You alone are not enough
No one can deny we all need peace in our life we only want happiness we want someone who holds our hand in the dark and gets us in the light. It's wrong when someone says I am happy alone I don't want anyone to enter my life I have my own rules to spend my life.
It's a natural thing Allah makes everything in pairs. So stop saying you are alone enough. Most of you maybe disagree with me and said living life alone is easy and happy so let me ask you a question. Why do you think like this? And obviously, you describe the reason behind it. But what if that reason fades away? do you still say living alone is the best thing and you love being alone it will be a big No from your side
A common reason people choose to stay alone
1: Get cheated by someone
The first reason behind it is the trust issue when a person gets cheated on by his girlfriend or a friend. He becomes a person with trust issues and if this thing happens again and again the person decides that he will never get involved with someone and stay alone forever.
2: heartbreak due to expectations
The 2ne most common reason is expectations. For example, you expect me that I will treat you the way you treat me but I do the opposite of your expectations and your heart gets broken so due to the heartbreak you decide to stay alone and away from everyone
3: negativity
3rd and most important reason is negativity around you when you listen to another person's story and see how people are using each other for benefits you feel exhausted and you choose to be alone
The solution to this problem
Problem 1 solution
The first problem, you need to think about that person is he deserves to be in your life. You are honest & loyal in relationships did you accept someone with you who is not loyal to you? No so just let that person Go. All five fingers are not the same on the right time you will find your real gem who kills your loneliness and after meeting it you will never say that you want to be alone just wait for the right time and right person
Problem 2 solution
Lessen your expectations and see what others expect from you and if you do things according to what others expect in return you get what you want
Problem 3 solution
Its solution is very simple just learn from other blunders and never do those mistakes. Listen or read the stories with a positive mind you will get a positive result and this thing helps you to find positivity in everything and when you become positive you feel so happy and want to share your happiness with the world & never want to be alone
Don't say anything wrong that leaves bad impact on other
When one's heart is broken once, to trust the second time is difficult. But we should rather ask God for the right person to be with.