Temperament.

I am OLAMIDE RUTH by name.

I will be talking on Temperament.

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Everything we do is as a result of our acquired trait or characteristics. No man is born empty, we all shared from our parents personality.

From how we react to situations, sleep habit to our study habit and how we get along with people and all that we do is as a result of our temperament. It influences every part of our lives as human.

• "Humanly speaking, there is nothing that influence your life more powerful than your temperament or combination of temperaments.

• TiM LaHayE.

What is Temperament?

Temperament is the combination of traits we inherited from our parents. The combination of both parents personality and trait that is been transferred to us from birth.

We don't decide the one we acquired that is why I will tell us that we don't need to look down on our self ( advance your self esteem), don't be intimidated by other people's personality, but try and work on yourself and grow to the best you can.

We can't be somebody else, but we can be better and bring out the best from those inherited trait.

It takes personal understanding and Value.

Some people will say "I don't like myself" because they are not aware if this powerful influence on their life and behavior. It is a person's temperament that makes him extroverted or introverted, outgoing or shy.

I knew a pair of identical twins when I was in secondary school. They resemble each other to the extent that everyone in the community can not identify them, they are of same height and complexion, these look alike is too much that you call them same name. One thing is that their little sister can identify them with no confusion.

If this little girl can tell them apart, definitely they are different from each other. So not long they began to interact with people,since they just relocate to our area. We began to know them and see the differences in them, one is outspoken and the other loves to be alone. In their academics in school, one like sciences and the other art. What made the difference between identical people? Their Temperament.

The combination of parents' genes and chromosomes at conception, which determined basically temperament is largely responsible for our actions, reactions, thought, emotional responses and everything we do.

It is temperament that makes some people industry and sports enthusiast and some music and art.

That is why, " one man's food is another man's poison".

I remember back then during my teen age, I and my elder sister will always fight that she will always beat me for my laziness and I begins to develop a kind of hatred towards her.Until I went for a program where we were taught how you maximize temperament in my church. I heard the word temperament for the first time in the program. The teacher was a psychologist and he explained why most of the relationship, be it friendship, family relationship and other forms of relationship crashed by the reason of individual differences that we failed to understand.

In the course of the teaching that day, I felt bad when I was exposed to the weaknesses that comes along with my temperament and the dangers attached to it. I take note of my temperament and that of my sister and I tried to compare it then I concluded on the point that we are two different personality from same parent.

I give myself to discipline which helps me to amend some of my weaknesses which I am still coping to overcome some. This discipline eliminate our fight and now we are best of friend.

If we failed to identify, analyze and understand the difference in each person that come across our way their is total tendency that we will keep on managing the relationship without enjoying the maximum benefit of which we are together.

Nothing has a more profound influence on our behavior than inherited temperament which is supported by environment and how we were raised.

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To be continued🤗

The four major temperaments coming next.

How to identify and maximize.

#Selfesteem#.