You are not alone

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4 years ago

Hello everyone!!!

Have you ever thought you are leaving or had the feel of throwing in the towel; or do you feel you are experiencing the worst emotional saga or torture in your relationship or marriage. Well, you are not alone and you can not be the only person going through that kind of experience in this whole wide world. More reason why there is a reason to ever give up on yourself nor allow yourself to be depressed or ever drawn to taking your own life.

The past 2 years have been seriously emotional for me because I have been counselling marriages and various friends going through marital or relationship challenges. All the stories are very much emotional and get me teary, though I can not afford to cry since I am being their strong shoulder. 

Well, I am not a fan of divorce but most of the time, separation may be key to revolving battery cases, with the sole purpose of resetting the inhumane/predator nature of the men and women victimizing their partners. Else, most of these battery cases may lead to the death of either or both of the couple.

In the past 2 years of being a counsellor; I have come to realize that one problem forms the basis of all marital issues; it is ANGER! Regardless of how deep the positivity you invest into anything, whenever Anger is in the mix, it poisons it all. The most intriguing example I have had to handle recently is the case of a couple battling over the upgrade of lifestyle; imagine the wife angry because of the sacrifices everything for the family and do not take care of himself. The man actually spent the funds meant for his eye surgery on his daughter's school fees because his funds were stuck in the bank and his daughter would have to repeat a whole academic year if the school fee was not paid. 

Due to this, the wife refused to forgive him and that formed the source of her anger and is almost impossible to make her see the sacrificial side which may be a treasure to someone else.

Well, in these past years, I have come to realize the below:

Facts you should know:

  • You are not the only one going through that hardship


  • The length of the dating period is not a guarantee that you know your partner 100%


  • The partner you are leaving now may be way better than the other ones you will meet later


  • You may be the problem in that relationship; have you spent time removing yourself from the situation and seeking outwards help.


  • No matter how bad it is, you will survive it all and come out the other side stronger and more experienced


  • All couples come to a point, where they feel; leaving the marriage is the best option.


  • If you love your partner enough; then it is worth fighting for.


  • When there is life, there is hope


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Yes munna bhai ap sahi keh rhy ho k akela ni hta koi most inspiring article ap ka content bhot acha hta hy hmesha article bhi acha h or lead image bhi achi lgai h ap ny

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4 years ago

nicely written article. Indeed every one should face problems with bravery. rightly said dear we are not only ones facing problems

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4 years ago

Bravery is the only way to salvation. Thank you for liking my article.

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4 years ago

I definitely agree when you said everyone has their own hardships and problems. So you need to think positive all the time to overcome it.

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4 years ago

Of course, coping with adversity and working with courage is our only success, and only with positive thinking can we win the hearts of others.

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4 years ago

Winning hearts of other people is the best. But you should also be very careful not to break their trust.

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4 years ago

It's not okay to trust people too quickly, but when you understand it, it's your job to maintain that trust and confidence. Try to win people's hearts.

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4 years ago

Definitely, trusting is not that easy. You need a lot of time to completely trust someone.

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4 years ago

Very good and informative post

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4 years ago

Good writing

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4 years ago

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