Fear of Giving Second Chances in Love

Sometimes the funny feeling of love makes us do things we never thought we could, we become illogical and we find ourselves doing the exact opposite thing that we believed in. You found yourself missing and longing for the same exact person who showed you love and also the same person who gives you pain and fear to love again.

I don't really understand why giving second chances in love is needed, if the person really hurts you and caused you so much pain, why you need to give another chance to that person but still you have this fear of the repetition. You are afraid to the what if's but at the same time you are willing to risk the what if's.

My friend told me how he gave a second chance to his ex girlfriend. Me and our other friends was so mad at first because we know how our friend suffer when his ex girlfriend do awful things. Imagine the girl denied him as her boyfriend and just go meet another man. We are still angry to that girl but what could we do. He still love that girl and we as his friend need to forgive also hahaha funny isn't it. We as friends are more mad to his ex than him. I don't know but we are just being protective we don't want him to suffered again it's very sad and awful to watch.

So yeah he gave his ex another chance but he still telling me sometimes that he was afraid what if that girl cheats again and left him again. He blamed himself for their break ups, he said that he's not good enough, he said he's afraid to be in a notion where the girl could get tired for the whole thing about them.

I just listened to him I don't give any advices because I don't want to say something I'm not sure of. And I wouldn't want to say something because I never been in that same shoes as him.

You see people give second chances in love because they wanted to try again, they wanted answers on their what if's. Those what if questions that eating them alive. But those fear affiliate is still there. The feared to be left out again, to experience again the pain of break ups. They think that they can't handle to watch again their loved to walk away for the second time. Of course people who give second chances are the strong ones.

Everybody deserves second chances but not all are sure to be taken seriously, sometimes some people just taken it for granted.

Giving second chances is like trying to fix a broken plate and make it whole again but the cracks can still be seen and we are afraid to used it again like nothing happened because it might broke again and could wound us again. So we are careful not to make the same mistakes again.

That's it for now, I'll meet up with my friend again this weekend I hope there's no awkward moments hahaha because she'll bring her ex but now as her girlfriend for the second time around. I'm sure everyone in our circle will go because it's a small birthday celebration in one of my friends house.

Anyways have a great day everyone. Gonna have some walk today outside and also do groceries because my aunt told me so. I'm suffocated staying at home for a days hahaha. By the way take care guys! Stay hydrated.