in such a situation, I think I'd also probably do the same especially because they're family. I could show her the picture of other babes making advances but for her family? I'd like to be careful not to be a reason for their quarrel since she knew her cousin before me and I think that's what any guy would do. No guy would proudly come home to show his babe such a picture. According to Steve, since he didn't reply back in a way that showed that he wanted it, or also return an inappropriate picture of himself too since he could have done that, then the guy is not at fault. She just needs to keep her cousin away from him.

Ladies also need to learn how to protect and keep what they have safe because there are several relationship pests out there. So, it's safer to ask questions when due and let him explain why things are really how it seemed to you before you jump into conclusions.

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