Why do men cheat in relationships?

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Cheating is when one partner betrays the other partner's trust and breaks his promise to maintain emotional and sexual isolation. Being cheated by someone you love so much can be devastating. People who are deceived suffer a lot.

Can you imagine how it must feel when a person is cheated on and lied to by their partner who they have dreamed of spending their entire life with?

You feel angry, disappointed, and broken. The first thing that comes to mind when they got cheated is, "Why did this happen and why my partner cheated on me?"

Are men cheats more or women?

Although both men and women cheat, statistics show that more men than women have confessed to having an affair after marriage. So, what percentage of people cheat?

When you ask what percentage of men cheat and what percentage of women cheat, it's no surprise that men are 7% more likely to cheat than women.

Do all men cheat?

Statistics confirm that men are more likely to be cheat than women, but it is far from clear that all men are cheat.

Not all men are the same and not all cheat. However, there are factors that men cheat more than women.

They are persecuted with questions: "Why is this happening, why men cheat?" , "Is he cheating?"

It's not just about fleeting affairs, often women find their husbands in long-term affairs and wonder about their partners: "Why do married men have long-term affairs?", "Why do people cheat in relationships?" ? "

Here are some reason why men cheat in relationships.

  • MEN CHEAT DUE TO LACK OF MATURITY

There are various reasons why men generally engage in extramarital. From my very own experience, I even have noticed the common theme of emotional immaturity with those that act on the emotional and physical aspects of cheating.

Lack of time, determination and maturity to invest in the basics of your marital relationship is one of the reasons why men cheat, at least some of them. Instead, these individuals often choose to engage in activities that are detrimental to their other loved ones, families and themselves.

The traumatic consequences of cheating in a relationship are not understood until after the fact. Cheaters have a clear tendency toward recklessness. It is helpful to think long and hard about whether men who think cheating will hurt romance or perhaps they will lose the ones they love most.

  • MEN CHEAT BECAUSE THEY FEEL ASHAMED ABOUT THEIR DESIRE FOR PLEASURE

The reason that men have emotional affairs and not just physical, it's because of shame, and thats the reason why people cheat. I know this sounds like a carthorse dilemma because many people get caught up in cheating. However, cheating is often caused by shame.

I hate to be abusive and outspoken, but the deception that many men have committed is common to both homosexuals and straight people, which is a shameful interpretation of their desire for pleasure. Many of them are loved and deeply devoted to their partners, but over time they develop a severe fear of rejecting their desires.

Some of us who we love become equally familiar and family to us, and therefore more difficult to enjoy as individuals - especially when it comes to sex and romance - as a result of potentially harming another person, and shame.

  • MEN CHEAT BECAUSE SOMETIMES THEY HAVE INTIMACY DISORDER

What to look for when men cheat? Any sign that a man is struggling with issues of intimacy could be a red flag.

Men cheat because they have an intimacy disorder, whether they cheat online or face to face. They are likely to ask how close they are (not just sex), or if they ask, they don't know how to relate to a woman, and they answer why men cheat.

So a man looks for a cheap replacement to suit his needs and desires for intimacy.

  • MEN CHEAT BECAUSE THEY CHOOSE TO

Cheating is a manifestation of unsolved problems that have not been resolved, unfulfilled emptiness, and inability to fully devote yourself to the relationship and your partner.

The husband or boyfriend is unfaithful to his wife or his girlfriend- that doesn't happen, it's the choice that the husband or boyfriend made. There is no valid explanation for why men cheat.

  • MEN CHEAT DUE TO LACK OF APPRECIATION

While various reasons have been cited, one theme running through them for men is lack of appreciation and attention.

Many men feel like they are working hard for their families, internalize their emotions, feel like they are doing too much and not getting enough in return, this explains why men cheat.

  • MEN CHEAT BECAUSE OF SEEK LOVE AND ATTENTION

There are many reasons for men to be cheat, but the one that stands out to me the most is that men like to be noticed. In relationships, cheating raises its ugly head when it lacks love and appreciation. Often, especially in our fast-paced, running, social situations, couples get so busy that they forget to take care of each other.

The conversation focuses on logistics such as "People picking up children today" and "Don't forget to sign bank documents". Men, like others, seek love and attention.

If you're feeling ignored, bullied, or constantly gnawed on, seek out someone who will listen, stop you, compliment you, and make you feel good as opposed to how you felt with your failing partner.

  • MEN CHEAT BECAUSE OF SEXUAL ADDICTION

There are many reasons for men to be unfaithful. One of the trends we have seen over the last two decades is the increase in the number of men who suffer from sexual addiction.

These people abuse sex to alleviate emotional trauma that is often the result of past trauma or neglect. They struggle to be supported or to feel loved and this is the explanation for why men cheat.

They often experience feelings of weakness and inferiority, and almost all struggle with the ability to connect emotionally with others. Your inappropriate actions are driven by urge and an inability to share your behavior.

These article will help women identify why men are cheating and will probably give them insights into what men think and what they can do to prevent cheating.

Let me know, what is your opinion on this, feel free to comment below. Thank you for reading!

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People will say men are born polygamous. However, cheating is a no no. If they aren't happy with their current partner, they should break up and leave. The same goes with other women, some women are cheaters too, not only just men. Cheating will always be a choice. It ain't an accident nor inevitable.

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3 years ago

Like what I'm saying not all men are cheaters.

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3 years ago

Cheating in relationships has being in our lives over the years, there's no clear reason why men or women cheat, People cheat for fun and some cheat for financial gains. however from the article cheating is bad and kills the spirit of trust on the one being cheated upon .

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3 years ago

You've really written an article that's a debate, lol............men really cheat in a relationship because they aren't satisfied with their girl, which is really bad

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3 years ago

Boys try harder to convince a girl. And if the girl admits after showing a lot of flirtations, then often the boys with such girls, often start cheating on them in front of or in secret. I think when girls find out that boys really love them. So girls should try not to let the boys hate them by showing too much attitude or trying to convince themselves too much.

As always, you have written an article on a very good topic.

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3 years ago

Not all of them cheat and some cheat because of his current GF is not treating him well as a couple, and then he find the one that wil fulfill all his needs

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3 years ago

But cheating is not a good thing to do when your in a relationship. If you want other girl, then leave. You don't need to cheat. Tell the girl the valid reason and then after that you can choose the other girl atleast that's not cheating.

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3 years ago

Mostly men cheats because it's in their habits they donot easily fall for a girl because of her personality they just want to fulfill their sexual desire and move

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3 years ago

Like what Im saying. ☑️

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3 years ago

This is very informative I appreciate reading your article cheating a relationship is one of the hardness a relationship many has lose their relationship in this but not knowing relationship has to be stronger by each other thank you very much for this information

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4 years ago

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For a moment in the dark night To burn like a firefly I am your false arrival I feel dear. You didn't look for her The page of my secret diary All of which was assigned to you You lost the right yourself. I'm just for you now I can compromise Reminiscing about the past, nothing more Because you took the mind with you. ♥️❤️💖💖♥️❤️💖💖

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4 years ago

Cheaters live cheating in all walks of life, cheating is the job of cheaters.

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4 years ago

they cheat because the are also cheated by someone else someday

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4 years ago

But it's not good idea to take revenge on your present partner.

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4 years ago

When someone know that his/her favorite person start to cheat him/her that feel is so worst. Everyone should stay hinest in their relation

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4 years ago

The big problem is not everyone can stay as not a cheater.

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4 years ago

Yeah, you are right

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4 years ago

Hm

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4 years ago

They are cheated

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4 years ago

Very interesting post Dear

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4 years ago

Beforw go in a relationship we must have to justify that person are good or not.Many relationship are break down in little time because they just loved by showing their internal behaviour and characters.No one see their external character.I want to say know him or her extremely.I'm sure you will not Fraud.

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4 years ago

Yes. That's trueee. Also make sure that the guy has a good intention.

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4 years ago

Now a present day... There is no one fully believed person

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4 years ago

Can you elaborate more? I don't understand.

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4 years ago

You walk through life much easier with a smile on your face

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4 years ago

In life we all have an unspeakable secret, an irreversible regret, an unreachable dream and an unforgettable love

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4 years ago

fake people do this

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4 years ago

Or not really men.

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4 years ago

what do you mean I don't understand, will you please explain

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Because real men never hurt his partner or his love one. If he cheat on her partner, then maybe he is not real men.

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4 years ago

sometime girls also do this don't forget it.. only its not fault of man..

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4 years ago

Just read the whole article . Like what I'm saying in the article, not all men are cheater.

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4 years ago

i also comment there all fake people do this and you reply not real man do this 😛checked your comment dear 😋

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4 years ago

Yes, that's not real man. You didn't get my point. HAHAHA it's seems that you didnt agree with the topic coz you dont understand what I mean. But it's okay. HAHA not a big deal.

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4 years ago

hi hi hi did you mean man = women 🤐🙄 that's mean by your perspective women also called man hahahhaahaha

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4 years ago

Lol if that's what you understand, just go. Haha tired of explaining. Thanks

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4 years ago

you go, you are still a little girl... growup take care

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4 years ago

The life you live is more important than the words you speak

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One of the trends we have seen over the last two decades is the increase in the number of men who suffer from sexual addiction.

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Yes most of men have sexual addiction. If someone suffer on that addiction, he need to consult on expert.

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4 years ago

Nice write-up there. It is obviously no doubt that men cheat than women in relationship. If I man is pleased with everything from his partner, there should be no form of cheating

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4 years ago

Although women are also cheat but men is more cheater. And sometimes, especially boys are not Agree with this. HAHA

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