I have always been seen by all people as the black sheep, or at least they have made me feel that way.
And I base it on the fact that almost always people seek to highlight the mistakes that I have made, but never the positive things that I have done.
I suppose that is part of human nature, creating noise with negative things is a morbid pleasure that in my years of experience I have seen that human beings have.
I know I have made many mistakes in my life, but I have been correcting them, and currently, I am a good person, aware of others and trying to support those around me.
That feeling of being pointed out negatively is a form of bullying, of repressing a person and making them feel frustrated, and of course, that brings depression and many conflicts. I have already reviewed it many times with my Psychologist.
The important thing about all this is to be able to overcome it, get ahead and understand that a Black Sheep can transform into a White one, be better and help others, and we all have that ability.
I am demonstrating it to you, exposing what happened to me and what now ceases to be: a black sheep.
Dear friend, you are quite right. People tend to focus on the mistakes they see in others. Unfortunately, nobody sees a pretty eye in someone else's face. So do not intimidate you, the important thing is that you keep working on your own mistakes, and become a better version of yourself.