"Don't waste your time being upset about something you can't change. Begin again and do it better this time." - Joyce Meyer
Life is unfair. Most of the time it's the exact words that will come out our mouth every time what we planned will not fall into place. We'll feel betrayed that we tend to stop and just do nothing. Isn't it how life was really designed? I mean, that's exactly what life supposed to be. That's the nature of a person who is living. To have this life that's so challenging. To have this life that's so unfair. To overcome and challenge this life has to offer. And this kind of life is what will keep us from going.
And to overcome this challenges is to start again. Starting again is not easy. You'll feel a lot of disappointment. You'll feel that what you've done will be put into waste. You'll feel that the effort you made is not enough. But you'll never know what will be the result if you're not going to try. Again. Restart.
Things may be easier said than done. But we can always modify life and redirect our plans.
You failed in an interview? Hop in to another. There's a lot of chances and opportunities waiting for you. When one door closes, a better door is open waiting for you. You'll just need to find the courage and find that precious door. Take a good rest. Recharge your body and mind. And start again.
You got heartbroken? Accept the fact that our feeling of love will not always be reciprocated. Not everyone will give the same love you gave. And do not stay in love with the person that just love you because they need you. Is that even love after all? You do not deserve the love that comes back, you deserve the love that stays. Do not settle for less. Do not be afraid to love again. In the right time, with the right person.
Your plans didn't turn out how you expected it to be? It is okay to get sad. But staying sad will not help you succeed in that plan. Rise up and redirect your plans. Remember, when plan A did not work you still have plan B and a lot of letters on the alphabet. Work on it and start again.
Starting again does not mean just doing the same thing. Starting again means doing what you already did and adding some spices on it. Make sure to modify. Make sure to improve. Failing does not always means failing, it means there's still something you can do and you need to find it out.
Acceptance of whatever happened and trying to start again if necessary is worth trying for.
That's all for today beautiful people. If you have any thoughts about this, feel free to leave it in the comment section below. Let's interact. Stay safe always! Xoxo β¨βΊοΈ
- MissJo π
Always fight on! :)