You are Allowed to...

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2 years ago

Restraining ourself to things that we thought that if we does, will makes us small, belittle, and pity from those eyes of many is not a good thing.

Remember that you are the owner of your own self and not them, you don't need their validation and of course whatever we do people will always have a say and it's okay but don't restrain yourself to do things you feel like you need to, you are allowed to do things that will do good to you, you are allowed to everything the importance is you doesn't aggrieved anyone.

So you are Allowed to:

Start again

Not everything is worth continuing, sometimes you need to resfresh, restart and begin again. If you think it's very chaotic for you to carry on then you are allowed to stop and start again so that you'll understand where you have done wrong or skip some steps. It's okay because starting again is not that bad for us humans, it just means tbat we are able to correct and go back again and have chance to make things right again. Have a fresh start again but change something and prevent on doing the same mistakes again. We should learn from our mistakes so tbat it would be worth it, because mistakes are just mistakes if we don't get any lesson from it.

Feel vulnerable

Being vulnerable doesn't mean you're weak, sometimes showing vulnerability is a sign that you are strong enough to show them that even in your vulnerable state you still find yourself walking and continuing this journey of life.

Cry

You are allowed to cry when you feel you want to. If you really needed to cry and let all that tears run down to your face then go and don't hold it back. Tears are just a common way to release our emotions, our eyes are just like clouds when the rain is coming, when it gets heavy it pours, just like us, when everything gets heavy then we just let our tears pour out. Cry until you feel okay again. Let those emotions and pain flow with your tears. Let out. They say crying is good for the soul.

Smile

This is the most precious act that you should always have, even when in the rough and darkest times putting a small or big smile on your face can make you feel better. Turning your eyes like a cresent moon while your lips started to move widely and your eyes twinkle because of overwhelming happiness. Smile not just you need to, but smile if you want to.

Get lost

Sometimes life its okay to feel nothing and just get lost with our thoughts, get lost in reality, if things are so tiring, if this world is tiring you, it's okay to vet lost for a while, to find ypur solace, to find comfort, and to fixed your thoughts and create a new mindset then be back again to face the reality of life. Getting lost for a whole is better if we really needed space then get lost and find yourself, sometimes getting lost is the only way to find your self again. There's nothing to be ashamed getting lost because it's natural for if we really find it comforting then we should do it every once in a while.

Images sources:

https://www.therandomvibez.com/starting-over-quotes/

https://www.azquotes.com/quote/860701

https://www.keepinspiring.me/quotes-about-smiling/

http://www.picturequotes.com/sometimes-a-good-cry-is-just-what-you-need-to-release-all-the-hurt-you-have-built-up-inside-quote-54399

https://thehealthsessions.com/vulnerability-quotes/

Lead image source:

https://www.hercampus.com/school/monmouth/science-behind-aesthetics/

Once again know you worth and value yourself, that's it my dear friends, have a good day to everyone, I'm still tired even I just sit in my online class but still hahaha, anyways have a great and amazing Wednesday my dears. Hope you spent your day so well. Stay hydrated and enjoy!

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Indeed you are right sis, we can always start over again and we don't needs anyone's validation for that. It's okay to get lost, to cry and smile as we are humans.

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2 years ago

Yes all of this as natural and no one can retrain us from doing this😊

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2 years ago

Cry and start again hehe, that's the life. Whatever happened we could all start and refresh something new, within that new start smile and never lost again.

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2 years ago

Yes we fall and we crawl and we break ay charizz hindi tayo si avril haha starting over is the good wake to give ourself a chance to correct our mistakes.

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2 years ago

Relate ako halos lahat.

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2 years ago

Aww hope everything will be alright to you sis! 😊

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2 years ago

I just smiled reading the whole context of your article. Thank you for reminding me that I'm allowed to cry and feel vulnerable. I'm quite teary right now actually because of what's going on inside of me.

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2 years ago

Aww your always welcome my friend Marc. It's okay to not be okay sometimes, let your tear flow until you feel okay😊

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2 years ago

Never degrade yourself to make others happy,because they will always find reasons to criticise you no matter what you do. We should not over stress ourselves, and learn to be happy.

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That's right my friend thank you for your thoughts😊

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