I hope you find it one day......

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Every single step counts even the tiniest of efforts you put in everyday takes you closer to your better days. Know that when it’s too difficult and you are struggling to hang in there, it’s the little changes and the little choices you dare to make that helps you move towards hope again. So don’t discredit yourself if you didn’t accomplish a lot today.

If you don’t give up on life and it’s possibilities even on your darkest days, if you believe with all your heart that even the worst of things in your life can turn out to the best for you; then the right time will come and things will change and one day you’ll look back to this day with peace and gratitude that you had the courage to choose to stay.

Every season is different and unique and a necessary part of your growth cycle. Remember when you go through those days and months of uncertainty and heartbreaks of not knowing and hopelessness. Remember that even though it is difficult, you can always trust that there is a purpose and something important is happening behind the scene that you may not always understand. But someday you are going to look back and feel grateful, you’ll be happy that the darkest days made you strong and gave you the wisdom to be the person you are becoming everyday.

Remember no amount of difficulty can stay forever , so the thing that you are going through right now, the thing that feels too hard to get past will wash away someday by the waves of life. Give life sometime, give your heart sometime as well, to the process the changes that are taking place. Have hope and believe again.

Never take what you have for granted.
Remember true happiness and freedom of the mind comes from the realization that you have enough and no matter what you achieve or do not achieve in your life you are still blessed in countless ways. When you are less focused on having more instead cherish and appreciate the things you already have ; so your heart can grow with a new sense of love for life.

Always be grateful, being grateful doesn’t mean you have to love every part of your life. It’s okay to feel hurts when something doesn’t turn out the way you thought it would, especially for things you have given so much of your heart and efforts.
What gratefulness means is that no matter what happens or what you go through, you are able to appreciate the journey. During the struggling moments have faith in your heart that you are already enough and what you deserves will somehow find it’s way in the right time

APPRECIATE YOUR JOURNEY

Don’t be afraid to fail, but be afraid of not trying enough, not doing what is possible of you because of your fear of failure. The journey of your life may not be a straight and easy one and it may not also unfold when and how you want. There could be so many twist and turns along the way. Sometimes life might also push you back, not to hurt you but to help you see things clearly so that you can choose what is best for your heart again. So have faith that there is a greater purpose in your struggles. Don’t give up on yourself you’re going to grow stronger and see what life has in store for you my friend.

so I hope you walk on this journey knowing that you belong. I hope even if things sometimes do not go your way you’ll not give up on yourself. And on your toughest days I hope you will keep reminding yourself of this;( you are loved and you’re worthy even when it doesn’t feel that way). Keep going even when the road is long, keep going even when it’s hard to hold on, remember why you started.

Life is still happening, you are still becoming, even though you don’t know why things are changing. Even if your life right now is not what you expected you can still choose to keep doing your best. Sometimes it’s easy to loose sight of hope in the times of your struggle but remember this, life is made of possibilities. And if you can find the courage to hang in there through those temporary hard days, the good days you’re waiting for will come as well. No matter how you feel today, your struggles will not waste.

PAIN IS NOT PERMANENT

Embracing the fullness of life means embracing all its difficult part as well the uncertainty, the waiting, the pain, the heartbreaks, the sadness and hopelessness. There will be many things in life that you won’t have control over, they will cripple you, hurts you, break you into prices but they will also build your character and change you completely as a person. So when you encounter them don’t fear. Welcome the as opportunities to grow, to be better version of you. You will be hurt with life process but in the same process you’ll learn how to find a stronger you.

Lesson for Life____ you cannot escape the difficult days, you can only learn to live through them. So may you always find away to see the light in the world and have comfort in knowing that you are not lost, even if you don’t know where you are.

so when you start to see your life as a journey and have faith in your strength, you will see that there is purpose even in your pain, even in your hard days there are lessons you can learn from and there are reasons for you to carry on.

while life can be uncertain and difficult at times, you are still In control of how you choose to respond. It’s okay if nothing good happens today, some phases of life are meant to be uneasy and difficult. Life will test your courage and patience, they will test how Much believe you have in yourself .. but if you don’t give up on yourself when the times are hard. Life will reward you with things only the bravest ones deserves.

YOU CAN OVERCOME

The bravest and strongest people in the world are not the ones with an easy past. They had the hardest of things to go through and countless days of heartbreaks to overcome. Sometimes like you, they had the thoughts of giving up but they instead there carried on through it all even when things did not change. They never allowed their circumstances stop them from believing in themselves instead they chose to grow through them. So if you find yourself in that hopeless phase, remind yourself that you have what it takes, that beyond the difficult days there are better days ahead.

i know there many reasons for you to give up right now, too much pain to carry on any further. You are your reason to try again. Keep going life may not look bright but every day there is something to hold onto even in your darkest days.

someday all of these___the struggles, the waiting, the moments of self doubts and wondering, all of this will make sense. But for now have comfort in knowing that you are trying your best, have faith that even though life has not been kind to you lately, you’re learning to be kind and gentle with yourself. Trust that the struggles are here to make you strong.


Maybe during this period of waiting you will find out things that are truly worth waiting for. And maybe by going through these moments of self doubt and wondering you’ll learn to believe in yourself, you will discover what is best for your heart. Remind yourself that even though it feels like forever, this is just a phase of your growing process.

Always remember the little things you do matter, the small steps you take , the tiny goals you achieve each day all matter. Even if they don’t mean so much in the moments. Remember they all add up and on day they will make sense. So start where you are, start with what you have today. Even if some days the old feeling of doubts and pain appear in your heart again and they make you feel afraid to take any more steps, remind yourself that these feelings are not permanent and you are still capable of moving ahead. Believe that the same way life has helped you grow through your past circumstances, it will use these moments of doubts and challenges to help you grow more stronger again

quick reminder__just know pain is never permanent.