Something I deeply care about, and something that truly fascinates me.
Some children are lucky enough that they grew up in a loving, compassionate, and caring home. Some are in a family of abusive and vicious parents. Me, I was born and raised in a good environment and a happy family. I was lucky my parents raised me well and always taught me to be kind and honest even if others are not. I uphold our family values which are honesty, respect, and kindness. My mother always reminds me that I must be independent on my own. I have learned a lot about dealing with life's ups and downs. I was a selfless girl before where I value the happiness of others rather than my own. I always make others the priority over myself. However, life circumstances change from year to year. We faced things that change our perspective and somehow changed our whole life.
As I grew up, I realized that prioritizing yourself is the most important thing you can do. For years, I never know what I wanted and needed in life. I constantly placed the people at the center than my own. I was continually saying yes when I wanted to say no since I did not know how to express myself without being arrogant. I faked myself in front of everyone about my vulnerabilities, stating I was all right when I was not, and acting I did not mind the mockery as a joke. Most of my days, I woke up and looked at my mirror with doubts and unsatisfied with myself. Then, one day my thoughts slap me. I realized that I am living a life that I never wanted. I surround myself with people who are not knowledgeable and kind enough to help me. So, I distance myself and start to reflect that self-love is critical; it entails having a high regard for the quality of life and happiness. I help myself by reading different articles about self-care. I made reading, journaling and even hiking as a hobby and with that, I am slowly gaining knowledge about the quality of good living. Taking care of oneself entails many things, including accepting vulnerability, talking to someone, and seeking assistance. It also entails making time for regular exercise, relaxation, or a stroll in a peaceful park. Self-care is fascinating. It creates resiliency, allowing us to function effectively with adversity.
What I deeply care about now is myself and my happiness. It is truly fascinating when you learn to love yourself and express what you feel. I am still on my way to success and still learning in life, but I am proud that I make my way out of that phase. Slowly gaining my confidence and strength to stand on my own is an achievement for me. One thought that I keep in myself until now “No one is responsible for your happiness, be independent enough to create your own.” I believe that we can help ourselves by using the power of our imaginations. Keeping a positive self-image and participating in self-compassion and self-care are essential components of establishing a happy life with ourselves and the people who mean dearest to us. As what I read in an article stated, "Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind." Let’s live a happy life, don’t wait for the time of regrets.
Something I deeply care about, and something that truly fascinates me.
Some children are lucky enough that they grew up in a loving, compassionate, and caring home. Some are in a family of abusive and vicious parents. Me, I was born and raised in a good environment and a happy family. I was lucky my parents raised me well and always taught me to be kind and honest even if others are not. I uphold our family values which are honesty, respect, and kindness. My mother always reminds me that I must be independent on my own. I have learned a lot about dealing with life's ups and downs. I was a selfless girl before where I value the happiness of others rather than my own. I always make others the priority over myself. However, life circumstances change from year to year. We faced things that change our perspective and somehow changed our whole life. As I grew up, I realized that prioritizing yourself is the most important thing you can do. For years, I never know what I wanted and needed in life. I constantly placed the people at the center than my own. I was continually saying yes when I wanted to say no since I did not know how to express myself without being arrogant. I faked myself in front of everyone about my vulnerabilities, stating I was all right when I was not, and acting I did not mind the mockery as a joke. Most of my days, I woke up and looked at my mirror with doubts and unsatisfied with myself. Then, one day my thoughts slap me. I realized that I am living a life that I never wanted. I surround myself with people who are not knowledgeable and kind enough to help me. So, I distance myself and start to reflect that self-love is critical; it entails having a high regard for the quality of life and happiness. I help myself by reading different articles about self-care. I made reading, journaling and even hiking as a hobby and with that, I am slowly gaining knowledge about the quality of good living. Taking care of oneself entails many things, including accepting vulnerability, talking to someone, and seeking assistance. It also entails making time for regular exercise, relaxation, or a stroll in a peaceful park. Self-care is fascinating. It creates resiliency, allowing us to function effectively with adversity. What I deeply care about now is myself and my happiness. It is truly fascinating when you learn to love yourself and express what you feel. I am still on my way to success and still learning in life, but I am proud that I make my way out of that phase. Slowly gaining my confidence and strength to stand on my own is an achievement for me. One thought that I keep in myself until now “No one is responsible for your happiness, be independent enough to create your own.” I believe that we can help ourselves by using the power of our imaginations. Keeping a positive self-image and participating in self-compassion and self-care are essential components of establishing a happy life with ourselves and the people who mean dearest to us. As what I read in an article stated, "Be there for others, but never leave yourself behind." Let’s live a happy life, don’t wait for the time of regrets.