Frédéric Chopin and Franz Liszt: Who was really the greatest pianist of all time?
Hello, music lovers. Today I decided to write this analysis about these two undiscussable amazing composers that have one very important thing in common: the absolute focus on the piano.
I myself am a pianist and have been for a long time(up to a decade, which is more than half of my whole life), but what really made me want to write this little "study" is the fact that I am absolutely interested in music history.
For anyone who has interest in classical music, it might be common to come across this question: *Who was the best pianist? Chopin or Liszt?*
The answers here can vary dramatically, mostly because it's hard to establish the criteria by which you are answering this question. So, what I want to do here is explore some of these possible criteria to explain why there is not really an objectively truthfull answer.
He is the prince of the Romantic Period, the one Chopin everyone must've heard of. When it comes to fame, he's overtaking Liszt a little bit. But...**why** is that?
Well, accessibility, I'd say. Chopin has been way more depicted in culture than Franz Liszt has, and by that I not only mean movies or books, but also the fact that he's had his music much more passed on and used in this cultural scenario. Someone who's watched a movie in which a piece composed by him was part of the soundtrack, for example, might not even know his name, but still has been in touch with the one and only Chopin.
When Frédéric was only eight years old, he became a growing attraction in the aristocratic salons. At the same time, he had been performing public concerts for charity. So, since the very beginning, Chopin has been winning when it comes to accessibility.
Chopin was, in fact, a gifted pianist. But, even though he did write very difficult pieces, overall he was not very extravagant or performatic. It's said that he would stand very still and not move any part of his body except for his hands and arms during most of his performances.
With this in mind, we can say that, in comparison to Liszt's style of composing and performing, Chopin was way milder. This doesn't take away the fact that his music was(and still is, of course) very sentimental, this is the very justified reason to why he is considered the Prince of the Romantic Period.
The Young Franz Liszt had piano lessons with Carl Czerny, who had piano lessons with - ...I'm gonna say it... - Ludwig Van Beethoven.
In his book of memories "Recollections from my life", Czerny commented about Liszt, stating that he was impressively talented when it came to music, but...Czerny also said that Liszt was very chaotic when he was performing and did not understand the importance of expressivity.
At this point, Liszt was fastly developing his technical skills, but was a bit slower when it came to express himself through music.
When Liszt was already a famous pianist in Europe, he came to be surrounded by a social phenomenon that would later be called "Lisztomania". Now, what does it mean? Basically, the hysteric and obsessive relation his fans had with him, his concerts and his music. At this point in time, Lisztomania was really taking over all of Europe and Franz Liszt was basically a superstar.
Liszt's concerts started to have a strangely mystical character at that moment, for the public's reaction to his performances was hysterical at times. Musicologists affirm that Liszt's personality, other than his musical ability, was captivating and his stage presence was astounding in ways that fit with the mystical character of Lisztomania.
At some point, he decided to stop performing so he could focus on composing and transcribing, which was also one of his prime activities. His transcriptions of numerous pieces are still considered the best transcriptions to this very day.
So...
**Who was really the greatest pianist here? Frédéric Chopin or Franz Liszt?**
The truth is...there is no real answer to this question. Both of them had their own style of composing and performing and also they focused on different areas inside the music they wrote and performed.
Chopin was more sentimental, yet softer. Liszt was chaotic and had an intense way of playing the piano.
Chopin developed himself to become a full romantic. Liszt was more focused on his technique.
In the end, it comes to personal opinion whether Liszt is the best or Chopin is the best, but we must always keep in mind that both of them have indiscussable, gigantic value.
Thank you for your attention and vote! :)
The envy
A dear coworker had a house that was a family inheritance and I say had, because sadly she lost it due to an edge failure and half or part of the house gave way, but thank God nothing happened to her and her family, but in the blink of an eye she was left without a roof over her head and lost many of her belongings, fortunately she was able to move to her mother's house, but being a small apartment soon began the problems of coexistence, so she desperately needed her own home. At that time neither she nor I could apply for a mortgage loan to buy a house because of our condition of hired, but we thought of making an exception, so that she could solve her situation, but envy made its own.
In the same way, from the moment that Credit Management learned of the tragedy of this colleague, they thought of ways to help her in her situation, and one of the ways was to prepare an Administrative Ruling explaining the reasons for granting her a mortgage loan by way of exception, It is understandable that they wanted to help and many of our colleagues were happy about this possibility, but there is always someone envious, so a colleague who called herself a friend approached the office of the Assistant Credit Manager, asking for an explanation of the reasons why this colleague would be helped and she would not, and even demanded that she be helped as well.
This is one of many stories where envy is present or comes to the surface, in case someone has doubts, let's remember that envy ***is that feeling of sadness before the good that another person possesses or happens, in other words, the displeasure or annoyance produced in a person before the good that happens to a third party.***
This terrible unhealthy feeling, I think it has been witnessed by everyone who may be reading this publication, and it is truly terrible to see another human being feel sadness or anger at the good that happens to another and the worst thing to wish what that person has, I am glad when good things happen to others, it is nice to see someone appreciated and loved when good things happen to him, when he achieves small or big things, I am not saying that it is wrong to long for the same for oneself, what is ugly is to wish just what that person has, to be upset or saddened by an achievement of another person, if we work to obtain it, be it goods, food, character or something else, we will achieve it with perseverance, but I believe that envious people are insecure and have low self-esteem, in my opinion, I am not a psychologist or psychoanalyst.
Now, let's let people with more experience in these things explain to us what envy is, why we envy and what characteristics are present in a moment of envy.
It is a way of experiencing a negative emotion (fury, resentment, anger, exasperation, indignation, annoyance, irritability, hostility, regret, melancholy, pessimism, sorrow, self-pity, despondency, despair) that is transformed into feelings and then into unpleasant thoughts. Some consider envy as a personality trait (Taylor, 1988).
***Why do we envy?***
Because when we compare ourselves socially with others our deficiencies or shortcomings emerge, since there is always someone better than us. Thus, socially, the so-called "good envy" would be the same as "bad envy", since it is essentially a negative behavior.
According to Parrot (1991), during an episode of envy, the following characteristics are present:
1.Desire for what the other person has, frustrated desire,
2.Inferiority: sadness about one's own deficiencies or inferiority in relation to the envied person; anguish about one's own status; despair at the possibility of not having what the envied person has,
3.Resentment focused on the agent: resentment towards a specific person or group; dislike for their superiority; anger and hatred towards those who are supposed to be responsible;
4.Global resentment at the injustice of circumstances or fate;
5.Guilt for feeling ill will toward the envied; believing that feeling grudges is wrong; and 6.
6.Admiration, emulation of the envied or identification with the envied.
So, envy is present everywhere and as long as we do not accept ourselves as we are and understand that there is no need to compare ourselves with others, that everything comes if we are ready for it, so let's start by loving and accepting ourselves as we are, buying ourselves with ourselves for wanting to improve every day and be better than we were yesterday, either reading, talking, running, jogging in order as you decide to move forward, but if you are going to compare yourself do it in the healthiest way possible not to frustrate you, do it to inspire you.
Before retiring I thank all of you who have come this far and I hope this publication has helped you as much as it has helped me to reflect on this feeling that although it is very human, it is not healthy, especially if it is a constant in our lives.
A day on the hill and the right animals
since i was very young i like to enjoy the outdoors especially if i also go to train, a special weekend with lovely people make the difference of common and equal days, this weekend i was sharing with some friends and my husband in a typical hill of Valencia called "casupo" located in Venezuela, Carabobo state to be exact, to come to this wonderful place and train a little bit makes me feel like in those times that only mattered to go out and sweat a lot every time i ran everywhere.
I had been trying to come to the hill for more than a month, unfortunately something always happened, I was almost disappointed again because I thought that this end would not be the day either. Although as they say, he who wants to can do it, I decided to cheer up again, I told my husband, get ready, today is the day, we will go to the hill, I need to connect with nature, that place that can take your mind off any problem and transport you to a place where everything is relaxation and feel the wind hitting your face.
Getting everything ready to go to the hill was easy, the hardest part was having to walk about 2 km to get there, I really felt at times that it was very far but as I was talking to the other guys everything flowed quickly the streets were reduced in my mind and really everything became super simple, while walking to the hill I met some cute little friends, I was amazed because I love this kind of animals and they looked so adorable.
The story of these two cats is quite strange, they are two animals that were not lucky to get a family of humans, so they got used to live in the outdoors, with time both cats got together and formed a kind of bond because where one goes the other, it is nice to see this kind of connection in animals especially in cats, which are solitary animals. Both animals have a strong past, from being marginalised to being beaten by people and being run over, so much so that they managed to touch the hearts of many people, they are animals that are not used to being approached by people and do not show any signs of being afraid of people.
Many times this lack of fear is a problem, because somehow those who suffer directly the consequences are the animals themselves, people have proven to be ruthless beings, many enjoy causing harm to animals that are not to blame for anything, Mailu and Milo has about 4 years and have always been together, although they tried to adopt them on several occasions these two animals returned to meet and returned to the same place, it seems lie what I'm telling but it is a reality somehow always returned to this area.
Today everything is different for them, the people of the area adopted these animals as pets of the whole residential complex, many people who live there go down every day to give food to both cats, they take care of them and are always aware that they do not lack anything, also these cats are sterilized which prevents them from continuing to reproduce without control or measure that prevents many more cats are born in the street.
I am a supporter that every animal deserves respect, no matter the size much less the gender, the important thing is to know that every living being suffers equally and does not deserve to be harmed, I have also participated in programs of protection and removal of animals in danger, part of that work is to track animals that are in constant danger and relocate and finally release it and, if I am asked many times why save animals from the street? My answer will always be the same, no matter who it is if they need help we must help them as long as we can, much more to the animals that are not to blame for anything, insensitive those people who abandon and forget them in the streets or any unknown place for not wanting to continue feeding the animal, really that kind of people have no forgiveness from God, I consider them perverse and inhumane.
Well after having continued our tour I could also find a sweet dog called bob, what a beautiful animal, he is big and playful this dog is used as a searcher and protector in the hill, he is in charge of taking care that there is no snake or danger nearby and takes care of the people, although he looks like an old dog because of his size he is just a puppy he is only a year and a half old, although he is very young he is an animal prepared for any danger and very attentive to the people.
as always I didn't miss the opportunity to take a picture and have a memory with such a beautiful and big animal, I am not a big fan of dogs since I can remember, I only had a cat and a wolf dog, with both animals I ended up getting very fond of them, the worst was when I had to say goodbye to several of them, obviously years passed before I lost these two great friends that today I remember with much love.
Bob is also a specialist in drugs, he is a real tracker with a capacity to get any kind of illicit chemical substance without any problem, this is one of the reasons why I like to go out, firstly because one learns about many events and on the other hand one meets fantastic animals, each animal is unique, especially dogs and cats that have different characteristics and behaviour.
on the one hand cats are pets loved and hated by everyone, many of us like them but there are also things about the animal that bother many people, now what I do not tolerate is that both cats and dogs are released on the streets, for unknown reasons until unacceptable I do not think there is an excuse to release a pet to the street and leave it suffering, I wish people could be consientizar, beyond unconditional companions also feel, it hurts them to be mistreated and suffer like us.
Animals have lived together for many years, with the passing of time the animals most sought after by humans have been identified, among them are the two I mentioned a little while ago, dogs and cats, now what has caused so many animals to end up on the streets without any need. The lack of conscience, we as humans are responsible for an animal as long as it lives with us, so who is to blame if the animals end up on the street? Of the man of ourselves, I would like to develop at some point a foundation, although I do not want to handle any money directly if insomus or food for animals, to attend to these creatures that are on the street without any support.
continuing with my tour we finally arrived at the casupo, what a fantastic hill this is, it is immense, with rocks and a lot of earth to climb, it is quite steep, quite a challenge for anyone, besides it has areas where you can stop to rest as a kind of stations, There you can always drink water and then continue with the trip, I recommend that whenever you are going to climb a hill take a monkey or something long because many times it happens like me, I ended up slipping and I scraped my knee, what hurts the most is not the blow but the scratch,
Besides I can't complain either, I went up accompanied by people who were very attentive at the moment when I fell, they all looked scared and after the scare they all laughed, as if they were thinking my God something very bad almost happened but it's a good thing it didn't, the benefits of climbing the hill are many, first you condition yourself, it can help you to clear your mind, distract you from so many daily worries, it helps you to set goals and achieve your goals, I know people who every day arrive at a different station, their only objective is to reach the end of the hill at the top and, if you ask me, it has some logic, training the body is done through constancy, that is to say practicing constantly, subjecting the body to high intensity training such as climbing a hill and improving their sporting level every day.
I have also met people who have been struggling with grief for years, and the recommendation to connect with nature was the best thing that ever happened to them, because somehow its power is so great that we can think about so many things, I don't know if it is the natural beauty, the peace that exists there, or even the very energy that you feel there, I wanted to tell you about a person who unfortunately is no longer with us, he was someone I admire a lot, especially because I learned important things, I learned that everything is in us, to want to achieve, to reach a goal is in us. Fran was a very charismatic grandfather with an immeasurable energy, every time he came to the hill for him it was another opportunity to prove to himself that he was still able and had the necessary vitality, but as the years went by he understood that it was not only vitality, it was the thirst of wanting to prove himself that kept him going up every day, that his true energy came from his mind, many times he felt tired but his mind dictated something else, so he managed to reach and surpass his goals, on the other hand I also learned that there is no age that dictates what you should and should not do, you just need the determination to want to achieve things, not to surrender as difficult as it may seem, fight until you can't and always prevail against the different bitterness of fate.
in my journey many things happened, from meeting with pleasant animals and above all with indomitable survivors such as those cats that day by day give life in those cold and humid streets, on the other hand I also managed to see again the nicest dog that I have ever met, Finally, I reached the top, I felt that I was connected with nature and above all, I proved to myself that I still have the capacity to continue fighting as long as I put my mind to it. Thank you very much to all of you, today I say goodbye with a big hug, see you soon. !
Living one day at a time, you can experience many emotions.
with how fast time goes by, we must learn to live one day at a time, although it seems simple how difficult it is to do it this way, we spend our days thinking about so many things and we completely forget about the present. That's why I decided to focus on the present, live each day and enjoy each moment as if it were my last. My family and I try to spend quality time every day, at least that's what we try to do, my partner and my daughter are practically my daily bread, always together and well, we have had to learn to live together in the best possible way.
like every day in our routine we leave very early both to work and the girl to the ABC, today was one of those days where I decided to mark it with a photograph, perhaps it seems a photo more, although it is not so, for me it is a unique moment shared with my loved ones, to wake up and see my two loves next to my side, get ready, make breakfast and dress the baby and then go to work although they seem the same every day, For me it is different, different because it is true that they have similarities but it is a different opportunity every day to show who we are to the world, what we do and why we do it, in my case as I said in a previous post, my family is the engine of my life, for them I give everything and yes, I sacrifice every day to go to work in superhuman conditions to give a better welfare to my daughter.
Between the beauty of the smile we can always find bitterness, today is one of those days where I wake up thinking what would become of me if I didn't have my family, maybe I would be somewhere else doing who knows what, maybe I wouldn't have matured yet and I would be in some party wasting my life and my time but what is worth is my present, I am with the people I love and doing what I like the most, I can feel happy to enjoy unforgettable moments.
My problems disappear the moment I get home, it's not that I don't understand reality, it's that I understand that if I want to spend quality time with my family I really have to be present, many people forget what that is, it's shocking that even when they are with their families they have the mobile phone in one hand and the family on the other side, I do not support this type of action, if you really want to enjoy your loved ones as much as possible, do not waste your time only giving them 20% of your interest, give 100% so that the person feels that you are really paying attention to them and that they feel the warmth of your family at all times.
i like to be able to talk about these issues, i like to be able to say what i feel but most of all i like to be able to touch the hearts of other people who have unconsciously turned into pieces of ice, so cold that they can extinguish the most ardent yahama, so cold at heart that you can feel just by touching them. maybe i am being a bit exaggerated but that is the reality.
Today an amazing anecdote happened to me, that's why I always say that what will be will be at any moment. On my way to work I had to look for a package that I had to take to the shop, at times I thought that I would be late to pick it up, my surprise is that when I thought I was going to pick up the package they told me that it had not arrived at the destination and that I had to wait at least 1 hour, obviously I could not wait that long, so I relaxed and thought calmly about what I should do, quickly came that thought, stay calm live a moment at a time, I decided to leave and wait for the next day to pick up the package, what was going to happen next was unprecedented, my surprise was greater when I arrived at the shop, there was my husband to whom I had called to tell him that I would no longer be able to receive my package today and that the plans had changed, then my husband called the company when I told him all that, he demanded to be told where the transport that was carrying my package was and then intervened in the place where it was, he looked for my package and ended up delivering it to my shop.
my intention was not to call my husband to solve, my intention was only to warn of what happened and what happened later was only by the action taken by my husband, sometimes we believe that things are lost sometimes we even drown in a glass of water, so we must be calm at all times and then make a decision I took the most fair only that my husband was more skilled and sought the way to reward me and make me feel good, people who love you always look for ways to please just like a baby.
I know that my daughter will eat everything because she has a grandmother who does not think much to put something in her mouth, on the one hand it is good, I have always said that you should not be exquicito to eat and much more when things are not very well at home, on the other hand you must know how to nourish the child, it is not good to load it with so much food, I always have that problem with my mom because she does not measure that, she just wants to please her granddaughter and does not skimp on what to give her and what not and also learn to say enough.
This picture reminds me a lot of my little sister, she loved to eat lots of fruits unlike me who was a bit more selective, I can't say she didn't do the same as my daughter but from experience today I know it's not good to over feed them either.
As for Zoe's feeding it has always been balanced, she eats a bit of everything, salt food and then her bottle or her bottle and then salt food, then a bit of juice and finishes with some dessert, it seems a lot but as long as I am the one who serves her it will be balanced.
now, because it is good to have a healthy diet from childhood, as we all know there is such a thing as overweight children, it is very common to see children overweight, this happens because of what I mentioned a little while ago, it is not good to always please the child when you know that he has already eaten enough, if this control fails then the diet will become a problem, that child will probably begin to live an overweight and sedentary life, they begin to develop a stomach much bigger and difficult to fill or feel satisfaction, that is why it is important to take care of what our children eat, another very important thing is to know what to give a child, we must remember that your body is adapting to the process of eating foods outside the teat or formula, some can cause allergies that can then harm the baby, if it is good that if people who have children do not keep track of food are still on time,
Grandparents are all spoilers, some are much more excessive than others, that is why it is important to always talk to them, obviously they almost never pay attention but at least we try, children should be pleased according to their level of commitment to their parents, to create reciprocity.
My daughter inspires me, every day I can see how fast time goes by, even though a few months ago my daughter could only say a few words and walk very little and today she says much more coherent words and can walk with total ease. Sometimes I feel that time goes by very fast and that I am enjoying her very little, I would also like to have her so small and spoiled for much longer but no, everything goes by very fast.
Today was one of those days when I wanted to do a photo session with her, I didn't think that I would be able to capture such spectacular photos but I did, my daughter is really good for modelling, she knows how to make expressions that you like, she knows how to captivate with those big eyes and sweetness that drives you crazy and that smile that melts, she has super powers, yes, yes she has, she has the power to convince that nothing can avoid when she sets her mind to it.
as they grow up children become much more active and curious, they want to know everything and they look for ways to learn new things, they are in that stage where they copy everything and not only that they modify it, they manage to develop skills depending on the need, that is why it is important to have a good upbringing and a lot of character, I still remember when I was little my grandmother always said that a woman is made from small, that we must learn to do housework but we must also study, every woman has the right to decide what she wants to do with her life.
That's why I only want to pass on good values and a reasonable education to my Zoe and that she will have to learn the blows of life, she will also learn that not everyone is a friend and that friends will only be a few, on the other hand love is the most beautiful thing but it hurts a lot and more if you have a complicated relationship, I will try as a mother to guide my daughter on a good path,
many times I feel afraid, many times I think that I can't but it is enough to share with my daughter just for a moment to understand that for her I live, for her I die.
today was also an important day in celebration of the birthday of a great friend and above all a mother who has given me the gift of life, a woman who has a high sentimental value for me, worthy of example to follow and above all to improve myself, I owe much of what I am today to her, who has taught me that we must move forward even if the road is very hard, Mariu is a very strong woman, especially because several months ago her mother died, perhaps a person who was like a pillar for her.
Mariu is one of those women who has had to live her life alone with her children, sometimes she has to stop eating to be able to feed her children, that is why I admire her so much, the sacrifice that a mother makes for her children is priceless, I also admire her because although the situation in Venezuela is precarious she has been able to endure and move forward, with her dance therapy and gym workout routines, everything she has achieved has been thanks to herself....
The normal thing to do when someone has a birthday is to celebrate it in a big way, although I don't see how to do it when her mother has so little time to have passed away, if certainly life goes on but it is a kind of respect to the deceased not to celebrate as we normally do, I only invite the people closest to her, I am glad to belong to that small and select group, maybe I do not understand her pain completely because I have not been in something similar but I do know that it must not be easy to spend a birthday and not have your mother around to give you a hug and a blessing as usual, Mariu was very close to her mother, that's why it is also very painful for the most part.
Nowadays I practice the motto to live day by day and enjoy the good and not so good moments, how fleeting everything that happens to us is, because everything lasts so short. My words are dedicated to my family, symbol of union, symbol of hope and above all they symbolize my family strength.
Today I wanted to bring again an account of what is my life, those people who like to share as I do their daily life, feel welcome to comment with all my love, I will respond, take care of you.
Between my memory, family bonding and good friendship
one of the most important moments of the day is when I share with my daughter, although she is small she really knows how to make me feel accompanied and above all make me smile, every day I have a routine, as I mentioned previously in other posts, every day I have to work, then I have to be a mother at home, those moments when I am at home I try to take advantage of my daughter, she is very intelligent and has a fairly advanced learning ability so I have to go ahead, the ideal of all this is that I keep track of all her steps.
The infant stage is one of the best, as is well known, especially if you want to take advantage of the capacity that children have to learn easily. With my daughter, because of the high stimulation she has, she is a walking exhibitor, she absorbs everything and above all, just like a mirror, she repeats everything, so what I do is try to satisfy that need to learn. I do it in different ways but the most common is through play.
Play is very beneficial for children, they can learn how to have fun and they have a greater attention span. It is not easy to adapt to a child's pedagogical style, so it is good to read a little from time to time, I do it, I look for strategies to teach and get as much as I can out of my daughter.
today was one of those days in which i could share my training with her, although she is still too young to understand what i am doing she follows me to the letter, as she is like a mirror she wants to repeat everything so i try to do my best maybe in the future she will have some predisposition to make a sporting life for herself, i like to be able to nourish my daughter with beneficial things especially how to train at least once a day, As I mentioned before, she doesn't know what she is doing but in some way it allows me as a mother to observe her behaviour and measure how much she likes to do what I am doing, the observation led me to understand certain things, for example she has a certain interest in dancing, music, although every little child likes to dance, my daughter likes to watch a music video rather than a cartoon, part of that observation led me to understand that she has a certain predisposition towards music.
One day I started to think about this love for music that my daughter feels and the only logical answer that I get is that when I was pregnant I went to some dance therapies, I liked to listen to music and above all to play music, part of all these stimuli my daughter adopted them from the womb, that is why she loves it and that is her predisposition, besides that in my daughter I see many traits of me, haha obviously I am her mother but it surprises me how much a child can resemble her mother.
Like any mother who wants the best for her child, I hope to instill a life full of benefits, through good habits, the fact of training will help her to have a better development, her cognitive ability will also benefit, especially the psychomotor area, on the other hand, training will also help her to be in constant conversations with other people, the power of sports is such in social life that allows the child to have greater adaptability when living with other people or sociabilizar. That is why I want her to be able to share the same pleasure that I feel as a woman when she grows up.
I can't forget the fact that I met the man who is now my husband, in a gymnasium, it seems crazy but it was like that, in the least expected place for me I met a wonderful, charming man and above all he shares the same love for training and sport as I do.
a united family understands that they must stop thinking only about "him" and start thinking about "everyone" of course it is no longer about one person, but more of a unit, so decisions become much more committed, everything revolves around the family benefit, my husband and I have a good relationship, in part this helps everything to flow better, we also recognise that if we want the best for our daughter and our relationship we must try not to expose our stress to the family, look for ways to expel or release all that energy that we bring from work through training, a simple and excellent way to drain bad energies or emotional charges as it is commonly called.
A couple understands that every union deserves to be created on solid foundations, i.e. respect, solidarity, trust, sincerity, humility, responsibility, love. If we as a family maintain these values, everything that comes our way, no matter how difficult it may seem, will not be able to harm us.
Among so many things that I think, it is important that a child grows up in a completely healthy environment, that he/she can live with both parents and not only live with them, but also observe how they are on a daily basis, children are a copy of their mothers, it is true, that is why we must behave as such, have good manners, have good habits, instil good values, so that tomorrow when that child grows up he/she will know how to recognise the positive or negative in things, above all that every action has a response.
I am a faithful believer that our actions are the ones who determine what our future will be, that is why whenever I have to make decisions I always think about it very well because it may be a great opportunity or a not so good one, thinking things through calmly helps us to avoid misfortunes, regrets and above all disappointments.
a good attitude determines a good day or a bad day especially a healthy and beneficial life or a life submerged in sadness and misfortune, I am a total believer that a person with good disposition can achieve many things, even if you have difficult situations manage to find the way, I always like to be positive, today for example something quite particular happened to me, I had one of those days that was not the best, starting because my transport that takes me to work did not arrive and I was already late for work, I began to feel anxiety and worry because I was really late, then I decided to calm down and think, after several minutes I relaxed and told myself, well now what was going to happen happened today I will be late to open the shop so I must calm down and continue. As a strange thing happened an acquaintance that was casually going to the mall where I work, I could not believe it, from being in an anxious moment I went to be relaxed and with an inner peace that nothing could affect it, when I arrived at the mall, something out of the ordinary had happened, several shops had been robbed and above all it had been next to my shop, I really do not want to say that I was lucky. I don't want to say that I was lucky, it's just that it's incredible to believe that because of fate everything happened the way it was supposed to happen and so I didn't have to be another victim.
Life is too complex to understand, so I prefer to live it, take the moments calmly and above all taking advantage of the good and not so good things that happen to us, as I said in the previous paragraph, maybe I did not get to work early and thus avoid being hurt or robbed, so it is better to take everything step by step and what happens so be it, accept and move forward, that's what it's all about in this life,
In a world where wisdom is so important, we must learn to know how to walk the path, it is not about going fast, nor slow, it is about having a good walk, one that does not shake us but does not harm us either, to be able to build any building is not done overnight, building a family requires steps, some not so short others not so long but firm steps, security and temperance, a lot of temperance. Both the man and the woman must feel sure of what they are doing, look for the common good and always respect the other will be the basis of this relationship. The years will pass and the family must remain united, from the heart, otherwise everything else will sooner or later come to an end, no matter how many years we have been together or if we really loved that person at some point.
Along the road of life we will meet many people, some will have the honour of calling them friends, others will only be companions, luckily we get a person that we can call family even if they are not blood. When someone shows you that they are capable of doing the unthinkable and sacrificing anything to help you, they are showing you how important you are to that person, that happened with my friend Alejandro, he has always been there in the good times and much more in the not so good times, someone who despite having many things to do leaves time to go and visit. I can say that I had the opportunity to meet a great person.
Among so many people I have met, I can say that Ale, managed to win a place in my heart, to be able to say brother is an honour and above all to be able to trust someone with so much security is something positive. Sharing pleasant moments with him fills me with joy, especially for his eloquence makes anyone laugh because of the way he is.
From him I learnt that no matter how bad a day I have had I should always smile, smile for those people who depend on my smile, smile because no matter how bad a day I have had the important thing is to believe myself that everything is ok, to avoid that something external affects us and to be able to understand that only we have the power to allow something to hurt us, I also learnt this from him.
Trust is something that is earned and Ale knew how to earn mine, through his actions I managed to understand that his affection was nothing more than that of an older brother protecting his sister, that jealousy and that respect at all times, that affection and that shoulder and hugs that I always need when I am in my days, everything I have said has only one meaning, friendship exists and only some people manage to touch it.
my reflection on everything described above is simple, we all walk along a path, some manage to understand much more quickly than others, we must serve as capestreros, guide our children along the path of good or the most difficult path, not to suffer, only to learn the reality of an honest life full of security and temperance, to serve others, we learn to love ourselves but it is better to learn to love others as we love ourselves, to understand that we must give the same treatment to all and give love in the same measure, to look for the union between so many people and not to choose the one who seems the best but the one with whom we have the greatest affinity. In a good friendship we can find a helping hand, especially in the most distressing and sad moments of our lives. That the joy of life can also depend on our smile, the attitude we have towards different things leads us to see life in a better way even if we have a day full of darkness. We will always know how to reach our destination.
Crafts as a way of life
In my day to day is not only working and being a mother, apart from having these two big commitments I also dedicate myself to create with crafts, since I was very young I like to create with different elements objects that will be useful in the future, from bows, toys to cute figures to decorate the room or door of our room. Whenever I have free time I dedicate myself to exercise my mind with new creations, some of them a bit similar, for example the fact of creating ribbons, although they are similar each one has a different meaning, that is why I use different colours, which I will be mentioning later on and also the reason for the variety between them.
To be able to sit down and take away all that perceived stress of so much work, developing new accessories like for example. Bows, drawings or anything that comes to my mind more than a hobby it is a way of life to be able to exercise my mind by planning what I can create with the different materials and the best thing is that I can make it out of any element as it is my creation so I can put whatever I want. I also think it is fantastic that by combining different elements I can make wonderful figures capable of embellishing any place where I place them.
When you are someone creative the fact of making crafts becomes a habit because it is something that we like, to develop our ability to create new things through different elements allows us to connect with our inner child that essence that we all have and that many forget, since childhood we are stimulated with colours, plasticine, chalk, to create almost anything with different elements and something completely different to make a drawing, a model, even a car, For those people that like me like the art of creating it becomes much easier, as I mentioned before since I was a child I feel great affinity towards the development of crafts, today is a lifestyle for me, sit in my quiet time and to drain my energy through the development of new objects, today I decided to take some little things and create, a kind of crown and bow, the union of both elements allowed me to exploit the most of my creation giving shape to a bow in the form of a crown for my daughter.
When I found out that I was going to be a mother, I felt such a beautiful sensation, I was already thinking of all the things I could make to put in her room, cot, even bows that she uses nowadays, I can say that from that first moment I knew that my daughter would not lack accessories to wear and the best thing is that they were going to be made by me. Part of my personality is similar to my creations, I consider myself someone sensitive with a lot of sympathy and who likes to stand out wherever I go, that's why my bows and creations always have bright colours, colours that show how I feel and how the person who wears them feels.
I must say that I don't always get everything so simple when I want to create an object or accessory, it all depends on my moods, the important thing is to feel good and with the mental capacity to continue creating my wonderful inventions for my daughter.
When you like art you know that you have the power to change almost anything, it depends on us to change the reality we are in, that's why whenever I try to create new things I try to connect with my inner child, this way I have much more ideas and they flow quickly through my mind. This strategy is only mine, I don't know if it will help you much, each person has their own way of motivating themselves, mine is to feel that I am again a child who just wants to show a little beauty in her creations.
These creations or figures are part of what I like to invest my time, I wanted to create these figures because especially my daughter likes the elephant, so I thought, well why not create something that she likes and put colours that go with something feminine, being my own artist gives me the power to develop what my mind can think of and to transform something completely cute into something wonderful is sensational for me. As you can see I used soft colours and combined them with some stronger ones, I gave it the feminine touch because it is to decorate my daughter's room, on the other hand it is also important to give that touch of sympathy to the creation so that it can cause a sensation for anyone who can see it.
I believe that only we have the power to change things, I don't believe in external agents as many people think, that's why I always try to be as original as possible when it comes to creating things purely mine, I try to put that touch that identifies me as an artist, besides it all depends on where whatever I am creating at that moment is going to go, I like to decorate her room with things that she likes, but above all I like to decorate her room with things created by me, not that at some point my daughter will grow up and she will see the beautiful things that her mother made for her and she will feel that her mother surrounded her with things that she likes.
Our duty as parents towards our children is to guide them on the best path, especially when the times we are living in merit it, that is why it is important that our children feel the love that their parents feel towards them and much more that they are taken into account at all times.
Now, I like to be able to show my daughter that things created by ourselves have much more value than anything else, perhaps not monetarily but sentimentally. Being able to feel that it is something made by myself has helped me to have today a much higher self-esteem, the confidence I feel when creating new things has helped me to perfect my style and have better performance, in terms of planning I have acquired greater capacity from the moment I started until this present that I am living, somehow creating and developing new things help us to be a better person.
When I created this turtle I decided to do it for two reasons, the first reason that led me to create a turtle with different elements for my daughter was because her grandmother gave her a real turtle and she really liked it a lot, my daughter used to carry her turtle everywhere she went, until one day it disappeared "they left the door of the house open and the turtle left" that day was very sad because she loved that turtle and she couldn't stop crying for it, so, I decided to create a similar one but this one won't escape and she can carry it everywhere without fear of it leaving.
The 2nd reason is that I like challenges, I had never done something similar, although I had an idea of how to start, so I decided to take a risk and I started to weave a turtle with elements like; cotton, thread and a little bit of fabric, that was to start and develop what was going to be the body of the animal, then I looked among so many fabrics that I have cut, I took out pieces and reused in it, making a kind of small roses to represent the shell and I put sequin in the middle as a kind of spots, I made the turtle much more attractive I must say, my daughter loves it and the best thing is that she will always have it.
being a mother helped me to exploit much more that creativity that exists in me, I am always thinking about new ideas and new things that I can design, it is not something that I want to do professionally but it is something to which I dedicate time and love. my art makes sense, especially because it is a way to project the love with which I make each piece, when I started to design this turtle I did not know exactly what the final design was I was just improvising so I think that whenever we have love for what we do we will do it well, we must trust only in ourselves the rest will come by itself.
regarding the time it takes to create this kind of cotton animals, well it all depends on the concentration and agility that we have, in my case, it cost me a little to sew the whole piece but once done the rest was easy, maybe it took about 2 hours, it seems little but when we are in that moment every minute is eternal, that's why the importance of being concentrated so you won't lose all that time if something goes wrong.
When I want to design bows, I only think about the kind of clothes that my daughter has, the most fun of creating is that we can always try new styles, so whenever I design a bow I don't limit myself and I try to give the best of me. Today I designed different bows each one for a different commitment, for example I designed some to use with everyday clothes, this type of bows are the ones that she uses more frequently practically every day, they are extremely simple and do not have a lot of elements, that if, without leaving even aside the elegance and beauty the essence of carrying a bow is that you can highlight when using it, as part of the accessories used in the girls, on the other hand I also designed bows a little more for serious styles such as, for example, use these bows when using a dress or to go out to some commitment.
exploit our creativity and have fun can not be better than when creating new things, I like to think that I can continue doing new things and above all that my daughter is my own model, is so much so, that many people have come to ask who has created these bows and knowing that I am her own mother, they ask if I can design and sell, so it is good to be my daughter's designer, apart from having fun creating new accessories for her I can also make some profit by selling to other people, although it is not easy, of course, I have to be careful what I sell and that it is according to what the person is looking for, in any case always ask what the girl looks like to get a better idea of what those people are looking for.
When I started designing bows for my daughter I had no idea that I could make a profit selling to other people, so for me it was a surprise to find another way to generate income doing something that I love, dedicating time to this area has never been as productive as it is now. People are always looking for a gift to give, a present to bring and I can be that person to tell them that I have some ribbons to show them that they might like.
**some important aspects of crafting.**
We are completely free to create anything we can think of so there are no limits to using our creativity and being ourselves.
Many people suffer from low self-esteem, being able to use the art of creating completely original things can help to strengthen that self-confidence. (Only we can say how far we want to go in life) we are the masters of our own destiny.
every time we have to do handicrafts we use our ability to concentrate, strengthening our neuronal connections and helping us to have a better problem solving.
the ability to surpass ourselves in everything also has direct benefits, we become more and more ambitious people looking for more and more to surpass ourselves developing new things and always looking to be better and better in what we do.
Each aspect mentioned have been taken purely from my personal experience, over the years working with crafts and learned that you must take into account certain characteristics necessary to strengthen our skills, today I share them with you, I hope it helps and if you have children do not hesitate to put them to create, perhaps they have a mini designer and still do not know, plus the great benefits it brings to develop these habits.
"In my mind there are so many ideas, planning is the best way to build my world, every time I think about taking a second step I think twice not because I doubt, just that it is always good to take a firm step and, if as a matter of life we fall, we will know that even if we feel confidence we can also fail, so it takes more than just trust, we must have complete confidence that although we can not see, we are on the right path".
LOVE FOR ART
The multifaceted woman is worthy of admiration, the women in my life.
Since I was very young I have always liked to be very independent and in part I think that has been the key to my development in different aspects of my life, I can say with property that today I am a woman with great ability in different areas, I like to constantly learn new things, I also like to make it clear that whenever I propose to do something I do it well and not just to comply, my success in different areas I owe it largely to my way of being, that personality that characterizes me as an independent, determined, responsible, honest, honest and among many other characteristics ...
In decades ago the woman was totally underestimated, treated more as a sexual object and reproduction, than as a real woman capable of achieving and reaching objectives that she proposed, I like to be clear whenever I talk to my friends on this subject, the woman has a lot left, perhaps in this century xxi is demonstrated that women have the ability to perform the same tasks as men and not only that, This is largely good for women, to be able to take off the crown of queens of housewives and become the queens and ladies of our destiny, women left home and with it that old custom of being the only one who prepares the food, take care of the children and as a good wife to be for her husband at any time. Today this has changed, we women have given ourselves our own position, working and being housewives, mothers, sisters, teachers, presidents, in short, we are what we want to be.
Whenever I come to work I get up with the best disposition, not only that, for me coming to work is more than just a timetable, it is a responsibility to myself, to show that we women can also run a company, be our own bosses and not depend on anyone, it is a good answer to so many questions. I work in a clothing company, a very well known brand, since I was little I have felt that sense of being a leader, of being able to take the baton and today, I do what I do with the greatest of honours, I have to be in charge of a brand like Columbia and I am in charge of several people.
My first days in this position were not easy, I had to learn that the sense of authority must be earned, that not by having a position the workers will learn to respect and it is not like that, I learned during these last months that as a good boss I must earn my position with my employees, to be a good boss means to be a good co-worker and above all to be a human being.
It was a challenge first of all to sit down and accept this great opportunity to manage a shop of a prestigious brand and above all to give a good image to the company in all aspects. As a woman with a very high self-esteem I have always considered that I can work and develop myself in any area, facing my fear is my biggest fear. I also understand that we are human beings and that we all feel some fear when we do something new, that is why I keep going and, today I keep my position and my image high.
as women we are subjected to many prejudices, thanks to the efforts of many women we have been changing this paradigm, it has not been easy, winning a position in a completely macho society has been the biggest battle we have had to face.
My life does not end there, apart from maintaining a brand as important as Columbia, I also have an important maternal life to lead, I like the fact of being a mother, I like more the fact of being able to work to please my daughter, everything has been combined, the desire to want to fill my baby with joy and to be able to buy everything she likes to give her a much more comfortable life, it has led me to overcome in any aspect of my life, today I can say that I owe much of my maturity to my daughter.
how not to be a good mother and good professional in the workplace if everything we do with love will go well, as simple as that, as long as you do things in a good way we will have a much more peaceful end in any given situation, so I always keep a positive mind to the adversities of life, although I managed to keep a business brand with little experience, something similar also happened with my daughter, is my first baby had no experience, there is something called intuition, in reality it is nothing more than that we do not say but we think that I call it intuition. To know that something is not right because it gives us a bad feeling, to know how to recognise that we all have to make our mistakes and learn from them, I can't say that I haven't stumbled on my way but a big part of what I am today is due to that experience gained in previous bad and good situations.
every woman must learn to defend herself on her own, in my case I am not alone with my daughter I have my husband but that does not mean that I do not know how to do something for myself, I have a husband but I also have a professional and maternal life to lead and apart from my love relationship, everything seems difficult but for a woman who is not afraid to try everything in this life nothing is difficult, what is difficult is not to try and stay waiting for something to happen and maybe it never does.
Being a mother taught me what a mother feels when a child does not behave well with her, every time I see the woman who gave me life, education and all those lessons that today are part of my being, many times I tried to be cold with my mother because I did not agree on something, With my head much cooler and my thoughts a little clearer, I understand that it is not easy to teach a child especially because there is pride that does not help us but how we use it, learning to listen to my mother was a difficult lesson to learn especially because whenever she tried to tell me something, I took it as something unimportant.
As the years went by I learned the importance of listening to all that advice, if I had been more consistent as a daughter I would have avoided many unpleasant situations, I don't regret it but I can say that I had to live through some uncomfortable moments, with disgust and a lot of sorrow, I had to understand the difficult way this experience has helped me to understand better how one thinks when living the life of an adolescent and carefree.
The love that I feel for my mother is something unique, I can say that apart from my daughter she is the other most loved person for me, besides being the most important thing, a mother who sacrifices her life for her child is priceless, to understand this was not easy, it cost me a little but I had to learn it the hard way.
Today my relationship with my mother is good and stable, we don't have any major difficulties, we know that we are both mothers, I am a first time mother and she is a first time grandmother, so we both maintain good communication.
I always wondered, how we failed our parents, by not being the essence that they transmitted to us from a very young age, giving those bad words or unnecessary answers, keeping a distant attitude with them for not keeping the same thoughts, getting upset unnecessarily with our father for our own problems. Whatever the reason, we have to be much more mature and manage to cope with all situations.
Whenever I talk about issues in which women have achieved self-improvement, I always mention my mother, a worthy example of self-improvement, a woman who had to start her life from scratch twice, not only that, she managed to fulfill her dream and graduate despite not having a lot of resources and with two daughters, she managed to achieve her goal, Part of her life has been a constant struggle to achieve each of her proposed goals, today I can say that my mother has managed to fulfill her duty as a mother but also as a daughter and sister, is a great example for my daughter and me, to know that we must sacrifice no matter how much it costs us the only thing we should not do is give up.
When we talk about multifaceted women we are talking about women who have managed to handle different areas, I can mention my mother in that group, being a mother, being an excellent professional, excellent daughter and wonderful sister, without leaving aside the role of grandmother, in some cases she does plumbing work, electrician, she is really an example.
My example to follow is that, constancy has made a person grow and this has been seen in many cases, the fact that something is difficult does not mean that it is impossible, we must try and above all be persistent when doing anything, we women can no longer remain in the shadows, nor stop being "mute" make noise that our steps are heard, that they feel that there comes a dignified woman, a regal woman.
My aunt is also an important example of a woman of dignity, she has managed to cope with the hard blow of being alone with 2 children and not only that, she has managed to support two nephews and my grandmother at home, all on one salary, that of my aunt. I always think that it is all a matter of attitude, it is also important to have a strong mental control not to run away from a situation that causes so much anxiety and stress.
I once asked my aunt how she managed to get by with so many things and such a low salary. She just said that she simply dedicated herself to producing money, she wasn't worried about how much she could earn, at least she knew that it was fair and necessary for everyone to eat, she didn't think about what she could do, she acted and waited according to the situation and that's how she managed to take each day one by one until today, The coping attitudes of a person vary, some do not have the same capacity to be able to lead a life with such a strong stress, what helped my aunt was the ability to cope with this stressful situation avoiding feeling that feeling, blocking perhaps with other thoughts and thus managing to cope with this stressful situation.
In endless words women have managed to rewrite their image, today women are capable of doing different things and not only that, they have developed a certain ability to do different things at the same time something difficult for men, they manage to turn a stressful moment into a situation of opportunity and all thanks to their creative ability taken to the maximum, a thought capable of flying like a bird and expand like oxygen itself, if the metaphor easily describes what a woman is then I could say that we are millions of stars in the sky looking to light up our own destiny.
I like to be able to share reliable material, each photo is of my own authorship, these people represent part of my family and above all part of my life. To be able to tell their story is nice and much more if it serves to motivate others to want to break any barrier in their lives. Enjoy your day, Enjoy your family.
The family as a basis of teaching, love and unity
Good morning dear friends, I hope you all have a beautiful day. Today I have an immense joy, no doubt that the family knows how to encourage you much more when we see a loved one, my mother in this case, is someone who over the years taught me the importance of maintaining good communication between mother and daughter, now that I am a mother I understand perfectly what she always told me, I remember well those words "When you are a mother you will understand, the importance of maintaining a good relationship with your children", of course as responsible for a creature so small and purely healthy without a drop of evil we must be even more cautious
Today as I mentioned before I was able to see my mother after almost a month without visiting her, finally today I was able to visit her, to be able to take her granddaughter to her is the greatest joy that she can feel, it seems that she is her daughter, how can she not love her if she is her first granddaughter, on the other hand, it is impressive how that little girl changes her grandmother's day, My mother was so happy that she decided to prepare a cake for her, although she didn't have all the ingredients she sent my father to buy all the ingredients to prepare it, as if that wasn't enough she also put in that list of orders, soft drinks, sweets, chocolates and fruits. The level of wanting to spoil her granddaughter is very high, I like it that way, I know it is not good to give so many things to the child but I also know that it is necessary to let her grandmother spoil her a little.
Within every family we can find a little bit of everything, some are sweeter than others, what many families ignore is that nothing is forever and that is why it is good every day to show the love you feel for your loved ones, I have a sister who argues a lot with my mother although I am not in favour of arguments, it is inevitable that the two of them end up in that. I think that as a mother my mom should try to interact more with my sister and, my sister should stop being so overbearing, attitudes like these only lead to misfortune.
The family as its name says is a group of people who carry the same lineage, this is how a certain family bond is maintained, although this is worthless if the family members destroy each other, that is why the importance of the family union, that is why I think that there is nothing like maintaining good communication and enjoying the people we love at all times.
Like every family there are always contemporary cousins so it is the case of my daughter and adam, a beautiful boy with the same chronological age as Zoe, both are almost the same age only surpassed by months, it is good to see how children relate to each other, as they are entirely expressive and act without thinking so much, Zoe behaved as usual a very daring girl without fear of greeting and socializing, adam on the other hand was a little less receptive, After several hours of getting to know each other well they began to greet each other, Zoe impressed me a little, she always kept the initiative in things, she was the one who looked for toys, she was the one who told him what to do, even to ask him to do something that Adam did not want, this shows me the power of convincing and not only that of leadership that my daughter has at such a young age.
As I mentioned before, children do not know how to keep a limit, they just act according to their impulses and have no remorse. The behaviours of both children show that even at such a young age they can hold a conversation with another child and not only understand each other.
I could enjoy every moment of these two children, when Adam wanted to do something he only had to shout and Zoe already knew that something was happening and went to see what was happening, it is good that a child grows up knowing his relatives even if he sees them very little, then he will know how to identify them and also later on maybe they will end up being inseparable, if it is life they have always said that blood calls. Today I understand that phrase perfectly, we always return to the place where we have been treated well.
I am surprised when she does this kind of things, arriving at her grandmother's house and asking to draw was something that left us all surprised, not because of how she did it, but because of the memory that children have, that is to say, when I went more frequently to my mother's house; Zoe always played with colours since she was very little she has been attracted by different colours, so much so that since she was little we could notice that she feels a true love for the colour yellow, returning to the subject, what causes surprise is her capacity to remember, it had been a long time since we went there and even longer since she had done homework.
In addition to being able to see the capacity of memory of a child it is also good to know how the marks of child abuse work in children, although a child can remember a good moment he can also remember one not too, that is why the importance that we must have when taking care of our children for the good of the family, for the psychological health of our babies we must give them the best, our children will know that they have had a life full of conflicts that they will not overcome as children and much less in adulthood because they did not want to pay attention to any law.
I like to read about everything a little bit according to what I understood of the infantile pathologies is that the majority of these disorders end up appearing in the adolescence or adulthood, for that reason to encourage our children with good habits, to understand which are their duty and much more to make them understand that the love in a family is the base of everything.
I can not rule out that many times these positive behaviours must be rewarded, one of the reasons why my daughter maintains this behaviour is perhaps because she remembers that if she does her homework she will receive a reward, I thank my mother for this, that is to say her grandmother, who from a very young age was in charge of moulding her behaviour with positive habits and positive refinement.
My daughter knows how to steal my smile, she always gets her way, for me it is almost impossible to have a bad day, it is not because they are always good, it is because with just a smile my daughter cheers up my existence, it is nice to know that someone loves you and not only that you are their everything, that boy or girl that every day when they wake up the first thing they look for is their mother, my daughter for me is the biggest blessing, my days begin with a smile and a kiss from my daughter and end with a hug and a kiss.
Zoe is very restless even if she wants to sleep and my face expresses it I can't do it, it is almost impossible to leave her alone, as she is always trying to do something, on the one hand it sounds good to me that it is that way, I know that she will be the one who will lead the class, she is also very strong, on the other hand, I understand that I have to go ahead because she is very restless and will always want to do something quite out of the ordinary. It is normal to see this behaviour in very stimulated children, as in the case of my daughter, the stimulation she has received is so strong that she goes at a very high pace compared to the other children. On the other hand, it is also good to always keep her doing something, trying to develop good habits.
If you wonder what we were doing at that moment, I was trying to rest, my daughter was trying to stop my mother from having a heart attack by jumping so many times on the bed trying to fall off, although children do not measure the danger, so as parents we must know what our children are doing at all times.
As she didn't have anything to play with her grandmother easily solved that problem, she immediately searched among her accessories to go out and tried a bit of everything, Zoe has always liked to play with that kind of things, so much so that she throws away the toys she has to play with those that aren't exactly toys. Children represent the purest essence of the human being, to see my daughter and how she lives every day in her world, a bubble where nothing happens but the loss of a toy or the ice cream that we don't buy her, a child lives fully happy, to see my daughter play so calmly and healthily has no monetary price. It is comforting to know that every day she grows up she is still in that bubble until she has reached the necessary level of maturity, and as long as that has not yet happened then I can enjoy her stages.
I have been able to see how six year old girls are already dancing to nonsense music and above all insinuating themselves in a violent way, I don't like to judge anyone much less a child but my question is where are the parents of these children? Because we all know that children are just a sponge they absorb everything and if that's what they see, they will easily decide to do the same.
There are non-intensive ways to teach our child many things, one of them is, that there are good things but everything in due time, lying and saying that something is bad just because he is a minor or does not know anything is wrong, I should not lie to him maybe because it can traumatize that child and it is not good to fill his head with unhealthy thoughts.
If your child likes to play and is already 9 years old don't worry, they are just stages and some last a little longer to change than others, if this happens help your child to understand that the time is coming when he/she will touch reality, the thoughts that do not lead him/her to anything should be left aside. If we manage to make young people understand that there are different ways to improve themselves, they just have to choose the right one.
My family is the strongest and most indestructible bond, to feel that the arms of our loved ones surround us gives us a certain security in any situation, even more so when they belong to a child like Zoe, in pure love and a sense of tranquility lies the satisfaction of having been able to do something and yet it doesn't happen,
Her cousin and my daughter, they look like brothers, they both love each other, they know they are cousins and above all they know how to take care of each other when they are older, the beauty of being able to count on a family member opens the door. Fantastic.
Whenever I see my daughter and her cousin together I understand that she will always be afraid of someone to trust, if it is a unique love.
Let's not forget the importance of loving without motives, answering without asking. Even though it may seem like a tongue-lashing, it is an existing reality, we must be less invasive and continue to fight more and more every day.
To love one another, to show that you will always have arms to cling to without meanness and without expecting something in return, that is what family is.
Have a wonderful day, the photos were taken from a J2 Primer.
Artistic recycling [Dinusaur]
Happy and wonderful day my dear #readcash readers, I hope you are very well! This time I'm going to show you how to take advantage of those plastic car oil bottles, we are going to recycle and make an amazing dinosaur that you can use to store brushes or to plant a plant! The utility varies according to your imagination!
Let's do it.
I'll show you the materials.
Materials:
-Tempera (blue, yellow, white, black, red)
-Black marker with a thick tip.
-Scalpel or exact.
-Pencil.
-Silicone bars.
-Glue gun
-Plastic bottle.
-Fine and thick brush.
-Bottle cap.
-Cutter.
-Glass with water and a cloth.
**Process**
Wash the bottle well, then start to draw the dinosaur's teeth with pencil
Once you have your dinosaur's teeth drawn, mark them with the marker to proceed to count them.
**Let's move on to the next step.**
With the help of the marker we are going to draw the scales and the details of the dinosaur such as the eyebrows and the outline of its face.
Choose a soda cap that fits the bottle, draw the dinosaur eye, glue it with silicone to make it more accurate.
**Nothing is lost!**
The part of the teeth that we cut, we are going to use to make the protruding scales, scientifically known as osteoderm. Well, we cut it in half and then we draw the contours to proceed to paste.
Fun time to paint!
I wanted to make my own green color so I mixed blue and yellow and got the green I wanted for my dinosaur.
I started from the top and then from the bottom on both sides, I applied 3 coats of paint.
I mixed black and white to get a gray darker than the color of the bottle, proceeded to paint the top line of the dinosaur's mouth, which made the colors stand out, and I also used that dark gray for the eye contour.
Paint the teeth white and the part of the tendons of the jaw red to give it a little color, then with the help of a fine brush and black tempera we highlight all its edges to cover the imperfections and enhance each part of your face.
I hope you liked this art made with recycling, this idea is 100% original, it came from the imagination.
I invite you to exploit all your creativity, be colourful people, show that you have an original creativity and do whatever comes out of your imagination.
