In today's world and especially in this pandemic crisis that we are trying to overcome, as a good analyst and fond of human behavior, I have started to observe how a lot of people start to despair about being at home and not being able to go out. But above all what has caught my attention the most is the fact that after years of living with your partner or relatives, now that they have much more time to share with them, then they prefer to be alone; and in fact, there have been many divorces and separations. I dare say that it is a product of stress and having chosen the wrong partner ...they forget the fact that "it is for life", for that and many other things, I bring you the benefits of being single or being alone (which he experienced many years ago, and I am very happy with it).
So let's look at them:
Free time
You will be able to get up daily knowing that you will have at your disposal all hours of the day to do what you want, This includes getting up and reading that book you love so much, to put on your tennis shoes and go jogging in the park taking your pet for a walk. You have the benefit of not having to wait for someone to dress, bathe, or delay you, the time is yours
Besides the range of activities is practically infinite, you can from reading a book to start meditating (which is one of my favorite activities).
All the money is yours!
This is undoubtedly one of the great benefits, you can decide what to spend your money on without having to consult with anyone, so for example, if it causes you today to have breakfast with a pizza, then just you must go and buy it, or better yet request it by phone!.
So in addition to having money because I had not spent it on your partner, on baby diapers, or on your partner's medicine (even if it sounds cold and cruel hahaha), you can use it to spend it on those little pleasures you like or just to save them.
There is also the interesting benefit of not having to explain to anyone about the expenses you have made. And better yet: nobody is going to claim you or ask you to explain because you spent your money on a pair of ski hats.
You will be more sociable
People who are married tend to have fewer friends and dedicate themselves to their partner while they are single they tend to be friendlier and more relaxed, allowing them to have more friends, keep them and be much more open and sociable. In general, you're going to be less bitter and enjoy life, sin m not to mention you're going to have a lot more food and a lot more of anything because you should not share it with anyone else (although it sounds selfish, it is a reality hahaha)
There is also the benefit that being single you can dedicate yourself to developing your work goals and professionals, which having a partner becomes more complex and singleness automatically becomes a benefit in this case.
So in general I can conclude that the life of single is made for me, despite having had the opportunity to live as a couple for a few months, and I can say that on the occasions that I lived it, I enjoyed it, but it really does not surpass my taste for the moments alone, for the pleasure to do what I like, and for the enormous freedom that I must tell you I don't change anything. Of course, when I need company, I look for it, and this is another of the great benefits of loneliness and singleness.
Surely many criticize me, but I am happy in this way.
And you, what benefits do you find to be single?
¡See you in my next post!
While doing my reading tour, I found a very valuable aspect and it is when you express that you are happy being single. This point is extremely valuable because we start from the fact that regardless of what others think or where society wants to lead us, the fact that we are sure that being alone is a great way of living the rest does not matter. Now, I think there are different types of people, just for this case I will indicate 2, those who like to live as a couple and the single, both are happy in their own way and all will see the great benefits. Regarding living alone, I am not saying being single, but living alone, one of the best things is the time to cook hahaha that you not only do it for one person and whenever you want without pressure. Good balances and good vibes.