My problem with them.

Nov.16 Tuesday

Hello everyone,how are you today? I hope you are all doing great.

I just want to say sorry in advance about my article today. I have no one to tell about my problem with my in-laws, that is why I choose to share it here. I hope you consider it, because for me this is the only way to express my feeling right now.

I dont want to say something bad about my in-laws, that is why I just endure the pain as much as I can,because I dont want to create any trouble between me and my in-laws,and I dont want to ruin the relationship between us. But there are really things that I can't handle anymore.

There was no problem with them at first, and they treated me well,also my family. They treated me like their own child, and I can tell that they were kind. I am super close with my mother-in-law, but when I got pregnant some things change.

Their youngest child which is my partner now, was working as a call center agent,so they thought their son's salary is really big, but the truth was that,it was just enough for our needs as a family, since we already have our own family and our baby's needs is kinda expensive specially when it comes to his milk.

My partner did not forget to give his parent a little amount of help or money every month, of course they are the one who sacrifice just to finish him on his study, but sometimes the help we give to them,doesn't seem to be enough, because they are asking for more,and it make me stress to think about our budget.

Its really hard for me to be on that situation especially that I dont have my own income. It gives me a headache sometimes when it comes to my partner salary,because his parent want a bigger share, they didn't care about our own expenses and bills.

They also always interfere when it comes to raising my child, I have my own way on how to raise my child, but they want us to follow their decision,they keep on saying that I am wrong when it comes to my son,but I am old enough and know what is wrong and what is right, beside I dont want my child to be a spoiled brat,because at the end I know that we are the one who will suffer. They also want me to do to my son the same thing the way they raise their child before. It seems like they are getting my right when it come to my son, and that's what I hate the most. They think that all their suggestions and decision is always right, what about us? What about our own decision? That is why I choose not to live with my in-laws.

I am just thankful, that my partner have a stable job, to support our daily needs and no need to stay with my in-laws. It is really true that when it comes to money people will change. Sad reality.

I think that all for now, Im so sorry if I rant in here. I hope you understand my side.I just really want to express my feeling right now because its driving me crazy.

Thank you for your time. Specially to my dearest sponsors who is generous and kind. Thanks also to those who leaves some comment and gives an upvotes to my article.

Keep safe everyone.💪❤️

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