We often wonder what is the first difference between supporting our loved ones and trying to meet our own needs for good and safety, especially if our loved ones struggle in harmful situations. We want to show our love for them and at the same time protect ourselves and the others. Learning how to love and protect ourselves can not only preserve our goodness but also bring blessings to our loved ones. Setting boundaries means setting boundaries or letting it on a certain activities or individuals that we do not allow others to cross.
Understanding this concept and being able to set boundaries can help us avoid feeling like victims. The boundaries we set help us to meet our spiritual, emotional and physical needs and ultimately make us feel safe and secure. We need to feel safe and better so that we can love and serve others. However, when our needs are not met properly, we have a responsibility to talk to our loved ones, giving us the freedom to decide whether to help or not.
It is our responsibility to set boundaries and communicate clearly, make policies and hold family members accountable for their choices. This is not to controllable by others but to minimize the negative impact and help our families feel safe and better. Setting boundaries helps us remember our qualifications as children of God and know that we are worthy of love and kindness in our lives. When many spouses and family members openly talk about how they feel and feel and then set boundaries and similar rewards, their loved ones become more aware of their choices and the devastating effects of kilos. Experiencing the rewards [due to wrong choices gives our loved ones the motivation they need to find healing and improvement. Setting boundaries helps to invite the Spirit into our homes and into the lives of our family members, because it helps keep us open, honest, humble and confident and empowers our loved ones. Better use of their freedom of choice.
If our loved ones continue to violate our boundaries, we must provide an appropriate solution. When we do this, we must seek the guidance of the Lord. The Spirit helps us know what is best for our surroundings and for ourselves. There is no one-size-fits-all solution. However, there are specific guidelines that guide us in setting limits and equal pay for our family members. For example, our limitations and equal pay should be based on the principle of agency - they should focus on what we can and cannot do, rather than what others want or expect. Limitations and equal payments must be clear and consistent. They must be motivated and informed by love, not by anger or punishment.
They can include the natural outcome of the activities carried out. Let’s start with the simple and clear limits we’re going to implement. For example, insisting that our homes be free of pornography, foods that contain harmful substances, or related substances that have a negative impact may set a reasonable limit. If one of our relatives crosses one of these thresholds, we execute the corresponding payments. By doing this, we are telling our loved ones that we have our limitations and that we do not allow mistakes to exist.
We should expect our limits to be respected and compensation to be enforced. But we can also keep in mind that there are opportunities to learn from mistakes. When we make equal pay for certain actions, it is something we want to be prepared and capable of with love and a spirit of learning. The limits and rewards we have set are to be set by wisdom, according to the gospel, and under the guidance of the Holy Spirit. We can also get help by consulting a trusted person, church leader, or professional counselor. It helps us to examine our own thinking and be wary of any limit or equivalent compensation that is not affected by true and loving principles.
“If you ask me, there is a chance in the life of every person in the world to that feel hopeless. Or you can just not help yourself how to rely and trust. But something is going to happen, something that is too big to understand but it will change everything that can be changed in you, in them and in the environment you are in. ”
According to the poets, love is an emotion that we cannot control. Like a computer virus, it can destroy your logical thinking as well as your brain. I can say that this is what happened to me. I did not plan to fall in love with him and I am not sure if he also planned to fall in love with me. But when we met, it was clear in the moonlight that neither of us could control how we felt. We just fell in love with each other even though there was a difference. And in that short time it was as if a strange presence had formed that this difference was gradually disappearing and becoming love. For me, this kind of love can only happen once in a person's life. So every day we are together, I plant all my worries so that not one of them I will never forget.
If Romantic people are asked, they will call it lovestory. In my mind, just like any other way you look at this kind of thing in the end, it will not change the fact that it has contributed a lot to my life and to the kind of path I have chosen to take. I am not complaining about where the path I have chosen will take me. All I know is that I am content with this love that can fill other things in my life. Maybe, but I strongly feel that this path I have chosen will be right. I have tried nothing but this and that only.
Time, unfortunately, will not keep your faith in something. If you love him today, maybe tomorrow will not be. Even if we say that the path you have chosen is as straight as the ruler, there is a chance that it will have its roots and obstacles because of life events and time. How can you make sure that time and time again your belief in something does not change?
Waiting for the person you love is not that easy if this person has no idea that you are waiting. However, there is a possibility that you will continue to wait. Even if I am in the situation, I will do the same. Is it that in this waiting I feel like I am punishing myself. Is that the type where you can call me everything you want to call me but I will not be shaken by the belief that everything is possible.
It won't be long before I also realize all the stupid things I did in life. Stupidities that even Science has got to oppose me. But Science is not the answer to these stupidities; that is what I know, and these things I have learned in life have left me believing that the miracle, no matter how impossible you are to explain and believe, will happen and will help you answer these stupid things in your life even if you do not. based on everyday world events. Science has come a long way but it is still not in the height and strength of your belief in the Creator.
-GamboaLikeUs
