Disadvantages of live in
I was hell busy for the last 2 days because of my friend's engagement but now I am free so decided to share my views on the most trending topic here l. Two days back I encountered an article where a girl share her point of view on live in and tell us its advantages. Like when we live with someone (a guy or girl) we know him/her better and decide whether we are ready to spend our whole life or not. So I decided to share my views on it too
Being a Muslim girl it's prohibited for me to live with a guy I am not married and I agree with this rule. And the reason behind it is genuine. There are a lot of disadvantages of living with someone you don't have any legal relationship
What is meant by live in?
It simply means you will live with a person you are not married and he is just your boyfriend and you want to take sometime to test him if he eligible to be your partner or not (same thing apply for a girlfriend)
1: you take a person as an option
When you decide to live with a girl or boy to test if he/she is eligible to be your life partner for a lifetime or not. You test him/her in everything and didn't accept a single mistake by him/her and then you end up with no marriage your whole life
Keep in mind nobody in this world is perfect just accept your partner the way he is if you run behind perfection and rejected the person as an option you stand alone at the end
2: you have kid even if you don't want
It's totally wrong saying that a girl or boy can share a single roof without having an s*x obviously they have almost 99% of girls get pregnant even if they don't want and then the real trouble for them starts when a boy refuses to take the responsibility of a kid and a girl become single parent also society mostly didn't accept that girl and call her a characterless lady
So it's better to be the wife of someone first so that even if he leaves at least society didn't blame you and shows some sympathy for you
3: both didn't tolerate each other mistakes
When you live together without any relationship there are only a few chances of love and compromise in most cases ego jumps in and destroy the relationship before starts
But if you are married you try to come because you are official and try to save your relationship.
That's why I think marriage is netter than live in
There are many people I knew that prefer to live with their partners before marriage. They have to know each other first. It's like a pre-marriage practice.