Badly wanted it but Mom say "NO"
Are you still leaving in the same roof with your parents? Most of the time even at the age of 20s you still living with your parents, and there's a lot of taboo or forbidden stuffs we should follow, like we still treated by them like a child haha Asian will always be Asian haha
I don't know but it's okay because even we are still old or even we are in our 30s or 40s, even we are married or not, have our own children or not, whatever your age, wherever you are, your parents will still be your parents, in their eyes you are still their baby and no one can change that,
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There's a lot of things I want but my mom said no and if I ask my father he would say to ask permission to my mom and that's it I still get a no hahaha
As in there's a lot and I will just give few hahaha like
Having a tattoo
Even just a simple small little tattoo, my mom would strictly says no to it, she hates making our skin looks dirty like she just said that your skin is great why would you want to have it vandalized haha I laugh at her statement, she would just always nags me every time I kept on insisting to have a tattoo and asking for her permission, and when she's so done with my annoying rituals of maker her say yes, she would just swept me off and said that I should ask my father, then when I go to my father she would just say that ask mom, like what should I do to the both of you haha so that's it no tattoos for me haha.
Having a motorcycle
This is so the one thing I want now because I'm so done with the traffics and the hussle of commuting every single time that I have somewhere to go, but for my mom's eyes motorcycles means accidents, I agree but I still want that, even my dad is agree with me but still need for mom's final word so yeah I end up just biking and sometimes skating haha.
Staying Overnight
This is one of my challenging moments when I'm asking for permission for staying for a night in my friends house, of course they have nothing to do just to nag me when I didn't asked for their permission and just stay at my friends house for a night haha, I just go home in the morning and there's Arma lite waiting haha my parents mouth hahaha, I'm always used to their nagging haha, it's always been my highlight of the day, sometimes I just scape without them knowing and just call them at night time for sure they will let me because they don't want me to commute at that late time.
Go on a staycation with friends
I badly want this a staycation hehez actually we are planning but we are finding a schedule that all of us in our circle are free, but even thoigh it's a big no for my mom and dad to this idea yet I will still try to convince them no matter what haha, my friend asked us to go to their province and have a staycation there but yeah the big villain in this story is parents hahaha safety as always haha "tyaka ka na mag gagala kapag kaya mo na sarili mo" hahaha lines and bars I always hear hahaha.
That's it guys hahhaa Asian will always be Asian hahha so I will do all of this if I have my own place to stay, haha I'm free on all of this that's the only decision my parents wants me to do, if I can be independent on my own then feel free to do all of this just don't do bad things tbat I will regret later on, haha I'm still thankful and grateful for my parents even they are strict sometimes, still I can see myself growing as a better person because of the way they shaped me as a person hehez.
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https://youaremom.com/parenting/dont-be-afraid-to-say-no-to-your-child/?amp=1
Image sources:
https://youaremom.com/parenting/dont-be-afraid-to-say-no-to-your-child/?amp=1
https://www.oprahdaily.com/beauty/skin-makeup/a28789073/should-i-get-a-tattoo/
It means lang po sis, mahal na mahal ka ng mama mo. Jehehe minsa nakakasakal din noh. Hehhee nkakainis