Father

A father is a sincere friend who does not expect interests with his children and a close brother, for he sees them every day at home and fraternizes with them, and a caring father cannot taste comfort except with the comfort of his children. Dependent on reaping livelihood, and he is a courageous man who does not know fatigue to fulfill the desires of his children. A patient educator raises his children and is patient with their mistakes and courtesy to him so that they do not find friendliness from others. Local and migratory.

Preferred father

The father is like a tree in giving, he is given free of charge, and like a river in love and constant tenderness, and the father is like a bird in his work, he becomes the morning to milk his strength and he is the safety valve for the family as he protects them from the dangers that surround them. Father is a great word that may be short in length and with few letters, but long-lasting in giving and with great stature; The father keeps his family together and nothing separates them.

He spends his long hours at work and does not know boredom, to return to his home loaded with the many bags that provide his children with sustenance, and then nothing will be missing from them. The father is the educator without negligence, as he aspires to raise his children and nurture them in a good and sound manner, far from decadence, honest, and lacking in anything.

The wall that protects and protects the family, is the pillar of the house, and the secret of its stability. The father is the warmth of his children in the winter and their joy in the spring, and he is not visited by sleep until he reassures his children that every one of them has taken his place and slept, and his heart does not find the pleasure of rest after the long fatigue and hardship of life until after his soul dwells in the reassurance of his children. What a superhuman man!

He does not know the meaning of laziness, and he may have to work for a long time without being controlled by routine, for he has set himself up to be a hard worker to find the livelihood for his children, and he may lead day and night to get some extra dirhams that help In house expenses and supplies.

Righteousness with the Father

God Almighty commanded us to honor the parents and urged us to reduce a wing of mercy for them and to provide assistance and assistance to them and to meet their desires and requirements, and this righteousness is a small part of what the parents offered to the children.

So they must righteousness and obedience to good and not to be bored with them. Parents need, in their old age, a special kind of care and a distinctive style and great attention, as with age it appears that there are new needs that did not exist in the past, so they must be met by the children and he promised to be sorry for them or anger, so how many strange requests the son asked when he was young and the father did not answer it and implemented it on Immediately, as parents may feel nostalgia and longing for their friends and people of their age, which may require them to secure their visits to their friends and take care of them to fulfill their request to the fullest and not to fail in this, understanding what remains of the living memories that remind them of the above, and it is also righteousness for children not to advance ahead of their parents if they sit down On the food they do not eat before them, and if they walk they do not precede them, and they must take their advice as they did before so as not to make them feel that they have lost their importance or marginalized.

It is the seriousness of the son to help the father in his private matters that he is no longer able to do; Such as accompanying him to the washroom and providing him with assistance, as well as helping him with bathing and other needs that he can no longer afford. It is righteousness for children to take their parents for a walk as long as it is needed. In order not to feel bored and neglected, they desperately need these moments that make them forget the pain of life.

Likewise, the father’s feeling of concern, like the feeling of the child, does not exceed him, as something small may anger him and fill his heart with joy something smaller than him.

Righteousness to the Father after his death

The loss of the father does not make up for him, as with his death, the gaps in the family appear and the emptiness he left appears, and the family loses its largest component, so the family feels alienated because they have lost the pillar and foundation of the house that they have always relied on.

Righteousness has not been attached to life. And he reached his companions, righteousness and offering them what was necessary, and praying for the parents in every citizen to supplicate answered and give charity on their behalf and implement their will. The father is the spirit of life and its leader, and he is the valve of family safety and stability.

Whatever we talk about the father’s virtue, we will not honor his right and we will not give him his status. The father’s love is the most wonderful gift from God. Whoever has a father who is alive let him accept his hands and never tire of sniffing them, as long as these hands are tired and stained with all shades Life is to secure happiness, and his feet, which have broken and cracked, are required to stand for a long time without rest to earn a living with which the bodies are upright.

So whoever has a father who is alive, he should improve his companionship and ask him to please put a crown on his head, and whoever is dead, let him be good to him in all kinds of Righteousness after death, and he does not remember it only on special occasions, but he must not forget it at all times.

May our parents be given a long-lasting journey. Life with eternal happiness blessed health, and joy forever. Amen.