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It's the second part of "Phobia" series which is included with "Gamophobia"
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Most of us are very much interested to marry but Those people who fear to get married then what they can be called!!
"Gamophobia" is the fear of getting married
Let's try to know details about Gamophobia -
At this time many people believe in 'Friends with Benefits', 'Live Together' but do not want to go for a permanent relationship, it may also be due to gamophobia. The issue of marriage in Bangladesh is a confusing matter! Asked to make fun of you as a child, I will marry you to Omuk. Then you get embarrassed. He said in an embarrassed voice, I will not get married. However, after growing up, the age of marriage has passed but no one talks about your marriage anymore. If you can, cut the bed in half, try to indicate the shape, the age is increasing.
But, no one wants to understand. You have to listen to how he talks about getting married without settling down, what he is not ashamed of. Marriage is stuck on these excuses of what to feed the wife if married. Not being able to get married for various reasons other than getting married has the opposite side. Some people do not want to get married. In fact, they are afraid of marriage or commitment
There may be someone around you who is afraid to go into any kind of commitment. The new relationship is breaking up after a while. What's the matter I don't like it. Sounds boring, doesn't have a good time like before. Such is the case. Getting involved in a new relationship again after a while. But, whenever it comes to commitment in a relationship, people get annoyed, bent over. Not wanting to get married or being afraid to get married, fear of commitment - all these are considered as symptoms of a kind of mental illness.
The name of the disease is Gamophobia. What is Gamophobia? Gamo in Greek means marriage and phobia means fear, everyone knows. Gamophobia is the fear of getting involved in a marriage or any kind of permanent relationship. People with this type of phobia are actually terrified of new relationships, have a fear of married life, and have a tendency to think about whether their personal freedom can be curtailed or adjusted.
There is some similarity between gamophobia and philophobia. Those who are basically afraid to fall in love, those who are reluctant about love, if they explain this problem from a psychological point of view, it can be said that they are suffering from philophobia. However, the thing about gamophobia is that those who suffer from this disease love and understand love, but when it comes to commitment in a relationship, these patients no longer want to move on. Many relationships break up simply because of a lack of commitment.
So if you find that the person you're dating is avoiding marriage or engagement, check to see if your person is suffering from gamophobia before issuing it. If that is the case, the psychologist can be shown.
Why is gamophobia? There may be various reasons. Many people who grow up in a broken family may have this phobia. They may have the idea that the relationship will not last one day, will break. Again, in families where the parents are very quarrelsome, the normal tune between the family members is cut off, many of those families may also suffer from gamophobia.
In addition, in many cases, true love is broken, and many are so emotionally broken that they no longer feel loved. She can no longer trust anyone, at least for a committed relationship. Gamophobia can also occur in people who suffer from inferiority complex or excessive obsession with themselves. Again at this point many believe in ‘Friends with Benefits’, ‘Live Together’ but don’t want to go into a permanent relationship, it could also be due to gamophobia.
Symptoms - People with gamophobia are usually quite indifferent to the relationship, and want to avoid serious talk about it. Besides, they dislike any discussion regarding marriage. They don't even want to go to the wedding. They quite dislike the formalities of marriage. They always think that getting involved is a bad decision. Suffering from this indecision is also a symptom of gamophobia.
Remedy- Relationships are ruined before it is understood in many cases whether there is gamophobia or not. When someone is reluctant to commit, the way he is reprimanded, the way he reacts again, makes the relationship bitter. As a result, the person suffering from gamophobia becomes more annoyed with the relationship. And for some as a baby gets older, he or she will outgrow this.
Therefore, no one is interested in marriage, no one wants to be committed, which means that the relationship cannot be ruined by doubting it from the beginning. Many times this phobia can be overcome by going to the counseling of psychologists. It is possible to get rid of gamophobia by taking medicine on the advice of a doctor. If anyone realizes on their own, you are suffering from gamophobia, then find out the cause first. Find out what has changed in your mind since the incident. Ninety percent of the fear will go away when you dare to face the fear again.
Think about the people around you, is there anyone who is afraid of marriage? Don't want to go to commitment? Talk to her today. Once the problem is hidden in the subconscious mind of the people, it may be possible for them to return to normal life. Gamophobia is not a terrible thing but this little phobia can lead to death if the problems go too deep.
It's all about Part-02. I have tried my best to attract the article and contain all information about Gamophobia.
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"Gamophobia" is the fear of getting married