Since I was very young I have always liked to be very independent and in part I think that has been the key to my development in different aspects of my life, I can say with property that today I am a woman with great ability in different areas, I like to constantly learn new things, I also like to make it clear that whenever I propose to do something I do it well and not just to comply, my success in different areas I owe it largely to my way of being, that personality that characterizes me as an independent, determined, responsible, honest, honest and among many other characteristics ...
In decades ago the woman was totally underestimated, treated more as a sexual object and reproduction, than as a real woman capable of achieving and reaching objectives that she proposed, I like to be clear whenever I talk to my friends on this subject, the woman has a lot left, perhaps in this century xxi is demonstrated that women have the ability to perform the same tasks as men and not only that, This is largely good for women, to be able to take off the crown of queens of housewives and become the queens and ladies of our destiny, women left home and with it that old custom of being the only one who prepares the food, take care of the children and as a good wife to be for her husband at any time. Today this has changed, we women have given ourselves our own position, working and being housewives, mothers, sisters, teachers, presidents, in short, we are what we want to be.
Whenever I come to work I get up with the best disposition, not only that, for me coming to work is more than just a timetable, it is a responsibility to myself, to show that we women can also run a company, be our own bosses and not depend on anyone, it is a good answer to so many questions. I work in a clothing company, a very well known brand, since I was little I have felt that sense of being a leader, of being able to take the baton and today, I do what I do with the greatest of honours, I have to be in charge of a brand like Columbia and I am in charge of several people.
My first days in this position were not easy, I had to learn that the sense of authority must be earned, that not by having a position the workers will learn to respect and it is not like that, I learned during these last months that as a good boss I must earn my position with my employees, to be a good boss means to be a good co-worker and above all to be a human being.
It was a challenge first of all to sit down and accept this great opportunity to manage a shop of a prestigious brand and above all to give a good image to the company in all aspects. As a woman with a very high self-esteem I have always considered that I can work and develop myself in any area, facing my fear is my biggest fear. I also understand that we are human beings and that we all feel some fear when we do something new, that is why I keep going and, today I keep my position and my image high.
as women we are subjected to many prejudices, thanks to the efforts of many women we have been changing this paradigm, it has not been easy, winning a position in a completely macho society has been the biggest battle we have had to face.
My life does not end there, apart from maintaining a brand as important as Columbia, I also have an important maternal life to lead, I like the fact of being a mother, I like more the fact of being able to work to please my daughter, everything has been combined, the desire to want to fill my baby with joy and to be able to buy everything she likes to give her a much more comfortable life, it has led me to overcome in any aspect of my life, today I can say that I owe much of my maturity to my daughter.
how not to be a good mother and good professional in the workplace if everything we do with love will go well, as simple as that, as long as you do things in a good way we will have a much more peaceful end in any given situation, so I always keep a positive mind to the adversities of life, although I managed to keep a business brand with little experience, something similar also happened with my daughter, is my first baby had no experience, there is something called intuition, in reality it is nothing more than that we do not say but we think that I call it intuition. To know that something is not right because it gives us a bad feeling, to know how to recognise that we all have to make our mistakes and learn from them, I can't say that I haven't stumbled on my way but a big part of what I am today is due to that experience gained in previous bad and good situations.
every woman must learn to defend herself on her own, in my case I am not alone with my daughter I have my husband but that does not mean that I do not know how to do something for myself, I have a husband but I also have a professional and maternal life to lead and apart from my love relationship, everything seems difficult but for a woman who is not afraid to try everything in this life nothing is difficult, what is difficult is not to try and stay waiting for something to happen and maybe it never does.
Being a mother taught me what a mother feels when a child does not behave well with her, every time I see the woman who gave me life, education and all those lessons that today are part of my being, many times I tried to be cold with my mother because I did not agree on something, With my head much cooler and my thoughts a little clearer, I understand that it is not easy to teach a child especially because there is pride that does not help us but how we use it, learning to listen to my mother was a difficult lesson to learn especially because whenever she tried to tell me something, I took it as something unimportant.
As the years went by I learned the importance of listening to all that advice, if I had been more consistent as a daughter I would have avoided many unpleasant situations, I don't regret it but I can say that I had to live through some uncomfortable moments, with disgust and a lot of sorrow, I had to understand the difficult way this experience has helped me to understand better how one thinks when living the life of an adolescent and carefree.
The love that I feel for my mother is something unique, I can say that apart from my daughter she is the other most loved person for me, besides being the most important thing, a mother who sacrifices her life for her child is priceless, to understand this was not easy, it cost me a little but I had to learn it the hard way.
Today my relationship with my mother is good and stable, we don't have any major difficulties, we know that we are both mothers, I am a first time mother and she is a first time grandmother, so we both maintain good communication.
I always wondered, how we failed our parents, by not being the essence that they transmitted to us from a very young age, giving those bad words or unnecessary answers, keeping a distant attitude with them for not keeping the same thoughts, getting upset unnecessarily with our father for our own problems. Whatever the reason, we have to be much more mature and manage to cope with all situations.
Whenever I talk about issues in which women have achieved self-improvement, I always mention my mother, a worthy example of self-improvement, a woman who had to start her life from scratch twice, not only that, she managed to fulfill her dream and graduate despite not having a lot of resources and with two daughters, she managed to achieve her goal, Part of her life has been a constant struggle to achieve each of her proposed goals, today I can say that my mother has managed to fulfill her duty as a mother but also as a daughter and sister, is a great example for my daughter and me, to know that we must sacrifice no matter how much it costs us the only thing we should not do is give up.
When we talk about multifaceted women we are talking about women who have managed to handle different areas, I can mention my mother in that group, being a mother, being an excellent professional, excellent daughter and wonderful sister, without leaving aside the role of grandmother, in some cases she does plumbing work, electrician, she is really an example.
My example to follow is that, constancy has made a person grow and this has been seen in many cases, the fact that something is difficult does not mean that it is impossible, we must try and above all be persistent when doing anything, we women can no longer remain in the shadows, nor stop being "mute" make noise that our steps are heard, that they feel that there comes a dignified woman, a regal woman.
My aunt is also an important example of a woman of dignity, she has managed to cope with the hard blow of being alone with 2 children and not only that, she has managed to support two nephews and my grandmother at home, all on one salary, that of my aunt. I always think that it is all a matter of attitude, it is also important to have a strong mental control not to run away from a situation that causes so much anxiety and stress.
I once asked my aunt how she managed to get by with so many things and such a low salary. She just said that she simply dedicated herself to producing money, she wasn't worried about how much she could earn, at least she knew that it was fair and necessary for everyone to eat, she didn't think about what she could do, she acted and waited according to the situation and that's how she managed to take each day one by one until today, The coping attitudes of a person vary, some do not have the same capacity to be able to lead a life with such a strong stress, what helped my aunt was the ability to cope with this stressful situation avoiding feeling that feeling, blocking perhaps with other thoughts and thus managing to cope with this stressful situation.
In endless words women have managed to rewrite their image, today women are capable of doing different things and not only that, they have developed a certain ability to do different things at the same time something difficult for men, they manage to turn a stressful moment into a situation of opportunity and all thanks to their creative ability taken to the maximum, a thought capable of flying like a bird and expand like oxygen itself, if the metaphor easily describes what a woman is then I could say that we are millions of stars in the sky looking to light up our own destiny.
I like to be able to share reliable material, each photo is of my own authorship, these people represent part of my family and above all part of my life. To be able to tell their story is nice and much more if it serves to motivate others to want to break any barrier in their lives. Enjoy your day, Enjoy your family.
