@Micontingsabit 4 July 2022

I Just Wanna Say...

`07.04.22` Questions will always pop up whenever you plan something or even when something unexpected happened in your life. I have a question for you. Did you even bother to ask and get the answers that you are looking for or did you just let time heal and let the truth come out? I saved an article from @charmingcherry08 titled, Things I'd say to my ex. Well, I was thinking of what topic to write about and saw this on my saved articles. It was kind of timely because my former workmates chatted a yesterday about one of my exes. https://read.cash/@charmingcherry08/things-id-say-to-my-ex-49e7cd89 Here's a screenshot hahaha. By the way, Renz was the last ex boyfriend before I got married.

Here's how his workmates responded secretly

And here's how our barkada reacted, because she mentioned me out of her gigil.

Don't get me wrong, you might think that I sound bitter but I'm not. More like whenever we talk about our previous, current relationships or even our own personalities, we make sure to roast each other. You get the idea? But yes, I can't deny that there were questions that I ask myself when we broke up. That goes to my other past relationships too. Now that I am married, all my questions were answered without even asking them. Thank goodness! Now let me also share my POV and **Things that I would say to My ex/s.** To my first boyfriend and first ex. *I am happy that you've met your match and I am relieved that it was her (one of my bestfriends in college). Honestly, we were shocked, happy and excited when we had speculations about your relationship. I am glad that both of you are happy with each other and take care of Luna, your Lo.* To the grossest ex... *I am glad that you are married now too and I hope you change your gross lifestyle. I wish I never let you in my life. You even flirted with my best friend and ruined our friendship. Ughkkk* To the longest relationship I had... *I wish I broke up with you as soon as I found out that you cheated on me. The almost 5 years of my life was wasted with you. You played me, you manipulated me, and I didn't even know what I saw in you. All you did was lie down and enjoy the ride you lazy bastard.* To the ex that was close to my family for 4+ years.. *I am sorry, I know that I became a bitch when I broke up with you. I felt tired waiting for you to grow. I felt tired because you seemed laxed when you resigned from your work and for almost 2 years, I spend most of my money with you which I should be spending on my family. I am grateful that you became close to my family and friends, that's what I appreciated the most. I just hoped that you learned how to trust people and not be too possessive. I am happy that you reach out sometimes and we remained to be friends/civil and respect each other's lives now. I deeply hope that you may find the woman who will make you happy more than I did and will not hurt you the way I did.* To the last ex.. *I just wish that you change your ways, you self entitled man. I wish that before you feel proud about your not so good looks, money and things that you think you're good at, make sure that you can decide for your own personal life, make sure you can fight for the people you will love. Don't tell people that you're mature enough to be a man, but not capable of introducing your girlfriend because of how they act or look. Take a look into the mirror and reflect. Women are not trophies and so are you. I wish that you may find the person, man or woman, who would give you the courage to stand up for yourself.* To the ex and now my husband... *We miss you...*

For sure we've had our regrets in life or people we've been with, but do not forget that things happen for a reason and mistakes serves as lessons. Fishing out.

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