My Jargons of Fondness

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Am I Good? Please bare with my grammar I'm no saint kidding haha

2 years ago

In community: Just Write(e5e5)

Topics: Journal, Life, Mindset, Diary, English, ...

Words holds a very compelling powerful thing in life but to inaugurate it into action is much vigorous and dominant, putting words into action is a hella prominent of showing that you are truth to your words because you are proving it by being substantial in your action.

I agree to what they say that action speaks louder than words, why? Because I just want to agree hahaha kidding anyway let's go to the topic haha

We had a lot of different and uniques ways of showing that we love and care for someone, may be it put theough words or act of service or giving some quality time or what, etc, but the one thing is we are happy that we showed to them the partiality of love, care and fondness towards peoppe that is significant to us.

My love language is not by words but action, I show a lot of love languages through my action and I list down some of it haha even it's too many I just wrote some haha I'm being shy as hell while writing this one so please bare with me

My Love Languages:

Making someone a cup of coffee

-This is my favorite act of showing my love throught a hot or cold coffee I made hehez I always like this every single morning, I woke up and brew some black coffee for everyone in the house, I don't mind if it's anyone who I'm nlt closed to of a visitor but yeah making them some cup of coffee is my act of showing I love them, if they said the only way to the person's heart is through her stomach then mine is through palpitation hahaha kidding but yeah if I made you some you know what it is I'm pertaining by that, don't ever compare or think of it as an act of service but that's me showing appreciation and love for you.

Teasing someone

-I'm very fond and good at this one haha, mostly I did it to my siblings, cousins, and friends haha yeah they will just let me because they are used to the way I teased them but one thing for sure, they know that I just do it not because I want to just hurt them or fooling them, but they know that, that is me showing my affectiom towards them, haha hey it's not that my tease to them is the painful and personal one ha, just a simple thing being annoying and just sometimes after a long nagging and teasing I will just cling to them haha they would probably hate it but yeah after all as time goes by they were used to me being like that haha, I don't know but they seem uneasy when I act quite towards them, they will asked a lot of thing if I'm with myself that time haha they be hysterical if I ignore them see, they are used to my funny and annoying self but when I stay quite and not act as my usual one haha they know I had my problems.

Listening

-I'm not a good talker but I can say that I'm a very good listener, Of course I will speak what's on my mind when it's appropriate time to speak, my bestfriend is my proof by this haha he witnessed how I'm such a good listener itself, everytime he has his problem he was used to me being silent while listening to his talk. If I will tell him some advice or what, I asked him first if advice or just release haha at first he was laughing at my question but now it is so used to our conversation every time we rant to each other, if one of us choose advice then one will advice and speak and tell some opinion about it and console through affirmation of words, but if we choose release then we don't need any words of wisdom from each other just rant and listen, we are always been like that, haha it seems weird for many but that's our way of ranting to each other.

Follow the phase of their walking

-it's a lowkey showing that I really like the person when I'm trying to walk in the same phase they are, haha actually this is me being a lowkey shy type one because I'm not good at words but putting it throigh action is my way of telling my I love you's hehez, this is also one of my favorite one, also when someone did this to me I have the soft heart when it comes to this so don't haha kidding, my bestfriend and my favorite cousins is always been like this to me, haha even they doesn't notice how I cheekily smile through their simple act haha.

Hug and kisses (of course not with the lips kisses)

-I'm a cuddly one when it comes to this but this is just only limited to my important person in my life, I hug my friends and families but just a nod or jus eyeing when it's not my close person who's with me, I often also do beso beso also I'm fond of hello hugs a d goodbye kisses not with the lips ha it is very inappropriate hahah kidding but yeah it feels like invading someone's privacy kidding hehez just a beso beso or a hug will do, bht if we are not that close enlugh even we knkw each other I'm a snobber as hell haha they said but yeah I don't care it's my life hahaha.