In the word "happiness" each person means different, but one thing is certain: happiness is the ability to enjoy life and inner unity. Certainly internal, because happiness is within our consciousness, and not by external factors.
Unfortunately, most people cannot call themselves happy, and at best they have borne a certain part of their lives as the cleanest and most miserable. Undoubtedly, everyone has a problem. However, the reason for a lifeless life usually lies in the inability to be happy, and now we will pay attention to the main points of this state. Want to know how to be a happy woman? Then read on!
The phrase "I have nothing good in my life" is pure selfishness. In fact, there is, but not everyone knows how to appreciate it. The saddest thing is that these people realize the true value of everything they have when they lose it. Find from this list the joys that are familiar to you, and therefore not noticeable:
You look attractive and well-mannered;
You know how other people feel;
You have health. There may be something in your body that is “rubbish”, but you are generally healthy;
Do you have a family;
There is at least one person you trust and believe in you;
You have a pet that is happy about your return from work. By the way, if you do not have it, you can start it - you see, life will be happier;
You have a roof over your head and you sleep on a warm bed. It does not sound good, but many do not;
You know how to please men;
You have a hobby that gives you joy;
You have relatives who will not give up on you.
Apperciate things you have. Life is an unpredictable thing, and no one knows what will happen tomorrow. If that doesn’t help, imagine for a second you lost it all at one point. Everything is elementary: you are on a desert island, you have nothing to eat, and no soul around. But there are people who survive such situations!
Release the past
In a certain way, everything that happened to you in the past can be seen in the present, and sometimes in the future. However in most cases, this logical chain has no real basis. For a woman, the evil from the past may not be a childhood fit for her, or a bad experience in a relationship with a man. Let us first consider each option.
Relationships with parents
As you know, they will not choose their homeland, nor will their parents. IN THE LAST YEAR you often hear about such a concept as "unwanted children." Each of those who are unhappy with their childhood has their own reasons, but what, wondering, does it all have to do with the present time? Did you get a little attention? Most likely, they paid as much as they could. Even if it is not so, then to offend a mother that the mother’s instinct not to wake up is an empty thing. He doesn’t care, but you suffer.
Suffering from your parents not giving you a financial start? But the fact is that most people are not of average income, but really very rich, they achieve their success without outside help. Most of those actively assisted by their parents do not have safety skills, so you can also benefit from it, even if not materially. Experience and the ability to take care of yourself is the only thing that can save you in times of serious difficulty.
Unhappy love or failed marriage
It is not worth bringing the bad experience of a past relationship with a man from the past to the future. It has not worked for you, and it means that it is no longer in your life. The next man or man will be different, and he will also have disadvantages, because we do not live with angels. Perhaps you are not satisfied with his lifestyle, or you are not satisfied with his dealings with you, but in any case, what happened in the past will not happen. You will not let that happen because you already have experience.
If you have lost trust in the good because of infidelity to a loved one, or an overly cruel act towards him or her in relation to you, take action. Building a new relationship under the influence of emotion or resentment against a man is not the best solution ... Regarding mental illness, it needs a way out, not a safe condition of being iimbak. Do not make depression a lifestyle, and ultimately, treat the situation from a philosophical perspective - after all, everything that does not kill makes us stronger!
Live in the present
So many people left the fun until later. They set goals for themselves and believe that they can only be happy when they are achieved. I will briefly outline what it looks like.
I will be happy then:
I can get a higher education. A diploma is not a guarantee of happiness. Then there will surely be a job search, an independent life and endless difficulties that everyone faces;
Get married. Family life - this is not happiness on a silver plate, but the daily routine of building relationships with your spouse;
I have a baby. Kids are happy, but be prepared for new worries! The child will get sick from time to time, and it is not a fact that you look at the world the same as him. He is a separate person and does not have to be your friend;
I can earn a good income. The more money, the more problems, even if it seems to be the finances that will solve all the difficulties. Owning a business is a responsibility. A rich wife is also not the greatest gift of fortune. Everyone reads the Cinderella fairy tale, but that’s why it’s a fairy, to end with a wedding. In fact, marriage has become a starting point, and you will probably be reminded regularly that you lived more than modest before marriage;
I will take my appearance to perfection. Whether you live in the gym, or stay on a diet all the time, it is not a fact that it will bring you female happiness. You can still carry plastic surgery or endless visits to a makeup, but even this does not guarantee you anything. A woman who only assesses herself in terms of appearance is only interested in men as sexual partners. Of course, this applies to girls who, apart from beauty, have nothing else to brag about.
How can you make someone happy? How can you calm him down, how can you help him and how can you reduce his problem and resentment? It is not enough to ask her what the problem is and what she is crying about. There are other people who think even more of their resentment if you tell them more. What would happen if you found out what his problem was? Are you sure you can do something? If you give advice, are you sure it will be good for him and he will follow?
Sometimes, we don't have to be Bob Ong to give advice, we also don't need to dramatize and accompany him to cry, you just make a way to make him laugh, it's okay. "Laughter is the best medicine," he said. It 's hard to laugh at the person who is so upset, the one who' s crying so much, but when you make him happy and when you hear his laughter, it 's like you have been pulled out by a thorn. Sing to him. Music can also reduce resentment, except for the voices of others, which adds to the problem. Be crazy. Make some funny faces. Crack corny jokes. Have fun with him, your mission is to make him laugh, the guy who will hold his jaw, help him so that he can forget his problem for a moment.
As I write this blog post, I think about it. How many millions of people in the world are sad now? Why is there this kind of emotion? Why sometimes we can't explain how we feel? Why do so many of us always say “Why”?
My answer is, I DON'T KNOW. Hahaha. Of course I am not a genius to know every answer to your question in life. For sure even "Google" does not know that (Do not search). But maybe because we are human. We have the capacity to be hurt, to be happy, to suffer and to be sad. Because that is part of life. If everything was fun and beautiful, do you think you could value it all? Of course not right? Because he will only give that person importance when (a) he has lost his life or (b) because that is very important to him.
Are you sad? Well, you better read this because I have tips to make you happy somehow.
1. Pray. Thank God you woke up this morning. Right now maybe you still don't understand why that is happening to you but believe me, you are not alone. Lord has a purpose for why that happened.
2. What makes you sad? Follow you? Blocked on facebook? Or have you seen the zone? That hurts. All right, share with your friend that you always hit to make you feel better.
3. Get your phone. Text your mom, dad and siblings, say hello to their day.
4. Get out of your house. Look at the clouds. Nakaka-amaze no? Because the workmanship of Lord e.
5. Tell your Mommy and Daddy that you love them. Sometimes we forget to appreciate our parents because we are busy on social media.
6. Take a picture but not the pure selfie. Picture the happy and sad moments of your life. Print it, then paste it on the wall of your room. You can realize that your life is not boring because sometimes you are happy, sometimes you are not.
7. Travel. ✈ Favorite ko to. Life is too short to be content with where you are today. But, do not go back to the place that made you sad.
8. You cry. The extra strength and the extra time until you get tired. When you're okay, don't cry over that again? It's okay just once.
9. Smile. You're beautiful, aren't you? Then you will only be sad because you were hurt? That's not worth it.
10. Do your homework or your plates (Only an Arki Student would know). That will benefit your future. Do not care only about emotions.
11. Sing. They say that it releases stress and depression. I feel real. Hahaha!
12. Eat your favorite food. If you haven't been happy yet, I just don't know.
13. Love yourself. Easier said than done I know but you yourself need to know your value.
14. Love. Show the people you care about that you love them. Do not be afraid. Not only should Christmas give you love, it should be every season of your life.
15. Put your hand on your heart. Did you feel your heartbeat? That means you are alive, you still have hope to correct all the mistakes you have made. You still have a second chance or how many more chances you have.
Do the 1-15 ha? Then share it here on this extraordinary blog. Hope this article post helps you. Do not be sad. Many love you.
-GamboaLikeUs
