Wisdom Keys for Relationship Bliss.

There are many things most people face in a relationship that isn't the fault of the other person but it's God's preparing you for what's to come. We learn from the things we go through. Every experience we go through teaches character. We are not to do to others what we have suffered. We are to do better than the experiences that we went through.

Relationship matter is more spiritual than what many people think. The devil didn't show up when Adam was created but when Eve was introduced. It's normal for the devil to be against families. Every woman must learn that cosmetics doesn't save marriage but anyone who wants to grow and save their marriages, they must do it on their kneels.

Whenever God is not acknowledged, man is given to a reprobate mind. Not everyone is matured enough to live a married life.

There are certain aptitudes and grace required in marriage and until you have it, you might not pull through marital doors. Marriage must grow beyond you that's why the Bible told us that if anyone is capable of growing into the largeness of marriage, they should do it. It means no one was taught...but they grow...see beyond themselves and sacrificed. Very few people has grown largeness for marriage.

A. Spiritual.

We need to grow into the spiritual. There is an enablement that the spirit gives because we are imperfect beings striving towards perfection. Since we are not perfect, it means our imperfections would always inconvenient another person. Do not relax and watch the spiritual life of your family go down. When a family is spiritually alive, they emerge as victors rather than victims. Most of the crisis families go through is because they cannot agree in prayer.

B. Mental.

Spiritual enhancement is not a substitute for mental development. For a marriage to be blissful, couples should be mentally balanced in other to relate freely. If you are the only one mentally sound in your marriage, you will be the only one doing the work and you will be stressed. They wouldn't have a frequency to flow and relate well. Be concerned about your mental growth and you enhance mental growth through reading. If you fail to improve yourself mentally, your previous knowledge becomes obsolete or outdated. Stop using old and outdated knowledge to run your marriage - it's always how your parents do it that you want to always do it. It brings chaos instead.

C. Social.

One proof of love is the investment of time. You will definitely invest your time in anything you love. Conversation is the oxygen of any relationship. Learn how to converse. Learn how to speak as well as listen. Don't just be the talker. Communication goes both ways and you have to learn how to communicate.

Tips for enhancing social development in marriage:

A. Engage in regular communication.

Not just once in a while but regularly. Those who speak together about anything grow together.

B. Spend quality time and exchange gifts regularly.

The giving of present is important but your presence is more important than your present.

C. Couples should embrace work.

Each party must have what they are doing. Don't feel relaxed just to receive without adding anything or giving back through a means. Some people think it's the responsibility of the guy to do everything while they do nothing. At least, do something. Be responsible. Contribute.

Thank you for your time.

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