Have you ever had a colleague in your workplace that always had an issue on you? Like it doesn't matter if its personal or about work only, as long as he/she just really hate you?
Hi everyone it's me again Micah!
This kind of issue is very common situation, that I know many of us also encountered this in their workplace. Most of the problems are; Bullying, Harassment, Discrimination, Low motivation and job satisfaction.
Being an employee in a company is not easy as we want it to be.
That's the main reason why we need to studied first to know more about the profession we want us to be in the future, to be more prepared and used it as a career.
I remember when I was in a class subject which is "Work Ethics" and my professor telling us that "you will never be good at what you're doing specially if you really don't love what you're doing" and then he ask us "do you really love your choice of course? ". Because that course can lead you to a career where you grow as an individual. Once, you achieved that career you do whatever it takes to make it yours forever.
Back to my topic. How can you continue to do the job you really love when a lot of people around you waiting and looking for you to do any mistakes. That's really hard even if you had a great opportunity, great company but suddenly can end up nothing because of those people don't want to see you grow. As I've said, being an employee is not easy as we want it to be, we've encountered different kind of people but never let that person to underestimated your capability as an good employee. Because at the end of the day It's YOU can make a decision for your future. We always have a choice.
Avoid playing into their reality. Toxic people can make you feel that they're really concern about you like a friend.. not knowing that they just get what they want from you.. to destroy you. Always be minded that their eyes keep on watching about what you're doing but still continue to do the right thing because it can also help to stop them. Until they get tired finding what's wrong with you.
When a toxic person can no longer control you,
they will try to control how others see you.
The misinformation will feel unfair, but stay above it, trusting that other people will eventually see the truth,
just like you did -Jill Blakeway
6 TYPES OF TOXIC PEOPLE
You better be careful to them, sometimes they are here to give us some challenges in our life. But don't ever let them to ruin your career. :)
That's all for today! :)
These toxic friends are really weird, they're fake, they are enemy of progress to an original friend's life